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Are we really as judgmental as vanilla people? - - [quote=THOUGHTGARDEN]Are some people perhaps confusing "judgemental" with "selective"?[/quote]
Right - some people seem to think that because we are swingers we have sex with anyone and therefore they view a rejection as a personal snub. I think they forget that "just not that into you" applies as much in swinging as vanilla relationships.
Why the male side of Couples are here...? - I will admit I am hoping to spark some heated debate on this.... - Well as for me the male half in our equation I do not want to just get laid and I guess I am fortunate but the Mrs. would never think of treating me like a penis in waiting. I would not even consider knowingly fucking a woman that thinks about me or men like that. If that is really what women in the swinging scene generally think then all men, single and in a relationship, should be asking themselves why do they bother. I know there are a lot of women that behave otherwise, and that respect men that do at least dabble in non monogamy. These women would and should be insulted by such a selfish portrayal of who they are. Men that feel you are not worthy of equality get a hold of yourself.
Considering who I am coupled with that is easy to understand. My wife is pretty damned special and extremely sexy and we remain extremely attracted to each other and the sexual chemistry is still there and evolving. Yes it is much easier to understand why I would be so captivated by her then the other way around but she loves me and I know how lucky that makes me. We still really, really dig each other. We both have to feel some real chemistry with any potential playmates for sex to happen. When you are happy then why settle so we don't? No interest on either side of our equation to just get laid. We already suspect that swinging will eventually run it's course and we will just lose interest. We seem to be almost totally disinterested in all the big events and only occasionally attend a meet and greet. There is a lot of dysfunction within the community and yet there are a lot of solid self aware functioning swingers. Excuse us but even some of the established rules of safe and fair swinger engagement seem subject to a lot of dysfunctional interpretation these days. Maybe the ease of access to these events that allows all sorts of at risk singles and couples, with at least one person attending that just wants to get laid, to just sign up is a problem for us. For now there is still a place within us for close encounters of the sexual kind with the right sort of friends (Friends we already have thank you for being so cool) but we are NOT someone's dick or pussy in waiting.
Interesting Last or Maiden Names - Names to remember people by - I knew a mechanic by the name of Dick Peters his wifes name was Sharon. They would have been great swingers...well her anyway. LOL
Alaska Swingers - - We had no luck there visiting but the Alaska bush company was fun
What's the universal swinger signal? - How can you spot a swinger?? - [quote=ORALLYBI4CPL]I always tell people I like girl juice and sausage for breakfast...
real swingers know what I mean :)
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Or do you like "girl juice" on your "sausage?" ;)
We have heard about it many times........... - Couples that are swingers - Thanks for all the great advice. We still would love to hear more. In this specific situation we had talked about boundries and thought we all understood them. The first time the guy came and then kinda got wierd as my husband was still with his wife. That should have been a huge red flag for us. The next night they still wanted to hang out and confirmed with us they were cool with everything and how he is just shy. So we decided to give it another try. We thought the way he handled it was very rude and immature. Granted when things get started your feelings may change after you have already started but you should never just walk out. We would have understood and if he would have told us how he felt. We will take this as a learning experience and hope it doesn't happen again. Again, still open to more advice.....
Search abilities for international swingers. - Just a suggestion. - Hi.
Good to see that we are not the only ones that like to see intenational couples on swingular. Yes, we joined swingular for the international touch and hope to stay there for a long time. We are not only interested in ex. dutch swingers living in the USA, but in every swinger couple worldwide. Its so interesting to get in contact with international swingers. They still belong to our best friends. And having contact with a native swinger from another country, whats a better way to learn more.
A swingers hug from the NEtherlands.
BEa and Alex
couples more [oft ] ask for couples or single females. why is th - - We havent had a lot of experience with single males or single females....or 3somes all together, really......however, the one time that we did show interest in a single male for my pleasure (Mrs. Stitch typen) we had a really bad experience in finding one that was honest with why he was in this lifestyle all together. When we found a male we were interested in and we met up for some fun...the fun happened and after we found out the truth of his reality...and that was that his WIFE didnt put out at all, and he was really a married man with 3 small children looken for sex without strings. NOw the "sex without strings" thing is not what bothered me, however, the wife and 3 small children thing bothered me a great deal for very long time after that night. We (hubby and I) were both really upset by it, and wasnt looken for an experience that contributed to someone getting really hurt, and lied to. Sad thing is, we still see him lingering on the websites for swingers and being quite active in the lifestyle.
I realize that just the bad actions of one single male doesnt mean that all single males are the same.....we also realize that there are probably some single women that are also cheating as well. After that bad experience we both decided that if we wanted a 3some experience it would have to be with ppl that we knew and trusted and really knew their life story. We decided that we wanted to just meet some fun couples and stick with married, stable couples that are looking for the same fun as we are.
We dont ever want to contribute to breaking up a marriage and hurting someone else, we just want to have fun!!!
Christain Swingers? - - We are both born again and read our bibles Regularly nad believe the marriage bed is sacred and what we do with it is our bussiness as long as we follow the guidlines. No animals, children, or relatives.
Juat wanted to add my 2 since worth
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - I have a 2003 GMC step-side pickup, and the wife drives a 2002 Explorer. Both are in like new condition. I believe in keeping our cars in perfect shape. I'm an old muscle car fanatic. My high school ride was a '66 Chevelle SS w/ a 396. Sure wish I still had that one. Low 12's at about 121 in the 1/4.
A couple of recent changes - last Thursday, the GMC truck got totaled in a wreck in front of our house. It was parked on the street at the time. And I just got a 2012 BMW 1 series coupe. It was used, but it was also a Factory Executives car. BMW gives their Exec a free car every year, with any options they want. This one is[u] LOADED[/u]. I'm just like a kid when I drive it. We haven't even tried to get into the back seat yet, much less trying to have any fun. Sure sounds great, tho. If anyone knows a spinner who'd like to experiment, let us know.
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