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Lusting After the EVER ELUSIVE Male-with-Hallpass - The Great Swingular Mystery - We both have hall passes that are discussed and approved on a case by case basis. Here is where we see the imbalance occurs. Men looking to swing are far more plentiful then women looking to swing and I dare say that is true within and without a marriage agreement. Yes there are some really liberated sexy and sexual women in the lifestyle but they are out numbered. Within the lifestyle, approaching someone about having sex is supposedly not considered inappropriate and getting a no answer is not supposed to be a problem. That not always being how approaches are received or a no answer is delivered is another subject. So the multitudes of men make approaches. If a woman within the lifestyle has a hall pass she is going to get approached. Well, frankly she is going to get approached if she does not. There are not enough women with hall passes or single women looking to swing to satiate the demand in the lifestyle market created by the multitudes of interested men. Some ladies are having a great time giving it a try. The law of supply and demand as applied to swinging. Knowing and understanding this, frankly, the Mrs. sees no reason to go shopping for men to play with because she does not need to. Knowing this, frankly, I have never gone out shopping for s single female or a married woman within the lifestyle community with a hall pass. I see how many men my wife politely refuses. Shopping online I suppose I might have the same experience as the majority of men out there making request. Yes some of the men making online advances make a pretty bad first impression. If their foot in their digital mouth suggests an emergent flaw in the expression of their DNA or it is just bad learned behaviors and attitudes, well this is a fun based undertaking for us and not social work so jerks get a quick and lasting no. In fact most single men and men looking to play with Mrs. Delicious using a hall pass get a no. Many of which are most probably great guys. Sex is upfront and open in the lifestyle and so, men, ask to have sex and women usually do not have to ask for sex because they have several friend request and e-mails to consider every week if not everyday where sex is the requesters primary motivation. The male requesters list of expectations from her, are usually not as demanding as the list she has for him before there is a fuck agreement. If a couple wants to see some balance in the number of sexual partners they each have as swingers then, perhaps, it may require that the female half be a bit reserved and accept only as many offers as her main squeeze can find. Same goes for the frequency of sexual encounters. We prefer hooking up with couples but we will on occasion entertain a single. Usually the MFM hookups are men we picked and not a guy contacting us. The guys that aggressively send a new friend request or let

All About Utah - Discussion on why swingular has such a large Utah presence - I found out about this site word of mouth, so really, anywhere you put swingers in a room talking they are gonna do some word of mouth advertising, I have even done my own since joining. If I knew any other real swingers I would tell them too! ~K~

Profiles, desires and diversity - Profiles, desires and diversity - this thought is a bit too removed from another post that was it's inspiration to be part of that post so I decided to start another. Positive personal declarations on our profiles in forums or anywhere about our relationships our physical bodies our hobbies, interest, our friends, etc., etc., are always reflections of inner self talk. Just because someone makes an affirmative statement does it mean that they are the bearer of absolute certainty at all time in all places and in all situations in regards to the person, place, activity, etc., etc., for which they are speaking? Certainly not, but that does not mean they are not still positive. Even though they have some doubts and fears they still may be extremely encouraged that the positive greatly out weights the negative. If you consider the ying yang nature of existence you cannot have faith without doubt or courage without fear. Personally I enjoy associations with people pursuing the positive. Why? I like to be happy. I will never be perfect and my life will always include a share of successes and failures in that not everything I hope to accomplish will go well. Never-the-less in spite of my inability to predict everything or control anything I am happy to be alive afloat in a sea of infinite possibilities. It has been said that life is a journey and not a destination. I am pretty positive about the journey. Negative statements or negative thoughts about others require some cynicism. Cynicism most certainly can be a personal defense system. Expressions of cynicism about those who mean to use us, con us, rule over us or repress us in some manner or unjustly exclude us are understandable and healthy. Expressions of cynicism especially when anger is included, without a good measure of open minded critical thinking and research are in my mind often quite counterproductive. Cynicism directed toward people in pursuit of wealth and greed or to find a scapegoat for our own mistakes is horribly dark. Racism perpetuated slavery for centuries and far too much violence and injustice in the modern world. Armies roll forth to this day in the name of ethnic cleansing. Armies cannot roll, legislation cannot be passed and supported in support of injustice and repression without the support of soldiers and voters. Our freedom to swing without fear of discrimination requires that non swingers not become to cynical about our life choice. Are we to often a house divided? As for life here at home and on the web, and on Swingular we can participate in 1000 cynical conversations, blogs, and forums, chats and so on and so forth and get 1000,000 affirmations reaffirming our cynicism and we can still be wrong. Wrong about a scientific theory just means you go back to the drawing board and keep searching and experimenting. Wrong about economic management means economic hardship and we can learn from experience. Wrong about people leading to attacks small or large, verbal or otherwise is part of the dark wind that takes our journey toward rough seas. Fear without reason represses everyone and everyone to some degree becomes a victim. Could not a single moment of introspection do more for us? If we look inside our own minds and honestly ask ourselves why we are cynics it might just take the dark wind out of our sails. A painful episode of introspection just might help us to see that the real monster in the closet is not the people we are condemning but in reality our own self doubt. What

