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Tampa Meet & Greet - M&M / Shylatin Parties Tampa Meet & Greet - ALT PATHWAY
Friday AUGUST 7TH
9:00 PM Until Whenever
Ladies Drink 2 for 1
YOU HAVE BEEN WAITING AND YOU HAVE ASKED SO M & M PARTIES ALONG WITH SHYLATIN HAVE LISTENED.
WE HAVE CUM TO TAMPA!!
YES YOU HEARD IT RIGHT WE ARE HERE WE ARE HAVING OUR FIRST TAMPA MEET N GREET!!
IF YOU HAVE EVER BEEN TO ONE OF OUR PARTIES YOU KNOW WE MAKE EVERYTHING ABOUT THE PEOPLE!!
WE ARE REAL SWINGERS THROWING SWINGER PARTIES!!
WE INTEND TO MAKE EVERYONE COMFORTABLE AND HAPPY!!
ALT PATHWAYS IS A GREAT RESTAURANT AND STILL HAS THAT LOUNGE/CLUB ATMOSPHERE!!
FROM A NICE COZY SECTION AROUND THE BAR TO SIT AND ENJOY CONVERSATION. TO A STEP DOWN AREA WHERE THE MUSIC WILL
BE JAMMIN THE LATEST MUSIC.
DJ MISA AND MR SHYLATIN WILL KEEP THE DANCE FLOOR PACKED.
DONATIONS FOR THE EVENT ARE AS FOLLOWS:
COUPLES: $15.OO
SINGLE MALES: $25.00
SINGLE FEMALES: FREE
A $5.00 COUPON FOR FOOD WILL ALSO BE GIVEN AT THE DOOR!!
SO CUM MAKE A NIGHT OF IT ARRIVE A LITTLE EARLY EAT DINNER THEN SIT BACK GET TO KNOW SOME NEW ONES CATCH UP
WITH SOME OLD FRIENDS AND THEN GO PARTY ON THE DANCE FLOOR.
LOCATED 1 block East of 275 off of Bush Blvd.
The address is 810 E. Skagway Ave -
Tampa, Florida - 33604 .
The club phone # is 813-932-7400.
WTH over? - Private picture debacle. - I guess I'll play the devil's advocate for a second and share an opposing point of view. And this isn't meant to be offensive, just presenting another way to look at the initial question/complaint. First off, and I've mentioned this time after time in different posts, there is no one correct way to swing, to post a profile or to live a swinger life. If your opinion (and I don't mean you, as in the poster of the thread, just a generic term) is that people should show their faces and it irritates you if they don't, that's a fine opinion to have, but it's just that, an opinion. If you are in a position in your life that you don't mind if friends, family and co workers know you swing or see graphic pics of you, possibly from another source other than you sending them, or from a random search through a swinger website, that's great. It might be empowering and refreshing to some degree. However, some people don't feel comfortable with that or may actually suffer harm to their reputations, face loss of income or have other unwelcome things happen to them. It has happened to people and the threat, even if just perceived, feels very real to some. We live in a prejudicial society that places its values and norms on others and sometimes punishes those who don't comply with that version of normalcy and moral behavior. It seems an understandable worry to me and to others.
" If you’re truly worried about “your job” or others seeing you than maybe you’re in the wrong place?"
That doesn't make much sense to me. Though taking a break now, we have been successful "swingers" for many years and we were always careful and had a worry about certain people finding out. We know many, many others who feel the same, so to say we might be in the wrong place doesn't hold much water as anything other than your preference for who you meet or how you prefer a profile to look.
As with all aspects of life, but let's direct this to swinging, there is no black and white, right or wrong. Personally we have always tried to bend our preferences, to give people the benefit of the doubt unless there was a glaring red flag or we were not in the least attracted because of what we read, profile pics (attraction) or something else that wasn't attractive or inviting to us. But no worries. There are a lot of different people with different needs and expectations. It is always fun for us to expand our prejudices, learn new things, try new things and step away from a list set in stone that we need to follow. That being said, we have our own preferences and opinions on what we are looking for, but that's all they are. We understand some people want to meet and fuck after a quick hello and exchanging a kiss. Some want more of a poly relationship. Some will never play in the same room while others demand it. There us a beautiful spectrum to life, to swinging to...everything.
