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What is your main lifestyle insecurities? - - Probably for the two of us it's our ages and how that may affect our sex appeal and just below that our lack of consistent availability. if you fill up your life with positives, like starting a family, those positives eventually fill up your life so much that you just don't have much time left for swinging. If you live a life where there is so much positive opportunity and companionship, and not enough time for everything you might want to do then you are lucky. We are lucky! Swingers often want playmates that they can see weekly. That's not something we can promise.
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - Agreed Two.
Let's get together and play with toys!
-K_T
How would you respond - - Yeah we've come across those cheating singles as well. Either married or have a g/f whom doesn't know. Last SOB story was she had a medical condition and couldn't have sex anymore, however it was ok for him to play as LONG as she wasn't aware of whom it was with. Most recently we had a profile name and description that appeared to be a couple. ID name on other swing-site was " Nicecple4fun " Turns out its a single male looking for a nice couple for fun ... it takes all kinds. We don't feel you did any thing wrong, just the mentality that swingers are cheaters and single guys feel that its pretty ez to poach. We have had several single guys participate with us however we generally meet them at LS events or house parties. Can't really say we've had any luck on any site with a single guy. They attempt to rationalize it away any way they can and feel like they are correct LOL and some just plain rude about it. " he likes fishing and she doesn't ...." wow I guess with that mentality she can take up quilting and cheating too, since I'm sure he doesn't probably like sewing in any form...
So what attracted you to swinging and at what point in your life - - I married the man who helped me escape my virginity....we were each others first time. We had college friends who were swingers and when I started to feel trapped and agitated about monogamy at age 21, it was natural for us to consider the lifestyle as the best of both worlds.
Swinger wife anklets? - Time again for one of those questions. - Thank you. That is how she approaches her anklets at present. We have heard conflicting reports about anklets. Most of the people we know, that bring up such things, seem to think that an anklet worn on the right ankle means a married woman is allowed to have sex with other men and or women depending on her preferences. Others seem to think it should be the left ankle. We know vanilla people, that are interested or intrigued by non monogamy, that all seem to think an anklet means something, especially in a bar or a dance club. They also seem to believe that Habits and Club 90 are places swingers go. If they see a woman dancing with someone other than her husband, and she has a anklet on, they feel or maybe hope, she may well be a swinger. Only a few have ever mentioned black rings. Interestingly enough, we believe, they bring the subject up, because they suspect we swing. Some of our friends know we swing and are really polite and non judgmental when they ask questions. We have had people tell us they have gone to Habits or Club 90 but have never run into us there. We think that we should revisit that some Friday nights. We don't want to disappoint. Saturday nights are usually already accounted for. If choosing a particular ankle, when in public, sends a sexy message that sparks a bit of playful, erotic fantasy between a curious and stable couple, then we are all up for sending that sort of message. It is how it starts for some of the hottest people.
San Diego clubs? - Friday June 4 - We'll be in San Diego on Friday June 4. Is there a good swingers club the wife and I could visit that night?
Then we'll be in Los Angeles Sat night. What about a club there? (We've been to Sea Mountain Inn in Palm Springs and enjoyed that, but we didn't want to drive that far Sat night)
Thanks!
Old Profiles - - Admin, here's a question though, why did you copy our profiles and other pertinent information from Playful Swingers? Isn't that in fact theft, an invasion of our privacy and copyright infringement on those people who have pictures copyrighted?
Foreign members - Search option - Hi.
Although there are several members living outside the USA, there is still no search option for finding them. Today people travel a lot, we sure do, and during our vacations it would be fun to meet other swingers. Isn't it?
There are members in Central America, Canada, Holland, Poland, etc. So why not add an international search option?
We wish you all a very warm, erotic, healthy and fun 2004.
Bea and Alex
www.swinger-reisen.de/uk.htm
A&E New show about swingers... - neighbors with benefits.... - [quote=KIDSATPLAY]Why would any industry sponsor shows about the positive side of Swinging? I doubt there is any big money in promoting the swing lifestyle any more than there is profit to singing the praises of plural marriage. The vice industry might even suffer financially should swinging really catch on. This is a lifestyle that must eat the crumbs that fall from the gay lesbian table to acquire any "me to" acceptance. It seems like social and financial suicide for the deep pockets.[/quote]
Why would they? They probably wouldn't. I strongly suspect it will show only really fit, conventionally sexy, couples on some kind of a bedroom merry-go-round. Along with, if they find it, some couple or couples whose relationship gets screwed up by swinging. And I wouldn't be a bit surprised if they created a situation like that for the show if they didn't just find one.
But a REAL reality show about swinging, showing people from 18 through their 60s or 70s, with the biggest single group in their 40s, with bodies ranging from incredibly skinny through obese? People who are, except for having rejected society's "you only have sex with your significant other" commandment, are absolutely and completely normal people? No, THAT show they'd never sponsor.
I expect that this show, if it has any effect at all on society's view of swinging, will have a negative one, reinforcing the idea that swingers will jump into bed with anyone, and leading to even more people "signing up" in the expectation of getting laid whenever they feel like it.
Are we really as judgmental as vanilla people? - - [quote=THOUGHTGARDEN]Are some people perhaps confusing "judgemental" with "selective"?[/quote]
Right - some people seem to think that because we are swingers we have sex with anyone and therefore they view a rejection as a personal snub. I think they forget that "just not that into you" applies as much in swinging as vanilla relationships.
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