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Swingers of Color - - Thats not been our experience. We have seen many of the ethnicities you listed in the lifestyle. Of course not in the numbers that you see whites, but still plenty. Just not in our current area......

Curious Devil - Political Science Project - ***Proves what point???? It's free so that makes it hot in Florida or that you are horribly cheap? Craiglist is free too, why not go there then lmao. SDC, SLS and Playful Swingers all started in Florida too, that certainly doesn't make this site special. We aren't comparing apples to oranges, you said that this site was hot in Utah and Florida and that simply isn't true. You can attempt to skew the point and say "no marketing" blah blah blah but that really does mean anything...you said it is hot in Florida and thats false.*** Furthermore, just because you live in Florida, doesn't mean you have statistical data that shows the success of each website in the entire state. 323 members in your area that are a part of swingular is pretty good being that it's FREE after a month and there is no marketing in that area. **Ahhh, don't skew the point yet again...323 compared to 2323....that indicates that the site just isn't that popular here regardless of free fees (you are really really impressed by that huh?) For god sakes its free after a month because it is an attempt by this site to compete with the more popular ones. So lets take this a step further and search validated people in Florida, the entire state on Swingular and within only 100 miles of our home on SDC and compare: 550 in the entire State of Florida on Swingular 2581 on SDC within 100 miles of our home HMMMMMMMMMM......................perhaps I'm right? Don't worry, we wont expect you to actually admit, not your style. Blog princesses never do** TEQUILLAROSE SAYS: How much do you pay monthly for your SDC membership? How much do you pay monthly for you Lifestyle Lounge membership? How much does it cost for AFF account monthly??? I paid $25 dollars for a lifetime membership. **Again, so what? This is off the subject again...but I will agree that AFF does suck, I never mentioned that one, you just threw it in there. We want to actually meet people seeing how we are swingers and all...Swingular doesn't have the community base here like SDC and SLS...thus going back to the point that its not HOT in FL. Side note: Swinging in reallife is actually WAY better than cyber-swinging...I promise** TEQUILAROSE SAYS: The scene is huge everywhere. Florida isn't special. Try moving to California or Oregon where sexual liberation has been around for decades. You're not impressing me by boasting about websites that you pay a monthly fee for just to get invited to a club everyone can join regardless. You can go to lifestyle clubs regardless of your affliation with a website. So if that's a given, what is draw of SDC??? I disagree with you. The truth is, swingular isn't hopping where you live in florida, but in other parts of the state it's doing great. **Haha it must be a "fluke" that Swingular, SLS, SDC and Playful Swingers all started up here in Florida huh...wow. Again, you are wrong, you are REQUIRED to have approval to attend a Skin or Bliss Party, they aren't open to the general public ;) I never said that an affiliation with a website is the draw, I said that you can view upcoming events and attendance lists...which is particularly desirable for people visiting the state and newbies. Also, its a packed house on an SDC night at any of the Meet & Greets..it does sell out but if your RSVP'd on SDC you are guaranteed admittance. LMAO @ isn't hopping where I live...I live in South Florida..45 minutes from Miami this IS where almost everything is happening, I don't remember ever watch CSI Clinton :D Ever heard of Collins Avenue? (don't go googling it to sound smart lil smartyparnts) ** TEQUILLAROSE: I don't hear shit about SDC, LSL or AFF here other than they suck because you don't get what you pay for. I can post links all day regarding parties that people are planning in florida righ hear in the forum. From meet and greets to on-premise parties. Let's not forget that the website membership with SDC, doesn't get you into the club at no extra expense. So what does SDC provide??? Information about the party? Those on-premise clubs are open to anyone willing to pay for a membership to the club it's self. You're not convincing. ;) ;) ::Uh...again wrong, members receive discounts and often the membership fees are waived for new couples...why would anyone, particularly new to the lifestyle, go to some random "alleged" couples party across the state from this site when you can attend a party on another site with 200+ local people. I pay 20/mo. for SDC but save up to $75 buck at the door so I guess it all works itself out (I bet thats impressive since you are all about savings and all) ;):: AND I'M NOT SAYING THAT THIS SITE ISN'T ALL THAT AND A BAG OF CHIPS TO YOU AND THOSE IN YOUR AREA...ALL I'M SAYING IS THAT IT ISN'T HERE IN FLORIDA LIKE YOU ARE CONVINCED.

