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Where on Earth are all the hot Virginia Swingers? - Show us what you have to offer VA!!! - No pic yet, cuz we Virginians like to take it slow\'n\'easy \'for we git crazy! we too are in the NRV and we can vouch that they make \'em hot here in good ol Virginny!!
Vegas next week - Not this week (11/3) but next week (11/9) - The Adult Indusry show in Vegas is on Jan 8th, 9th, and 10th.
The three clubs that are having swingers during that weekend are Cathouse, MIX, and ASIA.
IF you want to get in with the in crowd of local swingers get with PerfectLV. Think they have a website.
J&L
Tooele swingers party - - I'm in
Those damn single men! - Where do they fit in this lifestyle? - I always seem to bring up the dead topics because I don't forum check every day, just when I can't sleep...
I get asked a lot where single men fit in swinging, since we openly invite them into our play time and I loved TequilaRose's response. Thank you for putting the perfect words down for me. And I quote so all can read them again, as I find them truly important to understand:
"...singles can be swingers. swinging is not a "couple" only thing. Swinger or Libertine means that you are not bound by moral restraint when you engage in sex. In other words, you don't need to honor the "holy matrimonial sanctity" of a married couple, whether you are in the married couple or wishing to engage in sex with them. So I still contend that a swinger can not be pigeon holed as a swapping couple only. "
Swapping is partner exchange, swinging is open minded people be they male, female, straight, gay, or bi, married or single.
The original poster wanted to know good advice for the single male to be picked out of the see of choices, and here are my criteria, which btw are things I say long before I arrange to sleep with them.
1. Never approach me (in person or email) and just say "wanna fuck" It's never funny, and always gets you a no thanks. If you like my profile, say something, don't just "someone likes you" It makes you look like a picture hunter and I'll delete it without even looking at you.
2. Listen to and adhear to my personal 'rules' which are:
you are not my new best friend. I don't want daily text messages or phone calls. If I was looking for phone sex, I'd call my hubby at work. I prefer the 'you free thursday at 11am?' messages. If we pick a time, stick to it. You only get one chance. You stand me up, you're history.
Hubby will always know where I am and with who and will hear all the kinky details. Nothing is secret or behind his back.
Hotels are on your dime, not mine. If you don't have a suitable bachelor pad for our afternoon delights, I'm gonna think you're married and lied to me
Afternoons I might be able to fit you in, nights and weekends I spend with hubby. When looking to play alone with a single guy, I will never pick time with you over time I could be with him. Don't even ask.
3. NO CHEATERS, ever. If I find out you're married and lied to me, I warn you up front, I will be the girl that calls her up and tells her. Might even have pics to prove it.... watch out, I bite.
4. Stick to the girls/couples rules, it's respectful, and everyones are going to be different.
The above mentioned almost sound mean, but it's just upfront. The men I've met are more than happy to adhere to my rules of conduct. I have had only good experiences from the single men I've met on this site. Not all ended up regulars, but no experience was 'negative'. The only really bad swing experience we had was when we first started swinging over 8 years ago, and it was with the male half of a couple. Didn't scare us away from other couples, we just learned from it and moved on.
The bashing is stupid and as soon as someone opens their mouth and lashes out at someone else opinions they drop massive IQ points in my book. Too sad.....
Do what makes you happy and ignore the rest. Enjoy "that you are not bound by moral restraint when you engage in sex" :)
Mrs Curious
Android swingers apps? - - Can anyone else recommend some good swingers apps or just pure sex hook up apps they have had good results with?
Who knows if enough of us use one app swingular can partner or arrange to work with an app.
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=emilio.swingers
This is one i found it has some people but not many...
And is touchy on the phones it works with...
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.desasic.whosfuckin
this one has a few users listed locally but have not had time to test lol
Kylie - ????? - [quote=kylie15851]How come everybody on here seems to be from utah...?[/quote]
Because Utah is fuckin' AWESOME and it's a little known fact that thanks to the Mormon church and it's history of polygamy over half the population are swingers. True story! [em]Emo_4[/em]
Sexy Swinger Dinner - Sexy Dinner Party every saturday at The New Southern X Posure - not quite sure if it is appropriate to advertise in a forum, but would like to let you all know that the New Southern X Posure ShowClub at 3420 South State Street will be hosting a sexy swingers dinner party every saturday from 7pm-10pm. visit MySouthernX.com for more info..... should be a nice time! This Dinner is intended to be prelude any late night plans you may have for a Saturday Night. It is a low pressure, sexy, and satisfying Dinner Party!
Las Vegas - Swingers clubs ect. - Me and my GF are heading to Las Vegas tomorrow morning. She is curious about the lifestyle and want to take her somewhere fun but not to wild. Any recommendations?
Why make it so HARD? - pic posting - Last weekends party had the idea of a profile party being held where we all would pose for pics with each other, faces protected for those wanting so. Someone brought up the idea that they had signed a morality clause and if they were ever found on a swingers site they would be terminated from their job. They said the company actually has people surfing the various sites looking for employees with pics. I bring this up to defend those that do not want to post pics. However, pics are a must before we meet anyone so there should be no problem in sending a pic to a private e-mail address.
If your family or non swinging friends found out you swing - -
First off, GREAT QUESTION!! It's kinda like those "What If..." comic book tittles you see now and again about your favorite super hero if they didn't turn out the way they did kinda thing. In this case it's about swinging and what if (insert relative or friend here) found out we were swingers?
We live in duel worlds--church and mainstream--where if folks who know of our faith found out about us would certainly shun us out or pray us to Jesus. Our relatives would freak I can imagine because we are "certainly out of line" for getting involved in this lifestyle.
Funny, I bet secretly many of them wished they could be this open about sexuality and free to let their hair down and be able to talk and participate with other adults in this way.
Ed and Brenda
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