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Swingers Next Door! - ABC news story on Swinging! - [quote=EVILDOERS]I wanna watch a reality show where those two polyg families, the Browns and the Williams, swing and swap wives and stuff. [/quote] You would actually share the Browns with others? I thought you liked to keep them to yourselves?

Destiny's July 15th Basement Party - On-premise swingers basement parties at Destiny's Basement - Destiny's July 15th Basement Party in Maryville, Tennessee Where: 1028 Williamson Chapel Road, Maryville Tenn., 37801 (you're welcome to google it) When: Saturday night, July 15th 8pm until ? Info: BYOB, On-premise with no pressures. Playing by invitation only, voyeours welcome too. web-site info: http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinyssocial/index.html http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinytw39/index.html Meet some great, laid back couples and single guests. See you Saturday night. Feel free to e-mail me or call for more information. Take Care, Play Safe, and Enjoy Life. Your friend and hostess, Tammy

Game ON....which sign is Hornier...(is that a word?) - zodiac signs of swingers? - He Leo-ROAR!!!! She Gemini :z

hosting parties - would love to hear from everyone - [quote=SLCWANDERLUST]I have to echo Sara. People don't know how to RSVP. Put that in your invite. If it is a small house party RSVPing is mandatory. If you plan to fill your house to the rafters with drunken swingers a few couples more or less isn't a problem. One way to force RSVP's is to not give out address until you get an RSVP. There is a book called "Loving More" I don't know if it is available any more. It is a little dated. tells you how to find couples through personal ads! but the info on throwing a party is good. [/quote] Good points....We had planned on using the address thing to help solidify the rsvps...We have room for quite a few...as long as they all play nice..LOL But not sure we want to fill the place to the rafters...LOL Knowing at least approximately how many are coming is pretty vital info..we think. Sorta reminds me of that old song.."Four and Twenty Virgins"...LOL

Game ON....which sign is Hornier...(is that a word?) - zodiac signs of swingers? - aquarius and sagittarius here

Hottest State - Who has the hottest people? - I was thinking, a difficult function with no blood in my brain, which State of our glorious Union has the hottest Swingers? Just a quick perusal of the birthday list would lead me to believe Florida comes out #1 by far. Sorry Utah, I know this is now my home State, but I think they have us beat! Anyone else want to offer a testament? ;)

Hollywood Swingers? - - Howard Stern had talked about John Stamos and Rebecca hanging with him and his future wife Beth on occasion. He never tells the whole story, but eludes to the fact that they may have swapped partners. Sirius channel 100 for those who care.

Question for those in the lifestyle - What is the answer! - Why would you envolve me in your problem. I am not a part of it. But, if I have sex with you and you get caught, I am part of a bigger problem that has just been created. NO THANK YOU! You don"t belong in the lifestyle under these circumstances. (By the way this is the M half, but we both feel the same about this) My wife and I were Soft Swingers for about 8yrs before she decided to go the full swap route. She is happy with her decision to do so, and enjoys the fun WE are having now. I would have liked to have got to this point a lot sooner and had often encouraged her to go for it. She told me several times, it would be alright for me to have sex with someone else if I really wanted too. There was no way I would take that chance of messing up the good thing we had. Neither of us had ever cheated on each other. This doesn't make us goody-two-shoes. It did build a trust which makes it posible for us to share the benefits of this lifestyle with confidense in each other, now. We feel Trust and Honesty are two things that have to exist if you are going to enjoy the swinging as a couple. Sorry to hear about your situation, but we could not solve your problem if we were to play with you, only possibly make it worse. Thats just the way it is for us. I feel some of the suggestions offered in the previous post may be your best route to go.

Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - K_T, hmmm...now I can't wait to see what you and Mr. Two come up with, though remember Mrs. K_T and I probably have a few really good ideas of our own too ;)

Whats concidered BBW? - - As swingers maybe we would like to think that the only reason monogamy became so prevalent and popular in western society is because religions, governments and a male dominance ploy all worked together as a mean to achieve power and control etc., etc., and for that reason all other forms of sexuality have been subject to persecution. I think there is a valid argument and facts to support the theory that the enforcement of monogamy is somewhat conspiratorial and not all based on the idea that it is the ultimate good or best relationship. However, perhaps, it is, socially also somewhat advantageous, in that it is so much easier to be polite. We all work and socialize with people that we hold in high esteem that we do not find sexually attractive. In a monogamous world where sex is usually not on the table for consideration, in interpersonal relations, the offense of rejecting and the pain of rejection are avoided. I think that removing sex from consideration in so many social interactions has perhaps, provided for some level of peace and has, perhaps, promoted the general welfare. So to be a swinger, and happy, do we, perhaps, have to be a bit more enlightened than the average Joe or Jane? Because sex drive originates from our primitive brain, which is not rational, we do not have absolute control over what we find sexy. So what we reject and what we accept are somewhat out of our control. Perhaps, all we should expect from our higher brain function is all the added color and dimensions to sex we can oh so enjoy. That is a lot and that is what makes the primitive urges so much more fun for us, I would speculate, than for any other species. So what 99.999999995 of humanity share is a primitive urge for sex. Preference is subject to and more fully experienced by our unique higher brain function and all the abstracts of preference. Never-the-less, we do not seem to be able to ever completely escape a certain level of primitive hard wiring and perhaps a certain level of social conditioning too. We all want to be accepted and fit. Devotees of the joys of BBW, given the chance will fulfill all their primitive needs in a sea of wonderful expansive abstractions that will color the experience and make it somewhat sacred. Same goes for most any other preference save those that ignore the needs, wants and safety of their partner. Hence those hard wired to be gay, can and should and I hope do swim in a sea of gay fulfillment. Those that are hard wired heterosexual can and I hope do, swim in a sea of heterosexual fulfillment and those bisexual will swim in their own sea and so it goes for those that yearn to swim in the sea of BBW or any other preference. To be an enlightened and a totally happy citizen of the swing community, perhaps, we should remember that albeit the water is just dandy in the sea in the which we choose to swim that the water is just as dandy in the pools we are not predisposed to enjoy. If someone, decides, that they really want to swim in a different pool, well that is their preference and if being comfortable in the pool requires they make a few changes, then, perhaps, the best thing we can do is wish them well and support their decision. Choosing to change is after all a preference we all, should perhaps, respect and support.