A paradigm shift - polyamory - Your thoughts? Here are mine... - Hitting the topic of Poly.... I am poly my wife is not. We swing. I have a lady friend, spice if you will who is also married and her husband is not poly and they do not swing. We, all 4 of us are fast friends and both my wife and her husband have no problem with her's and my arrangement. THey also know that We swing. Now how did that person come into our life.. we met and became friends almost immediatly. I fell in love with her but am sill "IN love with my wife as well. I< we, like to become friends with people before we jump into the sack with them... BTW they both know that we swing. Could I fall in love with another woman, definitely.. Could I fall for a woman who we might swing with....I could and have. No biggy...If she is not into that I understand... Not everyone can handle the situation Some one mentioned that jealousy are natural.... Only in the sense that by example we are programmed to them, just as we are not "taught " not to eat other people but we kind of get that impression...Canibalism(sp) is not acceptable any more than is marrying ones own sister or brother. Possessiveness is about owning somthing that is not yours to own. No one owns anyone else and especially not their spouse. Is it natural to own a person? I say no. Somehow when people get into a relationship the idea creeps in that says that the other person is your exclusive property. One need to put that aside if one is a swinger. As for jealousy.... Jealousy is a combination of both possessiveness and ones own insadequacies. Maybe one could describe that as fear.. Fear that she or he will meet someone better. Fear that we are not good enough, etc etc etc. So Jealousy is a reaction to these fears and the possessiveness not a true emotion at all. Everyone thinks of Jealousy as an emotion, which it is not. So polyamory is very possibly with swinging but may purists of poly will say that poly and swinging are difinitely two different things... Maybe but they can exist simultaneously. Just a note; More than 60% and I've seen figures up to 77% of all married couples, and I'm sure that it extends to LTR's as well...maybe even swingers, are at some time in their life engaged in serial monogamy..; i.e., either cheating or getting ready for the split-up. Isn't this a simpler form of or something like poly? ... THink about that....

What makes you awesome? - Looking for fun couples - We are awesome because we are swingers and enjoying life the fullest despite the shit it throws at you.

What is up with Utah?! - Swingers in Utah and nowhere else? - We too noticed that the majority of the members are here in the Beehive State. It's really cool that they are, but it was kind of weird at first. "This can't be right, they have to be lying. There is no way there are that many in Utah." We thought it was a huge, and elaborate scam for the first twenty minutes. LOL

Ways to point out Swingers in public - - We agree. SOMEWHENTIME , where did you get yours? What type of ring would you all prefer? Do you like the idea of the silicone rings. Hell we could even print on it your preference. MW4MW OR MMF MFF whatever it may be.

Meeting LS With GPS Locations~Nearby Services - Meeting others through Technology... - SDC (Swingers Dating Club) app has something like that. Everyone's location shows up on a map as a color coded dot. You can click on the dot and see the profile or event. Is this what you are thinking about?

