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What is your main lifestyle insecurities? - - [quote=CypherandCeli]Our main one as noobs is rejection and drama. Yes it's part of any relationship, but it's still there. We aren't fit, we are a typical middle aged couple with kids. We are also only looking to take it slow and start with soft swap. We were on before and meet a few people that were very aggressive or mad when we didn't want to have sex after a 5 min conversation with just the guy. We understand not everyone will be attracted to everyone or want just a soft swing, but it's still our biggest insecurity. [/quote
Soft swing, to us, is a warm comforting security blanket, that eliminates all sorts of issues. Who doesn't want to cuddle up, enveloped in the security of the one they love the most? No swing, same room, no sexual contact with anyone but your spouse even more so. Really, it eliminates a lot of potential anxiety. It is a lot of fun too! There are a lot of seasoned swingers that totally understand where you are. Full swap, group play, and such are absolutely fantastic when everyone involved is ready, attracted, there is chemistry, and everyone wholeheartedly wants to do it. Our experience is that quite often the pushy side of a couple's equation is just as insensitive toward their significant other as they are toward you.
Couples oasis or Red Roister - Which do you prefer - "...in advanced stages of their lives or have been ridden way too hard and put away wet on far too many occasions."
You say that like it's a bad thing! All I know is that the last time we were at the Red Rooster (admittedly probably 10 years ago) we saw THE largest couple we've ever seen in a swing club (or possibly anywhere else!). By the time they got up the stairs (single file as the stairway is NOT ADA compliant) they were sweating SO hard and were SO out of breath that we made a break for it before they got their second wind and took their clothes off.
But you know what, good for them for being comfortable in their own...uh, skin and wanting to get their freak on in front of a small group of geriatric swingers. We did, out of morbid curiosity, scan the obituaries the next day because if someone there that night didn't have a coronary event then surely someone was crushed to death. And yes I'm a BAD person for saying that even if it's due to imbibing a WHOLE Redd's Wicked Apple Ale all by myself, on an empty stomach. Yeah, you heard it here first. The 'Doers KNOW how to party on a Saturday night! [em]Emo_57[/em]
Mexico! Come with us!!! :) - Trying to put together a group of Swingers to go to Mexico with us! - Being newly divorced, I have to ask, is this for cpls only? I can buy one of those fancy dolls to bring along. Their so diverse, sheep butt (or was that sheepish smile)? Design to only recieve, never talks, complains, acts better than that of anyone else, shows repect by never saying no, Geesh I really should look into this! lol
North Ogden Police - Need a fitness program - [quote=MAVENX]This group continues to amaze me, year after year. Swingers constantly say they are not treated equally yet when someone posts something different from their views, they attack just like all bigots do.
The gentleman posted something that is intriguing. If you don't like it, no one is forcing you to respond. Put your effort in typing on other posts. Why does his status matter? He paid to be a member of this site just like you did. If you don't like that, go found your own site and make the rules.
As for the OP, yep, very typical in Utah circles. Waste time at the local watering hole while putting on calories. No physical standards at the State level so it is no surprise.
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Thanks man!! You hit the nail right on the head. It is a good topic because its our tax money going to the overpaid over staffed police department.
Also I am proof that their is some hatred toward the single male because I cant post a thing without taking a load of shit.
Black Rings - Do Swingers really? - Black rings on the ring finger of the right side hand is definitely a sign of being a swinger. Some women also wear anklets with different charms showing their preference for play (mfm, mfmf, BBC,etc). Now there is an international emblem for swingers worn in various forms of jewelry.
https://www.swingersjewelry.net/swinger-symbol/
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Adult Vacation Recomendations - We need some help what to do or where to go! - [quote=WYSEXY]We went to a takeover in Vegas at the Rumor that was an absolute Blast...four full nights of Debauchery!!![/quote]
That would be fun.. how often do they do those?
Takeover is definitely the key... don't try to mix the swingers vacation with the vanilla's. =)
Lifestyle RV Parks & Campgrounds - Does anyone know of RV parks and campgrounds for those in the lifestyle? - Lots of nudist resorts... but none that I know of that cater to swingers....
Elusive FMF - Your thoughts? - Hello All!
Forgive the long post - but I simply wanted to respond to what VP stated SO well.
Posted by VP:
Here's a question:
Is it that a single swinging female is all that elusive, or is it just more likely that a woman who's secure enough in who she is to have a liberated lifestyle is probably more likely to have a boyfriend / husband? Thus making it a simple fact of life and society that the whole concept of a liberated single female is for the most part a myth or at best a temporary state.
Guys are programmed to be tomcats. There comes a time when "every boy must become a man". But little girls are taught that "sex is something only for your husband".
Society accepts single males prowling about generally - that's why when a single guy get shat upon in a swingers site, the resultant wailing bears striking resemblance to a chorus of whining mules. They don't get it: "They don't like me? Why? I'm hot..." Now if a woman were to go out there looking for it, then she's branded a home-wrecker, "slut", "whore", or worse. Tell me you'd sign up for that cruise?
IMHO: I think when a couple starts kvetching about the lack of single females, they might do well to have a look at why it is that they want just a woman and not her S/O. Chances are, deep down those same paradigms that are causing the lack of single females are deeply rooted in their own attitudes.
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From the "not so elusive" Te:
From my perspective I would have to agree with these statements wholeheartedly. I
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