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Newbie "outdoorsy" couple interested in the softer side. - Wish to develop a friendship with another couple in S ID, N UT - [quote=Canvas][quote=LILMISSRIDINGHOOD]There are couples and singles in the lifestyle, who have been in the lifestyle for a while, who also like to take things slow. Some don't want to just jump into bed, but they are aware of the many ins and outs of the lifestyle. I've been in the LS for years, but prefer to make friends, first, then decide if I want to go further if they, too, want to go further.
If you want a friendship with no sexual strings attached, I suggest you look for others who feel the same. Narrowing your search down to just newbies, or suggesting that's what you're looking for, limits your options. You might consider meeting people with the precondition that you don't swap, but you may reconsider at a later date. [/quote]
Thanks for your input. It is appreciated! Our thinking with looking for newbies was that we could all be nervous together and learn together. However, it's not like we know our way around these waters. All this has actually been very humbling to me (male half). I'm used to diving into things and doing well from the start. Here though.... it all feels so foreign, intimidating. Maybe it's due to my wife and I marrying right out of HS. We dated others in HS but that was so long ago with entirely different maturity levels.
At any rate, your point is well taken. We welcome any advice and constructive criticism we can get. Thanks again! [/quote]
What, specifically, feels intimidating? Or perhaps a better question would be what do you fear? Are you afraid that one of you will fall in love with a playmate and leave the marriage? Or that one or both of you will like swinging too much and become big ole sluts? LOL Or maybe you're afraid of contracting a horrific sexually transmitted disease and your junk will fall off? *grin*
Most of us are TERRIBLY bad at risk assessment and more often than not we fear things that are statistically FAR less likely to happen than things we don't seem to fear all that much. Some people won't fly in planes even though they are FAR less likely to die in a plane crash than driving their car to Walmart. And many swingers are deathly afraid of getting AIDS even though it's really quite hard to contract compared to, say, HSV, which most adults have actually already been exposed to. Identifying why you're intimidated might be a better use of your time than trying to find a needle in a haystack.
But in the end, do what you're comfortable doing. If you think finding another newbie couple is the least intimidating way to dip your toes in then, by all means, do that. Those of us who have been around the scene for a while, however, could tell you some of the drawbacks to meeting people who are newbies.
Personally, we would seek out a more experienced couple, albeit one who is NOT pushy and is willing to go at your pace and is looking for friendship more than sex. The reason I say that is if things DO turn sexual, a more experienced couple is less likely to freak out or have other issues that they haven't already dealt with. Either way, good luck.
Spitroast - Mfm - [quote=COUPLE4_U]Single male swingers,,,, Really doesn’t make any sense to me[/quote]
So if you’re single and a cpl is looking for a single female, works for you?whats the difference in between a single m or f? Is basically what the cpl needs…
Secret Swingers Club Ogden, UT - Clubs - [quote=2Gemini]Dress code for unspoken[/quote]
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Memes - Adult memes - My kind of Pineapple heheh, shout out to thr stoner swingers!💨🍃🍃
HAS THIS EVER HAPPENED TO YOU? - -
There are a lot of swingers out there that
1) should consider themselves Poly. meaning they want a meaningful relationship with others.
or
2) they have spent so much time and energy in trying to find a match that once they do they make bad judgements calls in regard to how to handle the relationship.
The best thing to do is lots of communication. However if that does not work run fast. Some people do have attactment issues.
Lifestyle Stats - - Ok, so you mentioned how many swingers would be at the great RES, but what about at Levell Edwards stadium? ;)
Kik group for UT swingers. - Contact me if your interested in joining a KIK group for Swingers - Us toooooo! Kik sassyntherod
C- A - Any swingers clubs around Salt lake? - We should start to all go to redemption in Herriman on like Friday nights -
All Singers should wear “PURPLE” and show up after 10:00 pm - We’ll all know who is in the Lifestyle !!!
Why swingers are happier. - - They have booze. We got snookered on wine at the little Cajun restaurant in Pirates of the Carribean then Ms. Evil gave me head on the It's A Small World ride. Still get a chubby when I hear that song.
Utah Nude Beach Sunday - hike first then time at the beach - Thats it im having my girl join me shooting at swingers LOL
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