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Skittles2469fun - Newbies - Welcome newbies. Like you, we were together more than a decade before we got into the lifestyle. We actually talked, fantasized and researched it for almost 2 years before taking the leap. One site we used that had great info is Swingers Board. We've loved it ever since. The main thing you need to do is be on the same page about what you want, what your rules and boundaries are and have fun. Go to parties. Browse profiles and contact those who interest you. Set no expectations for dates, we've found it usually doesn't go how you think it will (good and bad). Avoid anyone you get a sense of drama from. One thing we did from the beginning and do still to this day. After every party, club visit or date, we'd talk about it. What we liked, didn't like, etc. Did we mention have FUN!!!!!! Also, don't take rejection personally. It happens to pretty much everyone. Oh yeah, HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!

Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - I love my mustang!

Swingers Kickball Society - - Count us in. Send us the info please. He played Kickball for a European professional league. She coached at the collegiate division 1 level.

'Neighbors with Benefits' to air on A&E - Excited to watch? - Looking at the preview, I have a problem with the show before even seeing it. It looks like the people on it are all going to be 20 or 30 something, and pretty darned physically attractive. Great TV marketing strategy, I suppose. Get people to tune in to see great looking people who engage in "forbidden" sex. Titillate the viewing populace. But NOT anything even close to a representation of the people in the lifestyle. Sure there are people as young as in their twenties in it. I was in bed with one a few weeks ago (yes, miracles do happen, folks. Even with old codgers like me [em]Emo_100[/em] ). But not only is the lifestyle not made up entirely of really hot looking people in their 20s and 30s, they aren't even a really large chunk of it. The largest single age group, based on what I've seen at events and parties, as well as on the site, are in their 40s. And far from all being fit, slim, and very sexy in a traditional sense, they are mostly average. In other words, the majority of us are normal people. And until the society as a whole starts seeing swingers as just normal folks, swinging isn't ever going to be well accepted. I also have a suspicion that the show is going to present swinging as a bunch of people getting together then all pairing off randomly with whoever. In other words, the view of swinging that vanilla society already seems to have. I really doubt that this show is going to do anything good for the lifestyle, mainly because I expect it to present a warped view of the reality of swinging. ~ Terry.

If only you could tell in public who is and isnt in the LS - - We've heard black ring on right hand. We have heard pineapples but they are the in thing right now and on everything so clearly can't count on that. We were thinking more long the lines of some sort of highlight beam that shines up into the air, like on Crazy Taxi (where it shows how much money the customer has but with a giant S for swingers), that only other swingers can see. That would make things WAY easier don't ya think? [em]Emo_78[/em] I am totally down with jewelry that sports a capital LS for LifeStyle. Maybe my name is Lindsey Stevens, or Lane Steel. They could be initials. Then again, if you meet someone, it could possibly be super awkward if it really is just their initials. Whoops[em]Emo_43[/em]

Do you cut to the chase? - What's your history - Question today is how likely are you to have sex on a first date as swingers? a. Never b. Rarely c. about half the time d. Often e. Always, if there is chemistry f. Always, and in all ways imaginable

We have heard about it many times........... - Couples that are swingers - Well the first and biggest thing i can see is communication, especially between the couples before they play. I dont know why its so hard to ask your partner whether it be a girl or guy if this is ok and if not just let them know. Your partner needs to know you are here together to expand your experiences and for them, not so you can be selfish and have it all for yourself. I dont know why someone would put themselves in a situation they know from the get-go that they are gunna get jealous about. I mean your not stupid you know if your a jealous person either talk with your partner about it or dont do it. I think the stupid male ego comes into play alot hence why you see it being us guys that start the drama. Ow is he bigger than me, ow is he better than me, ow is she gunna be thinking of him when we have sex, I mean get over yourself!!!! I saw a topic in one of the forums here bout dick size and couldnt believe how many guys are worried bout it. Personally I could care less my woman is with me cause she loves me, its a mutual agreement that we are in this lifestyle not a onesided decision. I am sorry that you had the bad experience but dont blame yourself and roll with it not all of us are like that. As someone already said body language is a HUGE tell tale sign.

Yay Delaware. - - What, no love for equal rights for everyone? Hmmmm thought swingers would kinda fall into that category on this particular social issue. Maybe it's a Utahr thang. On other swing sites support for gay marriage is running about 85-90%. Oh I get it. Maybe gay marriage somehow threatens your straight deviant non-monogamous marriage. :-P Yes, most vanillas who would oppose gay marriage would probably consider YOU a deviant because you fuck outside the bonds of holy matrimony. Looks like Minnesota will be next which oddly enough the other swing site I'm speaking of is based out of. :-)

Cuckolding - Interesting article from some outsiders, what do yo - - [quote=EVILDOERS]I read the article and from a swinging standpoint don't consider encouraging and enjoying my wife's enjoyment of her sexuality as anything even approaching cuckoldry. I'm sure some vanillas might see it differently thru the lenses of their "vanilla goggles" but swinging is definitely NOT cuckoldry. The sad thing is that (yes, I have to go there) some single men view coupled male swingers as nothing more than cucks and often act accordingly and thus perpetuate the dreaded SM stigma. Don't get me wrong. There definitely are cucks in the lifestyle and to some the "hotwife" style of play approaches if not at times reaches the level of cuckoldry. But the vast majority of male swingers are definitely not cucks and simply enjoy the fact that their partners are free to explore their sexuality and "get off", if you will, on the fact that their partner is turned on and experiencing their sexual desires to the fullest. [/quote] We agree. There is some really bad behavior that is not "swinging" in the minds of the two of us that is being solicited online in "lifestyle" sites such as Swingular. As an example, Saturday night we had a married man in the chat room, whose whole profile is a declaration that he is bored with his wife and looking to cheat on her hit on us. When we told him no thanks with an explanation, giving him more credit than he deserved, he suggested that we had a problem. We think it is really disrespectful for a man such as this guy to suggest or request or whatever he wants to call it that we would be party to his deception in any way shape or form. That is cheating and not swinging. We had a similar request with a similar response from another married man that said he had his wife's permission a week earlier. We are explicit in explaining why these men are barking up the wrong tree in our profile content. We would expect to be treated better by some shyster car-sales-man selling and misrepresenting run down used jalopies than we get from some limp and boring males that have the audacity to suggest we would even want to know someone of such low character let alone even consider including anything to do with sexual intimacy. That is just not the proper decorum for a respectable swinger. Perhaps we are just too conservative in how we view the time honored tradition of "swinging." Well Evil old chap, we are off to bed for a frolic. Must be up early to attend to the hounds. Cheerio.

swingin - thought this site was a swingers site - OH man u r fucking so cool how did u get so fucking cool man i hope u have no kids i would feel sorry for them if u did due to u r so fucking brilliant, r u thinking all this by your self or some of your butt buddies helping u, i mean OMG u r not even getting what u r even saying if this is a JUST TALK forum why and the fuck r u so stupid and getting your wife panties and your bubbies panties in such a bunch COme on read what u r saying and same with you other bone heads U all say free speech and we have the right to say what we want read this dam ass " IF U DO NOT LIKE WHAT I SAY ON HEAR DO NOT READ IT , DO WHAT U ALWAYS SAY TO OTHER , DO NOT FUCKING READ OR RESPOND TO" U can not even followw what u even say in other post LOL bring it on