Just my opinion, of course. You may limit meeting some amazing people by creating strict rules about what you expect, especially related to profiles. Many new couples are super sensitive about even being on the site. But if that is what works well for a couple, great. That's how they do it. It would be wonderful to be in a place where we could all be honest and open with everyone we knew. But we don't and we can't, or perhaps it is just we choose not to because of the severe consequences we may face. I respect people's choices to progress at their own speed, to exchange face pics when they feel comfortable with it and to feel safe in the situation they are working in.
For us, and the way we know many of our friends do it, the public pics are a little bit of an appetizer. The private pics have traditionally been more sexy and naughty. Then we have 20 or so face pics in the folder that we specifically have to give access to. Our reasoning is that some people want to add you as a friend so they can keep track of you, show interest, or yes, sometimes just see pics. For those pic hunters especially, we don't share face pics unless we are interested. It provides a level of comfort and security for us, even if it really isn't that safe and only gives us warm and fuzzies. It also is beneficial when nosy people are snooping on the site to see who they know, and even though it doesn't worry you, it worries some.
Last up, we too have frustrations about certain profiles or they way people progress with their pics and such. But we certainly think they have the right to be swingers in whatever capacity they choose. If we don't like something, get too frustrated, we move on. But we do it knowing the other person or couple is swinging as they choose and we support that.
I think the forums can be fun places to share ideas. It's a place to learn about others and see an opinion that you might not agree with or haven't thought about. Or, it's a place to ramble on about not much, so if you have read this far, good for you. :)
xoxo
Mr SRO
IF you are into Raves/Molly/E - You know - [quote=ILLUSTRATOR]What? Seems like a liability to Swingular to have that on here. I've known businesses to get shut down because an employee sold drugs at work. You would think a website like this is the same. And that LEOs might be watching who goes to these parties. [/quote]
First of all, I think it's very presumptuous of you to assume the astrological sign of any cops on Swingular. Secondly, I doubt any swinger cops are going to out themselves as swingers just to bust someone for using a little MDMA. We're not big fans but don't really care if someone else is rolling. Never seen a party where ecstasy was floating around that anyone got bent out of shape over anything. On the other hand haven't been to very many parties where at least one person didn't have a little too much ETOH and had to be asked to leave...or worse. YMMV
*I could see maybe having an issue if they were like openly dealing or something on the website.*
Having a Swingres day at lagoon - Swingers at lagoon - yes, we might also be interested next season
please add us to the contact list
xoxo
kk
New Yahoo Group for the April 2011 Swingers Takeover Cruise - Yahoo Group for info. and discussion - We have started a Yahoo group for the April 2011 Swingers Takeover Cruise. This is a group for people going on the cruise or interested in going on the cruise to get to know each other (from this site as well as other swingers sites) before the cruise, ask/answer questions, and participate in general discussion. We would love to see more members join and contribute. Please do NOT post any advertisements or commercial promotions there. This isn't what the group is for and they will be removed.
We are not affiliated with the cruise organizers in any way and do not benefit from administering this Yahoo group. Unless you count meeting more sexy people.
The group address is http://groups.yahoo.com/group/April2010SwingersCruiseTakeover
Hope to see you all join.
Shawn and Amy
Tooele swingers party 2 - Doing our second party - If y’all need some chocolate I’ll join
Single females profile... "but not" - - At the risk of taking this even further off topic...I look at honesty the same way I look at sin (not that I believe in the concept of sin). Observing and talking to my neighbors I've discovered that the majority have little "pet" sins that they unilaterally seem to deem more important to avoid than other sins. Some of my neighbors would never consider shopping on Sunday but don't have a problem working in their yards in rather skimpy (for them) attire during the summer. Others seem adamant that church attendance is more than mandatory but have no problem hitting Chuck A Rama after church. Still others are devout temple goers yet have confided that they have a single glass of champagne on New Years Eve. Honesty, to me, appears very similar. I know many swingers who are less than honest about their weight and/or age yet really seem to get upset if someone is less than honest about their relationship status. Still others state they are disease and drug free and demand the same in others yet I've seen them with cold sores (yup that's HSV people) and regularly partake in pot or use illegally obtained erection enhancing drugs. Honesty, like many things in life, is apparently quite flexible and indeed seems to be a matter of perspective.
ps- Not bashing, insinuating or otherwise making any kind of judgment about the OP's or anyone else in this thread. Just some general observations.
Symbol Question - -
WEFLY,
Not a guru, just takin a guess. Amy could be correct in that it maybe referencing swingers. LOL. I was going for the literal approach.
-Don-
Proud member of
Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - This sounds like a good group to be a part of. We are interested.
Vegas: Swingers circle or couples oasis? - Which do I prefer - Vegas baby Vegas
