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Know any Mormon swingers in SoCal? - Single girl in SoCal wants to know! - Well....honestly....it's kind of 'hot' to hookup with other mormons...Kind of like I'd love to find out about actual stories of BYU professors getting it on with their students.
Age quesiton - Do swingers of the same age group swing together? - We tend to swing with people closer to our own age, but make friends with people of all ages. As long as we have that connection (whether it be friends or more), age is not an issue. It just happens that we tend to be attracted to the younger crowd more often.
Have Diapers...will travel. - Funny, not so funny...the Love Triangle from Space. - I just want to know how the things she had packed up (along with the pepper spray) were going to be used - this was one smart USAF/NASA trained lady so she had to have some great plan to make use of it all. If she would have only been a swinger the triangle thing would have been much less of a problem :-) Swingers In Space ". . . .or would you like swing on a star . . . ."
Max
Help us out.. Take this Survey - For Utah Swingers - Not done. God I hate multiple choice tests. Is there a time limit? [em]Emo_8[/em]
(pssst! what did you all get for question number seven?)
swingin - thought this site was a swingers site - EUREKA!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sincitybi hit it....
Just looked at the profile male: 5'5" tall, 210 lbs, 5'6", 135 lbs.
He is a troll who shaved and she has not figured it out...Poor girl...Bet he has a dicky doo too...Poor poor girl...
How Do you Find Out - Question about Friends - I disagree with CandJ. I have a buddy that I thought would be cool with it and since he has found out we are swingers he nearly never talks to me anymore. We are car guys and it takes something big to part those ways...
Statement From Swingular Regarding CW Article - How to protect your privacy. - We've been keeping a close eye on the issues surrounding the recent article by City Weekly. We've decided to post a statement regarding our stance on this issue and also help our members understand how to better protect themselves from this and when future issues arise.
First of all, neither Swingular nor it's representatives have been contacted by any member representing CW to do an article. If they say they have, then the person they talked to was not truly a Swingular representative. If Swingular had been contacted by anyone concerning articles about Swingular or swinging in general, our official position is to say 'no thanks' and pass on it. However, that does not mean that those requesting to do the article will find the information they are seeking, one way or another. Just like you can find an adult dating site, so can anyone else. Otherwise, these types of sites would not be in existence if nobody could find out about them.
We cannot stop those who wish to investigate the world of swinging and from them telling the rest of the world about it. Every time somebody does an article or spot on the evening news about swinging in the local scene, are we supposed to lock down, run and hide? It's going to happen no matter what you do. So our job is to find ways to best protect the privacy of our members and to inform them on how they can protect themselves.
When an article or news story comes out, we have kept track of any unusual activity on the site as well as new sign ups from that local area. The recent CW article has not produced any extra or unusual activity from the Salt Lake City area. In fact, it's been a bit lower. We've averaged about 8-10 new sign ups a day from the Salt Lake City area for the past 14 days compared to 12-14 new sign ups a day in October. So the actual publicity and/or exposure from this has been minimal if at all.
The reality of it is this. If my family didn't know I was a swinger and saw an article about swinging, I guarantee they aren't going to 'check' if anyone they know is. They'd rather not know. I think the majority of non-swingers would rather NOT find out if someone in their family was. Yes, there may be a few more lookie lous, but I guarantee you they are looking because they are curious about it, not because they are against it. If you are against porn, are you going to go to a porn site to see what kind of porn is out there? I don't think so. I think you would stay away from something you don't believe in. And that seems to be the case with this recent article according to the stats.
Even if someone decides to check it out and see, the only thing they will be able to see is your basic info and your primary photo. Only paying members can see your full albums and only your friends can see your private albums. I don't think many people are going to pay for a membership just to find out if their friends and family are swingers. I'm sure they don't want their hard earned money profiting a site like this.
We have been in this business for over 8 years and have seen it all and we can tell you it's more paranoia than anything. What it comes down to is what you need to do to be able to enjoy this site and at the same time, protect your privacy. So we have come up with some things that you can do to be able to move forward and not worry every time someone or some reporter starts talking about the lifestyle.
1. Use a unique username that none of your non-lifestyle friends know of. If you need to change it, please contact us.
2. Do not post anything that can identify you personally in your profile descriptions such as addresses and phone numbers or visible tatoos.
3. Post faceless pictures in your public album. Make sure you don't expose anything on you or around you that someone can identify. You don't need to post cartoons or backgrounds, etc... Nobody is going to figure out who you are with faceless pictures. If you need help editing your images, contact us and we will edit them for you or recommend someone who can. You can also use a free online photo editing site such as www.picnik.com.
4. Do not post any identifiable information in the forums just like I mentioned in #2 above.
5. Use caution when adding friends. Get to know someone first.
6. Use caution when allowing others to see your pictures. There are a lot of picture collectors and fakes out there so if you get a request to see your private album from a couple or single female, voice verify first by phone.
7. Use caution when sending or replying to emails. Use your initials instead of your full names or use aliases until you get to know someone a little better.
8. And last, let these things go. The more you talk about it, the more you feed the fire. I know it's great drama and presents conversation but you're only bringing more attention to the topic. Sooner than later, it will die, if you let it.
