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Polyamory anybody? - - Not all polyamorous people are swingers, and not all swingers are given to polyamory. Some are naturally inclined to enjoy both alternatives. Perhaps, most of us fall someplace near the middle ground between polyamory including multiple commitments, all on equal ground, or just casual sex just for pleasure. We both seem to find ourselves near the center ground. We both enjoy a bit less guarded perspective, where we can let our emotions go where they will. We have both enjoyed some extra martial sexual relationships which included some romance. Really, nobody has ever drawn either of us into their influence or romantic spell as deeply as we feel toward each other. So, in the truest sense, we are not or at least have not yet, ever become fully polyamorous. It may be that after almost four decades together, our bond as a couple just naturally creates some boundaries. Our decision to swing began and remains a decision that stems from our shared desires. It is an agreement, that encourages each other’s pleasure. Fidelity, does not require monogamy. Full allowing each other to experience pleasure and relationships is in and of itself a commitment to each other’s growth and joy!
Swingers clubs are the new singles hangout? - - seems strange that singles would go to a swing club to find a lifetime mate :)
But, at the same time, we have heard of alot of single straight men and women going
to bi-bars, or gay bars. Maybe it's all just that Curiosity thing you know?
They may be going to see what it is like at one.
What do you think?
Playing with \"swingers\" vs \"nonswingers\" - - Something to consider is that non-swingers often view swingers as people who will sleep with anyone as long as they are breathing, hence much of the eagerness expressed on the non-swingers part to be involved. Single males who are into swinging at least understand that they have been chosen and there is such as thing as discretion involved in such encounters.
This isn\'t always the case, but it is something we have experienced with some of our friends who aren\'t swingers that have open enough minds to handle the fact that we are, but don\'t get that we don\'t have sex with any and every available person. If you do decide to go ahead with it, I would suggest that you have a real talk with this guy to make sure he really understands where you\'re coming from and where things are headed (ie. no kissing or anything else and then telling, unless you don\'t mind).
My .02
-SG
Age quesiton - Do swingers of the same age group swing together? - We agree that attitude it more important than age. We swing with older and younger, and they all have been great experiences. We hope to keep meeting great people no matter what the age.
Ways to point out Swingers in public - - Just randomly point and announce..."hey look, theyre swingers" and see what kind of reaction you get from others around you. We have the black rings, but as not3d above that theyve become so common now by everyone that weve never had anyone react to them.
Advertising your self - Do it like You would a house or car - If your job is at the stake you are not getting paid for that anyway. Most swingers are willing to comfort you and greet your hole (Well your wife's hole) with a kiss if your ward or stake finds out and you get excommunicated. Think of all the money you will have to buy naughty school girl outfits and a camera to take pictures once you no longer have to pay your 10%.
We saw Oozing Pustules as the lead off band for Jack Off Jill. They sucked!
Chat room - - We do use our cell phones and Facetime with well-established lifestyle friends. Threema is a excellent inexpensive encrypted chat function with some group capabilities. We don't know any swingers that use it.
We Need Our Members Opinions!! - Please read and reply.... - 1.What was the determining factor to get you to buy a membership?
Definately the cost, it was a bargain fo rwhat was being offered.
2.What features were a big part of your decision?
The fact that it is dedicated (mostly) to Swingers.
3.Are there features you didn't know about until you discovered them later?
Not really, I had a pretty good idea as to what was on the site because the person that recommend it gave me a pretty comprehensive tour.
4.What do you think could have helped you make a quicker decision?
Nothing..
5.Do you have any ideas that could help entice more members to purchase a membership?
Maybe restrict full search capabilities to only members.
6.If you haven't made a purchase yet, why not
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Burnt out from searching - - Keep in mind that a lot of profiles on here are entirely fabricated, or inactive. You can't trust the "Last Visit" date on their profile because swingular puts inactive profiles online to give the feel of more activity than there really is. We know this because we have an old profile on here that we abandoned a long time ago and we don't even remember the password. We see it showing up on the "Members Online" page sometimes. I can assure you, that member is NOT online.
Anybody else notice that so many of of the new members, almost always from outside of Utah, have their profile pictures posted sideways. Bots can't see when that happens, they're just populating empty fields. There are three of them showing up in the new members list as we type this.
Swingular is a Utah centric site. We moved to South Carolina for a while and we sent out maybe 100 messages to members that "were online" at the time, and never got a single response. We never got a message from any of the "active" members on our area. Nobody ever accepted a single friend request. But there were plenty of active swingers showing up on the site. Weird.
Calling all losers! - LS and club scene - As a single male (when we are invited), it's hard to make any connections in a LOUD club. I have some female friends (whom I'm sure that many couples would love), but inviting them to a loud "swingers" environment, isn't always attractive to them. On the other hand, a quiet, more relaxed/intimate setting is much more desirable to the women that I hang with. Also, if a couple would be willing to take a chance on a single male, dinner and drinks might be a lot less threatening for everyone involved. No expectations.... just getting to know each other.
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