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Swingers Vacation Spots - Help us - O.K.we are going to blow all your minds how about this SNOW Skiing in the Swiss or Austrian ALPS. After a day of skiing take all those cold bodies and retreat to this huge Suite where you spend all night until the following morning in a HOT, SEXY, WILD ORGY with a grouip of Cold but very horny ski fanatics and then you go skiing right after you got a bit of sleep then this continues for a FULL week just think about your knees would be numb by the end of the trip all you wouldhave to do is figure out was it the skiing or the fucking that made them weak ;)
We have done the skiing part in these Alps an can attest to the great slopes unfortunately the Swinging part never happened although we did manage to go to a Austrian swing club after the last day of skiing and it was the first time my wife had her pussy ate bye a lady. Thats our dream trouble is at 45 and 48 we don't have many years left till our knees give out !
Norm&Sharon
Playing Alone - - Couples all have different rules. Many categorically refuse to play alone with ANYONE ever. This is their "security" place. They feel comfortable in the place where they can see each other and "protect" if necessary. It takes some people a long time to get passed this.
It's kind of a 'control' thing leftover from the vanilla life. I'm not saying it's bad, good or indifferent it's just the way it is. Some people take longer to get passed their histories as vanillas than others. As they progress and get more comfortable with themselves, the lifestyle, their partners then they will slowly open up and begin to trust a bit more.
Don't take it personally, that's the key. Many people still hang on to their vanilla background that their partners are their most 'valued' possession. I liken it to my $450 deep sea fishing reel. Sure I'll loan it to someone to use if I'm on the boat with them and can make sure they're taking care of it. Is there anyone I'd just let 'borrow' it out right for the day or weekend? Not a chance in hell.
It takes time to let go of that 'she's/he's mine' get feeling. I think my wife and I took almost 6 years before we got there successfully. We tried many times before that but it never worked out well for either of us. We finally came to a point where it's okay to play separately everything from next room to next state it no longer bothers us. I personally prefer within 30 - 50 miles so she get's home faster for the "after play" sex you're describing (which I really like too.)
You'll have to find a VERY secure, VERY established, VERY strong couple to fulfill your fantasy. They are out there, my wife and I for example but even though we're open to playing separately are we open to YOU playing with her or me separately? That's a different level of trust. Does it mean no? No. It means "maybe" in time it's a possibility. (I'm speaking hypothetically of course.)
Don't worry your "couple" or "person" will come along. You might also try investigating a subsection of the lifestyle called "hotwifeing" while I know few swingers who are hardcore into only hotwifing, there are quite a few that tip toe in that part of the lifestyle (quick def, she plays he doesn't except with her.) That's the post play joy for you and the play and post play joy for her. Most people just bounce between that and swinging. There are people out there just be patient and don't expect it from any current playmates that you have established rules with, they need to progress at their own speed.
Age, does it matter? - - In truth yes it does. Perhaps more so on the upside of aging. I seriously doubt that most of the people on this site in their 20s, 30s or 40s are including people in their 60s or 70s in their search parameters. I would guess most swingers tend to prefer people no more than 15 years beyond their ages. That’s understandable. As for older people playing with younger swingers, that probably extends downward a bit further than 15 years. As for the two of us, we don’t hit on people a lot younger than we are, but if they make the first move, we are open to the possibility. It’s happened. We’ve hooked up with people 30 years younger than I was at the time, and 23 years younger than Mrs. Delicious. It’s the exception and not the norm. It kind of depends on their mental and emotional level of maturity. Well, we can say that for people of any age. Character flaws that can spoil an encounter exist in every age group. Best of luck!
Tinder? Bumble? - What are your thoughts on tinder or bumble? Any luck meeting ls folk? - Any similar ones for swingers?
Vanilla Party pickups - Vanilla Party pickups - Hi,
Just curious about the reality of picking up a single female or a couple at a vanilla party gathering? Not meeting actual swingers at the party and then going from there, but going to the party and meeting someone new and playing with them?
Does it really happen, or is it just in the movies? :)
BUSTED! Your Kids Found Out Your Swingers. Now What? - - ok, if i wanted you to know more about me i would put my pic. on the site and tell you more about me ....i don't....!!! as for children that found out about your lifestyle and successfully continued life as normal good for you , you had good luck...as for my job and spelling i bet you a d.p. fuck that obama knows less spelling then i do ... .lol. as how do i know what i say "I successfully striped parents from the right to live with their children and placed them in foster home care , got it?????? "
Carnival Breeze Sept 13 - - We will be going on our second swingers cruise, the Independence Of The Seas Swingers Cruise - Nov 2014. We had a great time on our last one.
Why are there so many swingers from Utah? - - heyy Not everyones from UT.... us Floridians make up a big chunk of this site also!! :)
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - AKLIM69,
Look at the "who's online" button under the SEARCH/BROWSE tab. There are plenty of people online right now seeking single males. Granted they are the minority, but from my locale, the search brought a 20-30% return per page, for those seeking single males.
Again, it's not up to you or I to dictate what it sexually acceptable for everyone else. If that were the case swinging should be outlawed because we sure as hell are not the majority compared to the rest of the country.
-D-
Frustration with Friend Requests - - [quote=EVILDOERS]The underlying problem is the "we're swingers, you're swingers" mindset. We've been around the scene for a long time and met many many people who don't understand why we won't just fuck them...afterall, they're swingers and we're swingers...so let's just fuck already. This "hobby" is for fantasy fulfillment. If you aren't at least a little bit attracted to someone for any reason then what the hell is the point of fucking them? Especially when most of us can stay home and have WAY better sex with someone we love. [/quote]
Exactly!!! Couldn't put it better myself!!
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