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Have you ever.... - - I wonder how many of you may have inadvertently "seduced" vanillas that were actually swingers? It's a really fun game that Ms. Evil and I have played a couple of times over the years. And we know other swingers who've done the same thing. This one couple totally thought they were seducing a couple of goody two shoes little Mormons but when we got back to their room we pretty much fucked them silly. Not only that but we pushed them beyond what they had told us their "rules" were. We figured turn about was fair play. So are we BAD for punking vanilla hunting swingers? [em]Emo_94[/em]
ps- It was interesting how upset they got when we eventually confessed that we were swingers too and that they hadn't actually charmed the pants off us. LMAO!
Swinger & 🦄 Bait - An experiment to attract swingers and unicorns. - Swingular should make little unicorn and pineapple stickers. We could slap them on the lift poles at all the ski resorts, tag other places, and leave them in our bedroom windows...kinda like the stickers to identify safe houses and kids bedrooms for first responders. MONEY! We want a small royalty if you do it. ;)
Swinging with Vanillas - Any success stories? - Most of our hookups and extended relationships have been with people that don't classify themselves as swingers or any other alternative group.
Age - New to the swingers community - is age a factor in how a couple is viewed? - Attraction is just that... attraction. Age is just one of many factors that has the ability to blow my skirt up :) I think society gets a little hung up on it. I was out and about recently with a much younger guy and the looks I got ranged from amused to downright pissed off. I was actually a bit shocked that people even cared.
My issue with seeing much younger men is that their range of experience is limited. Now I'm not just talking sexually, but life experiences. So when you crawl out from under the sheets, what do you have to talk about? That is an issue. I enjoy conversation, debate and people who actually 'get it', yanno? In bed.. well they are typically sexual dynamos..woo hoo!
Older men...well they have their issues too. I find that a few have had difficulty with relationship/play/dating/romance stuff. Their heads are stuck in good girl/bad girl issues and so I either get treated like a total slut/whore or a princess. It's strange. Skill level here can be amazing and while they typically don't have the dynamo factor, they have stamina and MAD skills... woo hoo!
Women are great at any age. I find I always have something to talk about with them. Sexually speaking... well, women speak a very similar language and most are sexually intuitive. Even those that have limited bi experience... woo hoo!
That about covers everyone... LoL... :) Happy play to you all!
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Swingers - a couples only lifestyle? - Are singles considered to be swingers? - Ok so when you bring in a single women is your huband a swinger since he is with another partner? There a many people in the lifestyle that only have mfm's of fmf's so how would you classify them? For the most part I can agree with you. Swinging is the exchange of parnters for sex. To each their own and enjoy it how ever you like it!
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - my opinion about Marijuana
it's still the same,,lol
Alton aka joe dirt lol
Late Night Television Ad for Swingular - Anyone interested? - [css]background:url('http://www.artofadambetts.com/images/postgraphics/downloads/desktopbgs/LeatherHoles-Apple.png');color:white;[/css][quote=XPLORR94248]Have you explored whether TV will take ads for a swinger site? And would an ad cost about the same nationally as in a local market? Cable and satellite have channels which sell toys and such as well as the W network with the canadian lady sexologist on Sunday nights...National and international coverage at least US and Canada...Just a thought that I'm sure you've probably thought of and explored already... [/quote]
The ad would be so discrete, it wouldn't mention anything about swingers so the networks wouldn't have any problem accepting it. We would rather target one market at a time to concentrate the membership in that area which in turn would 'blow up' in itself. Once we achieve that, we would move on to the next area. However, we will be launching a huge Canadian campaign once we finish the new site because it will be ready to support a Canadian membership.
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Kik group for UT swingers. - Contact me if your interested in joining a KIK group for Swingers - What age group we have joined others and the younger generation didn't care for us older couples
Why do you swing? - Why not? - even though we came about it somewhat by accident and somewhat later on, I feel as though we were inherently swingers. it just took a long time to figure out that what society was feeding us and what we were feeling wasn’t wrong. we have the most amazing conversations and the best sex ever. we have more love and intimate times with each other and share the things in life that really matter and can still be individuals with wants and desires and can be happy for one another in the others joy and pleasure and still know we have that rock and hsafe place to rely on. we are having more fun than ever. hit us up if you wanna join in our fun.
Why do they run? - Why do most couples run when you suggest a real full swap? - I am certain that insecurity has no bearing on the decisions that we make in regard to the lifestyle. What you are suggesting simply isnt for us. We take so much from being in close proximity to each other during our encounters that it would render the experience...perhaps ackward or fruitless, for lack of a better term.
There is a reason that so many couples run from the possibility of what you call \"full swap\". Many years ago when we were first introduced to the lifestyle, \"full swap\" entailed having sexual intercourse with another couple. \"Soft swap\" meant oral play or touching only, no intercourse. Perhaps the deffinition has changed over the years...
I am certain that what you are describing is closer to what traditional polyamory is all about. In fact, there is a reason why the couples that you approach about this subject \"run like the wind\" as you call it. More times than not, it has proven to be destructive to the relationships in question. Best intentions or not, we are all human. Shit happens. Most seasoned swingers know this, and avoid this situation at all costs.
Most of the relationships that we have seen over the years that were as you describe ended in ruin. Most of the people that we have known to consider this method were (coincidentally) new swingers, who had not yet developed a sense of direction or an identity in the lifestyle. There are some mistakes that you can make in the lifestlye without jeopadizing your standing with your mate. There are some that you simply can not. What you are suggesting to other couples, while it may seem like something that would be fun and cool, has proven to be atleast problematic to many other people.
Just our .02 cents.
Best of luck to you both.
Luvbugs! (mR.)
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