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Single male in this lifestyle.. - I have questions for couples and single females. - Heya Josh. These are all extremely well thought out responses. Take them to heart. I'd also like to add that quite a few couples opt to have the man from a friendly, familiar, and secure couple fill the role of the second man from time to time. Most of the people here have healthy, loving, and established lives with someone they trust deeply. The less in-roads for unstable elements, the better.
Don't take it personally. When I was active as part of a couple screening all the single men was a chore. There is an unfortunately well-deserved stigma tied to single men in this scene. Many figure that swingers are an easy lay and end up simply being a nuisance, or worse, a creep or downright menace. Disrespect and deception abound. That's not a personal knock as I don't know ya.
Be smart. Be respectful. Don't fret if you're not a hot commodity. It's the nature of the scene.
How close is too close - - I think that the question poses a number of possibilities... If only one person is starting to feel something beyond sexual attraction then that person should step back and examine why they are feeling this way. If it is only one way then the person who is having the feelings needs to take stock of the reality of the situation and realize the potential problems involved. If the situation is mutual and noone else realizes it then the two involved need to discuss it... and they both have to weigh the situation. Why is this happening and are the possible ramifications worth the risks involved... If it is possible talk about it with everyone concerned and make a determination as to what needs to be done. I've actually heard about a situation where a couple split over a swinging situation and the lady from the one couple went with the guy from the other couple and the gal from the other couple went with the husband of the woman that went with her husband.. A real twist on the concept of swapping....
Being poly may put a totally different slant on how I look at this problem... since I am involved with a married woman. My wife and her husband are not poly... The other couple are not swingers and we are very good friend as couples... and everyone knows about she and I. It's very difficult to explain to anyone how this works but it does and it can..... So I have a unique perspective on love and swinging... or just married people and love between non married people in married situations.
I would generally say, however, that swingers should not get into love situations unless you and your mate and the other couple can handle this situation.. If a love relationship starts to happen run don't walk to the nearest exit and don't turn around.
Just possibilities .. There are quite a few poly people involved iin swinging...including some of the older people entering into swinging... They are looking to expand their sexual and love relationships as well. THere are also younger people in the lifestyle who are poly.. The subject has come up a surprising number of times of various swinger sites...
So if you're not poly and start to feel love for someone other than you mate... Assess you first as to why... but regardless, if you love your mate....get away fromo that particular situation...
Ray
Spitroast - Mfm - [quote=COUPLE4_U]Single male swingers,,,, Really doesn’t make any sense to me[/quote]
And your profile says looking for cpl and SINGLE FEMALES…
Swinger & 🦄 Bait - An experiment to attract swingers and unicorns. - 1SexyCouple, look more closely at the Lucky Charms...this variety is EXTRA magically delicious! Google, “Pineapple Swingers.” You’ll sleep better tonight now that you know this stuff...and you’ll never grocery shop the same way again. 😂
Unicorns are real...I had them in the palm of my hand!
Meeting Couples - How to approach - We travel a lot and see couples we would be interested in getting with. Since we know of no way to determine if they are swingers does anyone have suggestions how to approach or bring up the subject>
Ralph and Fae
Female sex fantasies. - What do women really think about sex? - [quote=SUENDAN]This was Harley's final and absolute fantasy on Suicide Squad.
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Women rarely fantasize about the carnal and brutal side of sex men obsess about 24/7. Women dream about protection, stability, health, family life, abundance of resources, being respected and being married to a nice guy, good provider and overall, happiness.
It is us men who plant those seeds of complex, open and spicy sexual relations of them. And 99% play along initially out of fear of abandonment by her man. Women are hardwired to have their men interested in her by often providing recreational sexual activity. That's why they usually go along with swinging and that's why they tolerate and sometimes welcome men's extra-curricular activities of him fucking a FWB, hallpassing him or allowing him to shred his cock into pieces to online porn. She feels safe he will not leave her while getting him off her hair for a bit while she runs the household and relaxes. Is a win-win situation for her.
Women are often advised to "spice up their loivelife/marriage" to keep her man interested. Men are always advised to take care of his wife/family or face consequences.
In conclusion, women do not fantasize about sex the same way men do. They rarely fantasize unless the seeds have been planted by a male. Same way heroin will cause you an immense pleasure the first time you try it but we all know we rather don't try it. Women just want to have a long, relax and beautiful life surrounded by abundance and a loving family.
So, Mr. EvilDoers, the purpose of those interesting books you are reading were just to be sold and to make money for the author. The author simply found inspiration on a supposed ideal yet fictitious reality. Not everyone likes them, not everyone agrees. But the actual truth too far from it the same way we'll never see the Death Star opaquing our moon. [/quote]
Sorry,
I call out your bullshit theory on women. Women do want that but, not all swinging women do swinging because of feeling insecure. There are numerous types of swingers, and exhibitionist. All wanting to explore themselves in open world. To assume swinging is forced upon by the man for the women is also one sited. I think this man asked a great question about what do women think?
I think this will be a fun topic to see. Instead of side tracking what he asked to hear about. You went on to assume he was not understanding his own question. His question was simple. He asked what do women want? What do they think about sexually? He did not ask what you thought of any books. Just an idea of what is in your secret garden. Let the women talk!!!
Sorry if offended but, I want to know what women do think of? I for one am a women.
Sex is natural for us. We reap with it. But, for men it is different. Way different.
I wanna hear you women ROAR!!!!
Swingers of Color - - Odd that you say that, because a good many of our experiences have been with African-Americans. Hubby is also half Asian. Guess it depends on what region you live in.
Swingers clubs are the new singles hangout? - - Actually I am referring to clubs like Ranch4Play in Eustis and the Playground in Samsula. I have also heard that the ponderosa has seen a small increase in the numbers of single men and women who are not necessarily interested in the lifestyle but are looking for that special someone to share their life with.
Richard
Swingers dying out? - Is the utah swinger community dying or becoming to needy? - [quote=EVILDOERS]Yep, swinging's as dead as a doornail. We're thinking of taking up pornographic cross- stitching to fill the void. [em]Emo_96[/em] [/quote]
Speak for yourself.
The Lifestyle is alive and well here in Central Florida.
New Swingers Club in Utah - Gauging interest in new club - The swingers clubs we've gone to were in Phoenix before they closed them (showing our age here) or favorite was Guys and Dolls. They had a stripper pole, free pool tables, a shower area and a large hot tub. We weren't a fan of the hot tub but they keep it free of floating nasties. We went to Club Chameleon when guys and dolls was closed. They had multiple themed rooms (i.e. the dungeon with multiple bdsm accoutrement including a rack, the fish tank which was a room that was surrounded by clear fiberglass, and a large orgy room with a padded floor a lot of couches and porn playing through a projector) they also had multiple stripper pole a dance floor and free pool tables. The entrance was 35/couple, 25/single female and 65/single male. Idk why they got closed but the rumor for Guys and Dolls was that there were prostitutes that paid to enter and then propositioned sex for money. Finding a swingers club in state would be great. Being that we live in Box Elder County we'd probably be able to visit only every couple of months.
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