By following these simple suggestions, you will be able to maintain your privacy and still be able to enjoy using a website like this to meet others. It's not necessary to completely such down your profile in fear. Are you going to do this every time it happens? Well then you might as well just remove yourself from the scene then because it's going to come up again sooner or later. It's inevitable.
We hope this helps some of you and hope it helps clear up some of your concerns. Your privacy is our top priority so if you have any questions or concerns, please contact us.
Thank you,
Swingular Administration
Note: We have removed any negativity or hate posts surrounding these issues. We feel that it is hurting the lifestyle as a whole and does not belong on a site like this. We have had many new members contact us saying they do not wish to be a part of a site with so much hate. That is not the intention of a Swingers dating site. Therefore, we will be removing any new postings that involve hate and negativity. If you wish to debate in a friendly matter or post your opinion in a non-threatening or mature way, then do so. We do not believe in censorship however we do believe in providing a safe, comfortable and friendly place for everyone in the lifestyle to enjoy.
How do you spot a Swinger..?! - tell tell signs of the lifestyle - just read through them not a bad idea
WHITE (Novice) - These individuals are new to the Lifestyle and are still exploring whether or not they want to become involved. It is extremely important to honor their candor in identifying themselves as swing virgins. They're titillated by the idea, but one or both spouses are still unsure about actual involvement. They desire information, conversation, and possibly mentorship. Seasoned swingers are encouraged to act as gentle ambassadors. Please provide the information they seek, without actively enlisting them. It is important to remember that these individuals may ultimately decided that the Lifestyle is not right for them.
PURPLE (VoyEx) - These individuals enjoy watching and being watched. Two or more couples will engage in sex acts with their own spouse or significant other while remaining visible to, and in close proximity to playmates. Many enjoy swing clubs for the atmosphere, but play only with their own spouse. Physical attraction, chemistry, and friendship are often important.
PINK (Soft Swap) - Theses individuals enjoy sexual interaction with others just short of intercourse. Sexual activity is limited to flirting, heavy petting, kissing, licking, and possibly oral sex. Physical attraction, chemistry, and friendship are often important.
DARK BLUE (Lowest level of Full Swap) - These individuals will engage in everything up to and including intercourse with the opposite spouse or significant other. Most have established rules regarding what is and is not acceptable. Many require that their spouse or significant other remain in the same room or at least in full view. Physical attraction, chemistry, and friendship are often important.
DARK GREEN (Second level of Full Swap) - These individuals will engage in everyting up to and including intercourse with the opposite spouse or significant other. Most require their spouse or significant other to be on the permises but not necessarily in the same room. Physical attraction, chemistry, and friendship are often important.
YELLOW (Third level of Full Swap) - These individuals will engage in everything up to and including intercourse with the opposite spouse or significant other. Spouses or significant others are usually required to remain on the premises but not necessarily in the same room. Physical attraction and chemistry are usually important. On-going friendship usually not important and often not even desired.
RED (Forth level of Full Swap) - These individuals have an open relationship. They play alone or together. They are free to have sex with whomever they choose, whenever or wherever they please, as long as they inform their spouse or significant other. Most are okay with casual encounter and do not desire on-going friendships.
BLACK (Anything Goes) - These individuals have no rules or requirements at all. They will have sex with anyone, anywhere, at any time.
COBALT (Bisexual) - This individual is bisexual. The person may be male or female. He or she may be single or attached. This color simply signifies that the individual will engage in sexual activity with member of the same sex.
LIGHT GREEN (Generic Wristband) - This individual is a swinger but does not wish to be indentified in any other respect. If you want to know what this person will engage in you will have to ask. Reasons for wearing a generic band vary. Sometimes the individual's swing style depends on the venue. Sometimes these individuals will move from one catagory to the other, depending on how and by whom they are approached. Some individuals simply enjoy a sense of mystery and the process of discovery, and some resent catagorization.
exspense of taking husband and boyfriend to party - - [quote=PITMOMMY]you know what i was originally think when i started this was that, iam masculine in my relationship with both guys, they both have more feminie than masculine qualities, then i read posts on here about homophobic guys who dont dp because they dont want to touch penises, its like wtf, then iam wondering where bi sexual men fit into this swingers community who are supposidly open mined, i would think that if this community were so open mined they would see a person as a masculine or femmine spirit, what if my bf like feminine guys, will there be any at a lifestyle party? what if a guy likes masculine women how many will be there? the closed minded nature of these parties sets the whole thing back to before the sixties, they might as well only allow straight wife swapping and no bisexual men allowed[/quote]
I will admit my mind is not that open. I wouldn't enjoy seeing any bi men activities at a party we would leave.
We or mostly I dont find those thoughts sexy. However I have seen bi couples and group all bi parties forming on Craigslist. However I doubt those parties are held someplace with a heated indoor pool and Spa. But for $12.50 each you should be able to cover the cost of a suites. But then you will need some liquid spirits but you wont have a bartender so you will still ave to mix them yourselves. Or I am sure you can task one of your escorts to tend bar all night long.
Kik groups - Northern Utah kik - Just type in Utah when searching for open groups on kik. They are not all swinger groups, but a lot of them are filled with swingers from North utah, SLC, and Utah County.
If you're adventurous you could also join the Adult Diaper group. Hahaha
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