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Game for Swingers - Has anyone heard of a new game for lifestyle couples called Titillation? - Yes, we've bought the game ourselves. It's good for a first time with new swingers, good for groups too, but it's admittedly not the best. I'd say average.
Hall pass - - InvestigatingKink, it looks like we have been in the LS (lifestyle) about the same time, less than a year. Everyone has different needs and weaknesses in their marriage, and I certainly don't judge what other people do, at least not ethically. We were at a party just last night and talking to several couples who have been in the LS for a lot of years. We were discussing this very subject. They all had stories of people who started playing separately and most of those couples are now divorced. Their belief is that it is often very difficult on marriages and definitely not for the majority of swingers. Now all of you hall pass and open marriage people, don't get freaky on me. This is just speculation on my part and opinion of those I talk to. There are many I'm sure it works great for.
I believe the LS can be seriously hard on your marriage if you are not in prime shape. We ourselves have had struggles just doing what we do (as I think everyone has had at some point) so to add more uncertainty to the situation would be tough. Also, to us (again, not judging) this is about a journey we are taking together. I like to watch her interact with people and be flirted with and she enjoys the same. If we were not together it feels as if we have moved on to something different. But we are probably rare. Our name alone, SameRoomOnly, should give you and idea of our ideals. I know this is going to sound crazy, but we aren't in the LS just to fuck a bunch of people. We truly enjoy the fun people, making friends and experiencing new things together.
An analogy could be made to travel. We both love to travel. But if we started taking separate vacations all of the time, it wouldn't be as enjoyable. Hawaii is wonderful if I am there alone, but if she is with me, it makes the experience so much better. I want her to share in my experiences.
Last thing is that we communicate together, almost always. It isn't that we are jealous of what a person says to either on of us, but we like to know what is being said, as a team. It keeps us honest and open and prevents us from having to recap any conversations. We trust each other completely, but we also realize that anyone can mess up and by putting yourself in a situation that could potentiate cheating or dishonesty doesn't seem wise to us. I'm sure some of you will want to interject and say "well, you two must not trust each other. We never worry about things like that. We love each other too much." Maybe so. But our opinion is that when you start to spend alone time with another person, talking freely about whatever the subject may be and are fucking that person, well...it seems dangerous. It's just like when I am at work. If a girl flirts with me or gets too close, I make sure to tell my wife and keep her updated and I also try to distance myself from that person. Not that I plan on cheating, but we are all human and have weaknesses. And by always being honest and open it helps to keep our marriage strong.
So, maybe the truth is that we are just not secure enough in our relationship to do something like hall passes or an open marriage, or maybe the truth is that everyone who tries it will fail miserably and end up divorced. It probably is somewhere in the middle of that spectrum, as most things are. Few things are black or white. But we wouldn't entertain the idea of a consistent hall pass. Maybe once, or twice, just to experience it, but an ongoing thing, no way.
Good luck with whatever you decide.
Mr. SameRoomOnly
We have heard about it many times........... - Couples that are swingers - Thanks WEFLY !!!! You two are one of many other couples we have met that are fun and drama free. Looking forward to more fun in the near future! xoxoXXX
Swingers at work... - - Work??? I thought all swingers were independently wealthy ('Cept me ... of course *Sigh*)
Swingers unnerve families at hotel - - ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
KUTV News Story on Swingers - News - If it was a "Get Gephardt" It would of been the full story vs 1 sided.
Barack Hussein Obama - Political.. I think - JOLEEN,
It's the Christian Majority pushing the agenda. THE CHURCH RELEASED A STATEMENT HERE IN UTAH TO URGE LEGISLATORS TO CHANGE LIQUOR LAW! So it's safe to say that if most swingers were cheating on their wives... They'd be bad too.. Please think bigger. ;)
-D-
P.S. Let me put a little shit on a tasty sandwich for ya and let's see if you'll take a bite. 1 Bad apple can spoil the bunch.
Any advice? - Recent birthday brings changes..... - So...having just recently turned 93 years of age, I have a few questions.
1. I enjoy the meet and greets but thinking it is going to be more and more difficult to find a "parking" spot for my walker when I'm out "break" dancing.
2. Are swingers really kind enough to help me up off the dance floor after I "break" something, and get tired of "peeking up skirts?"
3. What are the chances of a pretty girl actually getting close enough to me to allow such a peek?
And, finally...
4. Is there ANY real chance I'm still gonna get any "action" here? I have lots of popcycle sticks and rubber bands..so that isn't an issue. I have a hot 42 year old wife to reward anyone that helps....
Ahhh..so many concerns...and questions. Maybe it's just time to "hang up the spats" and stick with the nurses in the ER for the extra curricular stuff....
~Mr TiffnD~
Swingers dying out? - Is the utah swinger community dying or becoming to needy? - Is it just Us or are swingular members becoming less active and more focused on members with more money (access to high end events), more social skills (aka the clicks concerns, and only super good looking (model looks).
We have been on swingular for 5 years now off and on noticed a chat room of 50-60 users nightly dwindle down to 5 people tops.
No more house parties only paid events.
Couples are only wanting top of the line males females even and couples..
were all seeing it..
Were no ken and barbi but weve talked to other couples and noticing a trend of shunning over weight and looks...
My wife wants a single male now and again but only goes by age really for determination big small freaky no matter its just the first few lines that make her say yes or no.. And helping her screen yes im a little more harsh anyone that sounds aggressive or threatening to her i block but thats mostly covered in her profile so there bad then. ...
Ok ranting off topic..
What happened to house parties.?
To random meet and greets where homeowners can just say bye to a bad member?
to people just swinging not looking for a hookup or models for glamor shots?
So heres the new goal for swingular.. Invite people randomly couples and bi women no more offensive males only tried and true ones.
Get people who are of any looks from bad to good people who just understand there married in love committed but want to add that bit of spice now and again.
Southern Utah Parties - - We are in St. George. There isn't a vibrant scene but ibwouldnt say it is a ghost town either. It isn't a swingers paradise
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