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SMI (Palm Springs) or One Love (Vegas)?? - Looking for fun State Side Vacation - SMI (Palm Springs) or One Love (Vegas)??
The wife and I often do Cancun for fun adult vacations however, due to Covid , we have to stay state-side this year. We are debating between Sea Mountain Inn in Palm Springs or One Love Nude Resort in Vegas. We have never been to either. Any thoughts or suggestions?? We are more "swayers" than "swingers" but love the sexual energy of the fun resort and are slowly expanding our level of play. Thanks in Advance!
DMDForFun (on Kik too)
Kik group for UT swingers. - Contact me if your interested in joining a KIK group for Swingers - I'd love to meet more people in the community, if you could add me as well KutieKilani!
That little nudge many of us need - - We think honesty is the best way to be. If she found out about the meeting without her knowledge, your tryst into the lifestyle may be over. Plus, she might feel the pressure to play at some point anyway. Also, she will always wonder if the next meeting is arranged without her knowledge.
Evildoers is correct in meeting with zero chance of playtime. Take their advice. She will feel more relaxed and could enjoy herself with the pressure off. We will take it a step further:
Step 1: Set up a date with ZERO playtime opportunity and let the other couple know that. Do something fun (a hike, Topgolf, etc) and get to know them. At the conclusion of the date, let them know that if they do not receive a message from YOU within 24 hours, you don't feel you are a match.
Step 2: If you send a message to meet again, let them know your intent and your boundaries. For example, (kissing ok), (fondling ok), (bi kissing ok), (same room, separate room, either room ok), (nudity ok or not). But, speak honestly with each other about this. It's not nice to lead people on after you have committed. At the conclusion of the date, let them know that if they do not receive a message from YOU within 24 hours, you are not ready to go further.
Step 3: If you send a message to meet again, let them know what is acceptable. For example (full swap or soft swap), (same room, separate rooms or either ok), (kissing or no kissing), (bi play) etc. Again, you will have to be honest with yourselves if you can do this. By a third date, the other couple has invested a lot of time in you. So, be nice and don't lead them on. Enjoy the playtime. Save enough time for the afterglow sex with them relaxing, chatting, and laughing.
By this point, you may have found a couple that you can see multiple times. Doing vanilla activities with them might be a bonus. They may even introduce you to their lifestyle friends too.
The other option is attending a house party where play is not expected. You will be able to speak to several couple and perhaps, use the process above. Or you can play that night.
When we entered the lifestyle, we never had that couple who could mentor us. After we considered ourselves as no longer newbies, we became the newbie "whisperers" to offer what we never had. However, we've gotten away from newbies since our circle is with experienced swingers now. But with covid, we would date newbies again.
Black Ring, Right Hand - How to tell if someone's a swinger - [quote=DELICIOUSLYWET]
A lot of people secretly wish they could self liberate sexually and socially enough to do some of the things "swingers" do. If they know enough about the Utah swing scene to know why we are wearing a black ring on our right hands then there is a pretty good chance they envy our liberation maybe just a little.
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I would not be surprised! :)
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I recently had a very LDS middle aged friend who knows we swing tell me when he grows up he wants to be me. We don't flaunt it before our vanilla friends and we are not trying to be spokes persons for swinging but we are really not ashamed of it.
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Out of curiosity, do you consider wearing black rings all the time flaunting it?
FB group? - FB group - [quote=NASTY4U2]I'm sure there are more. I know of one as I am the creator of it. But It's for Utah swingers only. Someone you know may have created one. Ask, or make one yourself. [/quote]
Would love an invite :)
C- A - Any swingers clubs around Salt lake? - [quote=FunCouple84020][quote=BOOBERRIESJ]We should start to all go to redemption in Herriman on like Friday nights -
All Singers should wear “PURPLE” and show up after 10:00 pm - We’ll all know who is in the Lifestyle !!![/quote]
Why purple?!? Because it's and ugly color that no normal person would ever wear out in public?[/quote]
Absolutely nothing wrong with purple and it’s far from ugly…..
video chat rooms for southeastern couples - ??? - does anyone know of any good chat rooms for swingers on this side of the country?
Small town fun - - Maybe throw a swingers party in the San Rafael swell. There are a lot of swingers that camp. Beer and bud are no strangers to the swell.
Swingers In Uniform - Pay your memorial day respects here. - Guess Don Juan was asleep when we all learned that with freedom comes responsibility. With any kind of power (and the freedom to exercise that power) comes the responsibility to wield that power with care. Tossing invectives at critics then stomping off the playground brings to mind a little boy who can't get his way so is going to take all his little toys and goes play by himself. "Does not play well with others," seems to be an appropriate comment on the report card.
Don Juan Quixote is a combination of two characters, both fictional. Don Quixote is a character and novel written by Don Miguel de Cervantes, a Spaniard. Don Juan was supposed to be Italian. The two most are familiar with is Mozart's Don Juan and Byron's Don Juan (he pronounced it Jew-on).
Chat room - - [quote=RICHNKAY801]We have a discord chatroom full of swingers and zero bots for Utah and the surrounding areas. AZ definitely counts if you are interested let me know and I can send you guys a link. You'll have to verify with Admin because we aren't affiliated with Swingular but its minimal and its a fun group. [/quote]
solid idea but couldnt a meeting link be placed right here? it would all operate inside this site and the only way you would even see the link would be to be a member. plus as of now i dont see any bots posting to these threads so seems that would solve that issue. seems like all that would be really needed would be someone to create the meeting and post the link here. am i missing something?
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