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Blind friend requests: Do you some times accept to look at pics t - - [quote=Coupleoflove]We are one of those couples who send blind requests. Honestly we rarely send a message with a request because as funny as it sounds we usually send blind requests because of liking what we see in pictures and it would feel shallow of us to admit it. We have been reluctant to post pictures of ourselves. Not because we aren’t attractive or desirable. But we are both professionals with children and prefer to keep things as private as possible. We definitely understand why people don’t accept blind requests but being so inexperienced with this site the blind friend request seems to be a place that a lot of “shy” or discrete people start their adventure.[/quote]
Do you understand how that comes across to others? Almost all swingers want discretion. But looking at picts and sending fr to see more pictures without sharing any of your own is insanely rude. How is your discretion more important than someone else’s?
What do you think we all do? See each other in the grocery store and scream “Hey it’s my swinger friends”? Sorry but this takes a certain level of maturity and being adventurous.
Single male in this lifestyle.. - I have questions for couples and single females. - [quote]why is it that girls and couples look for girls more than guys?[/quote]
So you're asking why do swingers prefer MFF instead of MMF?
Because most women in the life-style are bi-sexual to varying degrees, and most men are not. Not even a little bit. Thus, MFF becomes the "third wheel" combination that most swinger couples can enjoy together. (Versus MMF, which is really more just about pleasing the female).
Why is is to hard for a single-male to find a couple to play with? Well, see above.. most couples don't want MMF... and those that DO want MMF have about 10,000 of you to choose from. Supply and demand.
This isn't that complex.
Joking around with the wife - - I told him I would put a pineapple and if he removed it, I would put it again but upside down lol he actually liked it but it was bare so I added a little depth of a fallen pineapple.... mostly for fun, not necessarily to post a huge "we are swingers" sign.
Swinging as solo Male part of a couple? - - I have one question. If you are playing alone, why post her sexy pics?
It seems to me that most swingers (not all) don't look at the profile first. They go straight for the pics. That way they don't waist time reading a profile if they are not attracted to the swingers in question. Am guilty of such a thing and am honest enough to say it. I go straight for the pics...
another thing if your wife allows it why not post that you are a married man lacking of attention, it worked before. It wife trust you enough, why not help you on your desires. To me posting her pics, if you are looking for your self, is like OK we are in a relationship but there is no trust you have to post the my pics on there so every one knows your mine..........Hey it's just my opinion...not trying to offend any one or be rude
Here's a lifestyle video - Cute Video - Very cute! That's the first swingers site that I've seen with something like this on it. What a marketing plan...
'Lish
What are swingers really looking for ?Are they looking for frien - Has the happen to you. - First: To Candy -- I think this is the right site for you. I will explain more below.
Second: I have read your profile and many of your posts in these forums. Sweetie, it seems to me that you and your husband are not in the same place regarding swinging. If I am right, this is sad and probably leaves you very frustrated. His aversion to seeing another man even looking at you naked means you two are very far apart.
Third: You are not clear about having sex with another man. Again, it seems that your looking for a bi-woman might be a compromise to satisfy some of your sexual desires. This is a good place to let it all out. It would help us to know how many sexual partners you have had - both men and women - before and since you have been married. Tell us all and lets see what we can do to help you.
Fourth: To experienced swingers -- Candy needs our advice. She and her husband are young, and we all know most young husbands are not mature enough to handle
Swinging with Vanillas - Any success stories? - well first off we were all Vanilla at one time.
We were the other couple being introduced to swing by good friends. We knew they were swingers, not because they told us but someone else "outed" them. it was just sexy flirting and a slow build, Not "hey we are swingers lets fuck".
our suggestion, because they are friends take it slow, put it out there and read how they take it. if they are good friends either way they will still be friends.
As for those looking for the Unicorns we have had better luck with Vanillas than we have in the lifestyle.
Is this one of your rules? What is it? is it fear? or something - Does everyone feel this way? - KYM-N-TIM,
You are very bold to think you alone define swinging and what the site is. This site is a place for swingers to meet on whatever level they choose. Finding people to have sex with is one of the goals, yes. Though sex will no always happen in all meetings. One of the benefits of a meeting that doesn't "click" sexually, is friendship. So, never think you can define swinging for everyone. It's different for all of us. Libertines are free of the confines of moralism, dogma or ethics. There is no definition to this. To define it, is to cheapen it. Sex does not have to result from you encounters with people. It is a benefit of a chance meeting with a couple you and your partner (if that applies), have a sexual attraction to. You and I both know that that is not always the case. We find that making friends first, gives us our desired result.
-Don-
What Is Discretion To You? - Chime in - To play devil’s advocate. We are all members of a swingers site! That being said there are definitely people in here that we don’t care to know our business. As far as the couples we know and chat about or share stories with. It’s not a notch on our belt. For the most part we honestly enjoy and are proud to be friends with people in here. Now we never share without permission and we never Disclose who we are with without permission. But we do have a close group of people that we trust and are pretty open with. Now in public that’s another story a wink and a nod is fine but people really need to respect your boundaries.
Is it a “preference” or is it “ discrimination” - - [quote=DANDTCURIOUS][quote=EVILDOERS]Discrimination can be against non-physical attributes as well (Political and religious are the two most obvious nowadays.) But I would call almost everything else a preference, at least as far as swinging is concerned.
One of the biggest hurdles we found when we first entered the lifestyle was people who were upset that, for whatever reason, we didn't want to fuck them. Their mindset was, "We're swingers and you're swingers so what's the problem? Let's fuck!" We did, eventually, come to the realization that in some instances our first impression, based on looks or whatever, could be overcome, in time, by getting to know people better and eventually finding a different kind of attractiveness that trumped simple physical attraction. YMMV[/quote]
Oh of course discrimination can be against non-physical ... my question was can a non-physical attribute be just a preference and not be discrimination .. it sounds like you think so ... other than maybe with political or religious?
Hmmm so let’s say someone keenly despises Trump, or Bernie (not that anyone does lol) .... like really can’t stand them. And someone crazy hot that LOVEs Trump, like wears a red MAGA hat loves, wants to hook up ... Could the political disposition “preference” still be only a preference, and not discrimination, if it gets in the way of any possible sexual attraction ?[/quote]
Holy shit! You mean it messes me up when I wear my MAGA hat in sexual situations (Though I prefer a more discriminatory MAGA hat "Make Adam God Again" The Mormon Vatican peeps will understand that one)? I thought everyone got turned on by Trump. Ask him... He will tell you. He is the best at ______. 🤣 i freaking loved your example by the way, hilarious and good point. Great example, totally got the visual! 🤣🤣🤣
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