who's Online - - Just an FYI on this topic from the source. In response to MAYBEMOR's statement, we do not use deception, nor do we create fake profiles. We have never done that and never will. We've been around for 10 years, all the profiles you see are accumulative up to this point. Because most of the members are lifetime members, we are not obligated to remove inactive profile with lifetime membership status. However, we do remove non-lifetime, non-paying members after 6 months of inactivity. How do you know we aren't creating fake profiles? You don't. You just have to take our word for it I guess. Being around for 10 years has it's privileges. For one, our member base is big enough that creating fake profiles doesn't do us any good. It would actually hurt us since nobody on the other end would be responding. Second, we are in the top 10 of all swinger related search results. We don't need to create fake profiles since we are getting tons of new members each day anyways. Just search for 'adult swingers' or 'swinger ads' on Google and see for yourself. As for Who's Online, there is a 4 hour window from the last time you have any activity and then the system will delete you automatically. The way the internet works, there is just no true way to tell you are online without constantly hitting the server with requests which would end up slowing down the website for you and everyone else. So we keep you in the system just in case you are away from your computer and you still want people to know you are available. Thus the 4 hour window. As for chat, if you see someone listed in the chatroom list before you open chat, it's because they probably logged out of chat but left the chat window open. The website and chatroom are on two different platforms and do not communicate with each other. We have to use the chat window as a mechanism to tell us who 'may' be in the chatroom. This system relies on the last person in the chatroom to clean out the database information for those that were in the chat room and since they are that last ones, it will keep them showing, even if they aren't there. Also, if someone is in the chatroom and leaves for a moment, the chatroom will kick them out. Since the chat window is still open, it will show them on Swingular as in the chatroom. So this isn't a matter of deceptive practices, it's a matter of mechanics.

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Eastern Idaho couple looking to meet couples. - - Charleys on Saturday night..... lots o swingers there:) We used to host meet n greets here in Pocatello... there are a ton of peeps here. every one is kinda shy and very busy... esp this time of year. Good luck!

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Meet and Greet/Play party - swingers party - Meet and greet/ hotel party The Golden Nugget bar Ramada Inn Pocatello 1-208-237-0020 133 West Burnside Interstate 86 Exit 61, Pocatello, ID 83202 US Ladies and gentlemen, we “Fifty shadesoffucking” kik group would like to invite you join us at the Ramada Inn bar “The Golden Nugget” one of our group members did some footwork and found that the bar is back open and they will work with us . In light of losing our hotel for parties after last year’s debacle. The bar will cater to us and they have made arrangements for us to get a block of rooms at 55$ a night the only drawback is Saturday nights they host Hispanic dances there so we booked a Friday night to see how things work out. This is also a cash only bar, knowing ahead of time will keep issues from transpiring. This is really a trial run to see if it is feasible for future events, the more the merrier. When making reservations please tell the front desk it is for the party on the 24th in “The Golden Nugget” there are 10 rooms set aside but more can be added to the promotion we are getting. The bar managers set everything up for us they are very willing to work with us and yes they know what kind to parties we will be having.

Virtual "Cheap Thrill Seekers" - - Where can we post the tools and d-bags that when told no thank you, all of a sudden you're a prude or a bitch or an asshole because you said no. What ever happened to the common courtesies and the rules that no means no. Just because this is a swingers site does not mean we will fuck you just because we have a profile here. Is there a tool-o-dex for that? Nothing more makes us say "OH DEAR GOD I MADE A HORRIBLE MISTAKE LETS FUCK" like being called names after politely turning you down.

Couple in Sandy - could use some tips - - Our online community has it's problems with fakes and flakes. Real people are often not that easy to nail down so we can all get properly sexually "nailed" for a few understandable reasons too. People in Utah, more often than not have large extended families living nearby who drop by, invite you over, have all sorts of family events we want to attend. Utah employers tend to be demanding of their employee's time. Between family get togethers and work, Utahans tend to be busy. Most of our extended family members, and employers are probably still stuck in a more repressed sexual mindset, so for most swingers, swinging does not naturally or comfortably flow into our mix of family time and our work obligations. Hey, this is true to some extent everywhere, just maybe a bit more exacerbated here. Patience and a bit of spontaneity tends to allow for some great sexy adventures. If you stop and think about it lust and patience don't go hand in hand. When we are in the mood, we want to be all about the mood at that moment. The right place, the right time, and with the right people takes a lot of forethought. Desire motivates the planning. When it all falls together and we can just really, really, really let go in the moment, is when all the fantasy and desire become a magically orgasmic reality. If only it were easier! It's hard not to get a bit cranky, when a plan falls apart, if only temporarily.