Creating an Amazing Swingers Profile - How to market yourself better - [quote=BMSHELL][b]Creating a Great Swingular Profile[/b] This was being discussed in another thread, but I'm going to share some thoughts as someone who has now experimented with a LOT of different photo and profile combinations to see what gets the best response. I also have some experience and expertise in Internet marketing and sales that has applied itself well to the swinger world. =) Our profile and photos are by no means perfect. I can think of at least a dozen things I want to adjust, add, or change. It's a process. The first thing we need to accept is that our profiles are a marketing tool. We are trying to stand out from the crowd and show others why we are unique. Investing time in your profile will have big returns. The second thing we need to accept is that looks really do matter. A lot. Don't lie about your looks, don't mis-represent your looks. Be proud of what you look like.. you'll find that the quality of the experiences you have goes WAY up. ----------- [b](1) Your Account Status should be PAID and VIP. [/b] Anyone not willing to invest a couple of bucks to be a paid member of this site is not a swinger. Period. (If you see a profile from anyone who is not a paid member.. SKIP IT). You should also attend one of the major events in order to get a "VIP" label (verified in person). It's proof you're a real couple who's really interested in swinging. (And, again, anyone without this label should be treated with extreme caution). ------------ [b](2) Your PUBLIC photos NEED to show what you look like. [/b] This doesn't mean you need to show your faces on your public photos. But you DO need to give others a sense for what your body type is. If people see a poorly lit shot of just an ass, the first assumption is that you are hideous and your giant, dim ass is literally your best feature. While there are a few couples on here for whom that is probably true, the odds are you can do much better. If you're short and chubby, that's fine.. Other people should know that!! You may quickly discover that other short and chubby people are excited to find someone with a similar body type they can hook up with! (Rule #1 of swinging: People generally prefer to hook up with other people who are of similar age, and similar body type..... ) Your public profile photos are the very first thing other people are going to see. (Trust me, they don't read your profile until AFTER they've seen your photos). Put on some nice clothes and take the best neck-down shots you can manage! Avoid photos from the Halloween party. People are trying to figure out what you look like -- not what you look like when you're wearing a disguise. If you post photos that are a mis-representation of what you look like in ANY way, people are going to hate you the instant they meet you -- before you've even had a chance to speak. If your strategy is to lie about your looks (by posting old or misleading photos), hoping that you'll make up for it in the personality department, you're still a liar... and you can go fuck yourself for wasting everyone's time. To that end: - Don't post any photos of you that are more than a year old. - Don't post any photos of you that are off by more than 20-lbs. (If you got fat since you took that photo, DELETE IT). - Don't post any photos that zoom in on just one part of your body. (you can still show your body, in general, without showing your face). - There's nothing wrong with a fully-clothed photo if you think it helps make you look better. [color="red"]Please do not fuck anyone who doesn't follow these rules. Even (especially) if you are married to that person.[/color] ------------ [b](3) Your profile should be well thought out and well written [/b] Nobody is going to read your profile until after they've looked at your photos. So if you haven't taken care of #1 and #2 above, don't bother with the profile. First and formost, run it through a spell-checker and a grammar checker. Seriously. If you don't know the difference between "your" and "you're", you might as well have world's smelliest vagina, because you are nasty and gross. Second, your profile should CAREFULLY describe the kind of people you're trying to meet. Bad: "We want to meet people of similar mindset." Good: "We're trying to find people who are well-groomed and open to full-swap. We don't mind people who have sex on a first-date, but we really like to spend a few hours together first to get to know one another." See the difference? The second example provided REAL information and REAL insight into what you're after. The first is a complete waste of the internet. If you provide information about your hobbies, be specific. It'll help you stand out more, and may even give you some things to talk about on your first date. Instead of saying you like "Football", say who your favorite teams are. Instead of saying you like "camping", mention WHERE you like to go camping. Instead of saying you like to eat out, mention some of your favorite restaurants and why.. All of these things will help your personality show through, and make you stand out. Your profile should mention your experience level in some amount of detail. How long have you been swinging? Why do you do it? What are you hoping to find? What's your dream-date? All of these things will help other couples feel more comfortable about reaching out to you. Spend some REAL time on your profile. It may take you several hours, or even several nights of work to get it right. It should be confident, it should describe things that make you unique, and it should be INTERESTING. Also, keep your profile up to date. There's nothing worse than seeing someone who's profile says "We are new to this", only to see that it was last updated 6 years ago. Anyone who hasn't taken the time to fill out a profile should be equally as suspect as people in the #1 or the #2 category. If they don't have at least two full paragraphs, MOVE ALONG. They are probably just picture-collectors and/or they are not serious about swinging. They are here to waste your time. ------------ [b](4) Sorry... But your PRIVATE photos need to show your face. [/b] You already showed what your body-type is in the public photos, so no need to rehash that here. But you do need pictures of your faces in your private profile. If you're worried that swingular will get hacked and the photos will leaked... First, the photos of your face don't need to show your naughty bits.. (Deny, deny, deny!!) and second, if swingular is hacked, a leaked photo is the least of your problems. (Especially if it doesn't show your junk!) In other words, one or two simple G-rated face-picture in your private photo section is an essential part of communicating to another couple who you are and what you're all about. (The same rules above apply, however, as your public photos. They should be newer photos that show your current weight and body type). The nice thing about putting them only in your private section is that you can screen who gets to see them. You should not accept every friend request that comes across your desk. If the person sending you a friend request hasn't taken care of #1, #2, and #3 above, IGNORE THE REQUEST! THEY ARE A WASTE OF TIME.. they are most likely picture-collectors, and not actual swingers. If they HAVE taken care of #1, #2, and #3 above, then there's a reasonable chance they're for real, and you can trust them to have a peek at your faces. One more (controversial) comment.. My experience is that people who are unwilling to show their faces in their private photos are typically the kind of people who will bring other types of drama into your life. Skip them. Move on. They are not worth your time. Beware of face-pictures that are extreme close-ups.. done in poor lighting.. or have excessive makeup. These people are hiding something from you. If you 'friend' someone and open their private photos to realize that you still have NO idea what they look like.. RUN!!!!!!!! [b](5) Seriously... stop posting so many pictures of your junk. [/b] The close-up pictures of the pussies and the cocks are super gross. (And let's face it.. if our goal is to make someone LIKE us, posting close-up pics of our plumbing is UNLIKELY to make that happen). Nobody has EVER said "Man, I'd really like to contact this couple.. but I would feel a lot more comfortable doing so if I could examine his cock / her pussy in extreme detail first." Seriously.. it's just gross. ------ [b]If you found this information helpful, you can thank us by buying us drinks, and maybe even showing us extreme close-ups of your genitalia!! (In person.. not photos). [/b] [/quote] Thanks for posting very well said!!!

young or old - - we are young swingers and our problem is the older crowd doesnt seem to want us arround. I thought be young was a good thing. when we say older crowd so far any one over 25ish, I dont mean to offend anyone:d we have found quite a few couples over 35 that we find attractive, but everyone says somthing that sounds alot like "we like you but we think your too young", So how old is to young?

Open-mindedness - - I see open mindedness a bit situational for most people and while each has their own levels of diversity openness most still tend to set limits. However the observation about the lack of acceptance of bi males or non bi females in the lifestyle does seem out of context with our actions that reach out for sexual freedom. I saw one discussion in another swingers web site about gay marriage and I was somewhat surprised at how many swingers were defending the

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