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Deviantdoctors Orgy SATURDAY SEP 12th - Deviantdoctors Orgy SATURDAY SEP 12th - Dear Fellow Swingers, Our next orgy will be 9pm, Saturday, September 12th. We limit the participants to those who are HWP, aren't allergic to rules and are able to leave the drama behind. If you are interested, send us a note and be sure we are able to see pictures of HIM & HER. This often requires a Friend request. Don't be shy! Prior to contacting us we ask that you READ ALL OF THE INFORMATION BELOW to make sure you are comfortable with our requirements. Looking forward to hearing from you! XOXO, M&K Here is the basic gist for those of you who have not been yet... We find orgies refreshingly enjoyable. So many of the Utah "lifestyle" events are only social and filled with people who don't really know what they want in the lifestyle. At our orgy everyone who shows up gets naked and comes planning to have sex others at the event. We play a really fun and competitive game, usually trivia with boys against girls, that get's everyone naked within about 45 minutes. Our firm rules make it enjoyable and safe for everyone. The orgy atmosphere allows you to choose who they want to play with, without any pressure to play as a couple. No more need to achieve the near impossible four-way match. You may move about throughout the evening if things are clicking with who you started with. Nerves are very common. Overcoming them is part of the excitement. You must arrive between 900 and 930. At 930 the doors will be locked and the night will begin. We recommend arriving closer to 900. After everyone mixes their drinks (BYOB), we will play the game. Men vs. women. Each time either team loses, they must remove an article of clothing. Once all of one sex is naked, we rearrange the room and the play begins. We ask that you come prepared to get COMPLETELY NAKED and for HETEROSEXUAL SWAPPING. Same-sex and play with your partner is fine, but in addition to hetero swap play. CRITICAL RULES - ALL INDIVIDUALS, PLEASE READ THOROUGHLY...for the enjoyment and safety of all, you will be asked to leave if choose to not follow them. 1) Keep drinking under control. No getting drunk to where you are not in control. 2) No drugs on premises. If you indulge, do so before you come. 3) No means No AND Ask BEFORE you touch. 4) No surprise guests. If you have a couple you wish to come, they must contact us and be approved by us in advance. 5) No single males. 6) Everyone plays the game and everyone get naked. If you don't want to play, at any point, you are welcome to leave. 7) Protection will be used by all unless playing with your significant other. Condoms will be available, however, if you have special condoms you like we recommend bringing your own. 8) If you tell us you will be coming, follow through. If you "no show" you will not be allowed at any future events with us. However, notifying us in advance, even if it's last minute, lets you off the hook. Just keep us informed and be your word. 9) Don't post on Swingular or elsewhere that you are coming. Part of the magic of the event is to be totally surprised at who is there. Don't ask us either. You have to trust us that we will only allow attractive, high quality people to come. 10) Arrive before 930pm. 11) You will be required to sign a Non-Disclosure and Release of Liability document upon arrival. If you would like to view the document in advance, email us and we will send it to you.

Swinging/Polyamory - I just wanted to hear other people thoughs on this....... - TEQUILAROSE You are right spot on. The difference is that poly requires the relationship/commitment. Swinging doesn't.. Swinging is almost always a relationship with minimal commitment (commitment/relationship is wide open to the participants to dictate as they wish) required since the participants are usually already in a committed relationship. Here it branches, and there are three ways to go. 1 Swingers that are in a committed relationship (married or SO or single) and don't want someone that would interfere with that base relationship. Just enjoy some recreational sex with others (the vast majority). If they want to grow it beyond, then go for it and enjoy. (Least restritive of the bunch) 2 Cheaters and yes boys and girls, there are a lot of gals that fit this catagorie even if they are way outnumbered by males. 3 Married or otherwise in a not good relationship looking to explore more and find everything hunky dorie again. NOT A GOOD place to go. Swinging is a place to go for recreational sex and then make the relationship/friendship whatever you want out of it. Anywhere from none to good friends.

Divorce rates - How do we compare - Accurate stats on this would be tough to get because of who would answer honestly that they were swinging before getting divorced - but you could probably get close and our bet would be that its pretty close to 50/50?? Having said that, I guess we're going to skew the stats negatively towards the swingers since we plan on getting divorced as soon as all the kids are grown. We dont believe that marriage is needed to prove ones love and commitment for each other. We we're successful at this for the first 7 years, and 2 kids; (bastards - lol) of our relationship. But back in the day before GLBT(P) started fighting for equal rights, insurance companies wouldn't cover "straight" partners either, so we got married to get coverage, among some of the other rights that might pertain to our children. We have no problem with others getting married to extend their love for one another and we celebrate it. However, we absolutely detest governments using marriage as a tool to control the masses and their choice of romantic endeavors with each other - the rights that straight couples also loose from this should have many more people up in arms about it! This is one of the problems that has aided in the distortion of what love, marriage and true friendship really is which in turn causes more divorce... and people that CANT HANDLE SWINGING.

Swingers now officially a high risk group for STDs and STIs - Do your own research - D&D free only means you don't play Dungeons and Dragons. Look for the 100% Cootie Free Seal (trademark) on profiles. It's the only sure fire way to tell if someone you're thinking of playing with has cooties. Personally we just assume EVERYONE has them and decide if they are hot enough to risk getting oozing pustulant sores on our junk. If the answer is yes then we fuck 'em (with CON-DAMS). If it's no, then we point upwards and yell "OMG, what's that?!!?" and run away as fast as we can. We also like to make sure peeps we fuck are World of Warcraft free as well.

Swingers In Uniform - Pay your memorial day respects here. - We are very greateful to all the men and women of have fought to protect the rights we have. Thank GOD we do live in a country were we do have choices the choice to fight and to protect, the choice to serve this great land, and unfortunately the choice to shoot your mouth off DJQ. If you don't believe in the good ol USA then get the fuck out. There is a 3rd world country that would love you and after you slammed them they would come to your cave drag your ass out and just shoot you. So be proud ass wipe to live with those who have sacrificed themselves for you. You just keep talking to hear yourself try to think....

Another way to identify swingers - Totally hot T-Shirts - Is anyone else going to buy some? -K-

Question - do you talk about other swingers? - After giving this question alot of thought and consideration, we have come to the conclusion that first it might be very helpful to meet someone. Then after meeting you might have something or someone to talk about. As soon as we have our first experience, we might find ourselves more qualified to give an answer. Hopefully that will happen before we are great grandparents.. (LOL) JK.

Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - [quote=CANDJ23]I can't wait to try DP! and I want to try having 3 guys at once, so I can have one in my mouth too...[/quote] This is my birthday wish! 3 Guys at once...:)

We have heard about it many times........... - Couples that are swingers - Well said TEQUILAROSE! For me there have been far more good times. I think I have done a nice job of being friendly and caring with couples I have met with. There was one time not all that long ago though that I became one of those dreaded single males who doesn't perform up to par. It totally suck for me and the couple. It really wasn't her. It was totally me, but luckily that has been the only time (knock on wood....So long as I have it...LOL) AND there have been far more great times than there have be bad!

Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - 1965 Marlin, Rambler: It looks like its going 100 mph just sitting there, But lucky to make 80 for real. 1962 Lark Daytona Studebaker.....1949 CJ-2A, Flat Fender Jeep, All Stainless Steel, 327 Chev, Turbo 400 Trans 1996 "Fat Boy"