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Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - It seems the bad experiences with a few select single males has lead to such "hatred" in the lifestyle. We don't have an interest in playing with single males but we can say that for the most part they have been very respectful upon our reply. Hopefully as time passes the single male will continue to get a better name and those that are disrespectful will be in the minority.
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Affair Match - - Very well said Lusty... and many others of you... Its not a matter of judgementalism for I too fall on the perhaps wierdly mystical side that "everything is perfect, there is ultimately no "making right or wrong". However, thats not to say that we dont all have 'preferences'. It just seems wierd to attract cheating spouse lurkers to a dedicated swingers site. Did we ever find out if Swingular has a similar ad on the Married Affair site attracting affair seekers to what they might believe is an "easy hunting ground" for tail?
PS... it is sooo good to hear so many speaking about how important it is to hold a field of Non-judgement and full acceptance. For the record, my opposition to this banner ad reflects my present desire to align myself with with open, honest swingers. In my past I have both been a cheater and played with cheaters. Its nice to have evolved into a fully honest, open marriage and found you all in a community of so many who embrace just how strong, good and honorable this type of relationship can be. Thanks to you all and hope to meet many more.
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Single Males - - [quote=EVILDOERS]
...get a girl to join you....Not only do you now "bring more to the table", but you have the added credibility that if you can find and finesse a girl into joining you in this little adventure we call swinging (whether it be a girlfriend, a wife, a second cousin twice removed, or just a hot fwb) you might just not be a giant douchecopter.[/quote]
Ignoring the need to "finesse" someone and unhealthy gender stereotypes in general, this line of reasoning is a little troubling as it presumes that a male's company is inherently worth less. Or that an absence of semi-romantic relationships somehow speaks poorly of his character. I personally think approaching someone whom you aren't already fairly close with and soliciting to go to a swingers party is a bit out of line. Especially if her company is sought as an accessory to demonstrate to others that he is not, as you say, “a douchecopterâ€. Call me old-fashioned.
[quote=EVILDOERS]
I know we can't be the only people who secretly wonder just a little bit about some single guys and why they aren't with somebody. Do they secretly hate women (yes, we've met some that actually do), are they just too lazy (or busy, maybe...but hey, we're all busy) to find someone, are they serial killers and/or just not very nice guys? [/quote]
Oh, I hope you are! That's a really unfortunate outlook to have. Promising relationships take time to find, let alone build to the requisite amount of trust and stability to try things like this. In the mean time, I don't see anything wrong with someone pursuing their interests while still holding out for someone worthy of their emotional investment. To me, that behavior is quite attractive should be respected! It doesn't get any better than someone who is confident, self-actualized, and motivated to pursue their desires. Sadly, it sounds their gender influences whether this is seen as a desirable trait.
I'm not sure how long you've been out of things (30 years?), but it's easy to forget the struggle when you're comfortable in a marriage. Things are more fluid. People don't feel the need to settle down like they used to.
[quote=EVILDOERS]I know many will say they've tried and swinging is a deal breaker for most women. After almost 3 decades in the swinging trenches meeting and talking to other people, both couples and singles, we would disagree....many, if not most, women could eventually come around to the idea of swinging once they feel safe and secure in a relationship.[/quote]
This is just confirmation bias if the evidence comes from a sample of people you have met while swinging.
[quote=EVILDOERS]...those of us who DID put in all the blood, sweat, and tears into a relationship and allow it to grow to the point of daring (don't think for a second we aren't risking a LOT in opening up our relationships to other people!) to allow others access to our significant other sometimes wonder why some others want to take a shortcut to all the sweet swinging bennies with little or no risk on their own part.[/quote]
If you're not comfortable sharing your wife with someone you might view as a potential competition, you definitely don't have to. On the other hand, there are a lot of people enjoy it :) This smacks of the old “you must suffer as I did†chestnut.
Vegas Jan 2023 - What's the hot setup for Vegas during the AVN awards? - Hi all! What is the best approach to the swingers scene during the AVN awards in Vegas in early January?
Thanks for your help!
Other Swinger sites in Utah - Anyone tell us of other sites? - Here are the sites we use and our username there. Look us up and we'll show you around (couples only)
swinglifestyle.com
2NParadisse. They offer lifetime membership. One of the best sites ever for USA and Canada, eh?
aff.com
2NParadisse and DanNSuzy. If you sing up as a couple your membership will turn into a gold membership after about a month. Don't spend your money there on memberships, just wait until your profile turns into a gold profile and you'd have access to everything. We've been there since 1998 lol. Still a very good site, always evolving and we meet new people there often. Met our first couple there. Good globally also a few profiles from Mars.
sdc.com
FlorDCanela. I think this site is best for the East Coast. We meet people there occasionally. U have to pay.
kasidie.com
2NParadisse. not our cup of tea but sometimes good for party info. Some people in SoCal swear by it.
reddit.com the swingersr4r and other subreddits
FunMachina. We had been super lucky there for over a year meeting couples in their 20's lol. This is a free and unexploited gem.
In Spain we used onswingers.com
FlorDCanela. very good but limited to Spain and is in Spanish.
UK/Europe c4fonline.com - not so good for us when we were in Spain.
fling.com some people contacted us from there once.
Locanto.com kinda like what CL used to be. Not much going on there. Weirdos.
https://www.newbienudes.com/ has some potential. I just have not looked into it yet because we always have something going on when we decide to get out and play.
Regular dating apps like tinder, kindle.. you can open a profile of your lady seeking other ladies, just say that you are married and hubby wants to join too. And then... Bingo! You entered the Unicorn Realm!
Also non website nor non swinger party contacts:
Just take your lady to a strip joint and have her make friends with the girls. This works good in SoCal where girls are less professional. Could work in Vegas but good luck, they are real hustlers there.
Also, the wife and I were on a non-swingers date the just 2 of us, went to have a beer and play pool. This other couple was checking us out. We started chatting normally and pleasantly. The girl told me my wife was very cute. So, I told the girl, "my wife just said the same about you, how funny!" Ended up MFMF later at their place.
UPDATES: Lifestylelounge.com: use it if is free. otherwise not worth a penny. old profiles, abandoned page.
trueswingers.com review coming soon.
bisexualplayground.com met a couple there once. Not sure if still up.
alt.com seen it looks like whips and chains stuff.
Gone but not forgotten:
Craigslist Personals. Those were good to meet couples but tons of weirdos.
SwingDater.com met a long term couple there.
playersxchange.com a buddy's site. gone.
swingerads.com
We don't do much apps.
**01/31/2022 UPDATE**
Try the Doublelist couples seeking couples sections. We had played with a few couples from there in just 6 months using it. Beware is free to lots of fakes and time-a-wasters.
Also, make a habit of running any pic you receive on tineye. However, if the pic creates no matches, do not assume is a real pic. I'll say most contacts from non pay sites are fake. There is something about real and sincere people fakers can't never get. PM for details.
What is your main lifestyle insecurities? - - Probably for the two of us it's our ages and how that may affect our sex appeal and just below that our lack of consistent availability. if you fill up your life with positives, like starting a family, those positives eventually fill up your life so much that you just don't have much time left for swinging. If you live a life where there is so much positive opportunity and companionship, and not enough time for everything you might want to do then you are lucky. We are lucky! Swingers often want playmates that they can see weekly. That's not something we can promise.
Orgy Party by Swingers Circle in Las Vegas - - The Red Rooster. Especially if you like kickin' it old school. The orgy pit is a must do. Just lube yourself up and dive in. [em]Emo_67[/em]
Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - I can't wait to try DP! and I want to try having 3 guys at once, so I can have one in my mouth too...
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