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How is it to be in the lifestyle and have small kids. - We are new to the lifestyle. - we have been tog for 13 years , and we have always been in the life style . and our kids are aware of us being in the life style . we dont invite anyone to our house that we dont know well . and only the ones that are family ok . i would not let anyone come to my house or be around my kids that i didnt feel safe about having them around . and i dont care where i met them at .or who i knew them through . i have been a stay at home mom for almost 12 years . so i know it is hard to have your own time . but mykids will only be little once . so i enjoy it to the fullest and then when we have time we go out . and we only let family watch them so we have to go around their free time . which can be very hard trying to make plans with people . sometimes poeple take it the wrong way thinking we dont want to meet them . but we try to explain how things are from the get go so we dont hurt anyones feelings . once we have gotten to know the people then we will hang out at the house or at their house or meet and do family things tog . out and about . that makes it alot easier . meeting places in bewteen play times . is a lot of fun . and a huge tease . we dont play when are kids around . and they dont know the details about our play time with our friends . or any of that stuff . but they do know that we live a open life style . when they have questions we answer them honestly and openly but in general talking . nothing about someone or the what when and how stuff . but just in general talking . we dont share any more then we would as if we were talking about our reg husband and wife relationship ...
but someone said that they dont mix playmates with family time cause of something that happen . well to me that can happen to anyone with anyone . we are very busy during the week and we dont like to always have to find a sitter to hang out with our friends . and we like to hang out with alot of people . so we try to fit people in when we do things and when we have time . i prefer to hang out with swingers or people that are in the life style or that have a open mind about what we choose to do . iam a swinger 24 7 not just at the clubs on the weekends . i dont have time for people that arent ok with who i really am . everybody that knows us , knows about us . we are very open and honest . i dont want them to waste my time or theirs and i cant pretend to be normal to hang out with people that cant handle it . anyways . i would never lie to someone . . about something that might upset them. my kids mean the world to me and we do alot with them . so we try to find friends that want to hang out and do fun things like that . so we can all hang out . and we save playing for when we can get a sitter and go out to a club or house party .i would like to find someone that we can trust to watch them so we can get out more once in awhile . i find it also helpful to keep in touch with people on the computer . u can always chat with friends here and there to help make new ones or get to know others one . u can learn alot about someone chatting . and it also gives u someone to talk to since u cant get out much ..
i believe kids should be first . and we choose to do alot with them . but it is also best for everybody if mommy and daddy are happy as well . so u need to figure out ways to make time for yall and your friends . just cause we are swingers doesnt mean we cant have cook outs and stuff like that . that way everybody is still tog andhangingout but no need to try to find a sitter .in a few years the kids will have lifes of thier own and i want it to be where everybody still hangs out but it will allow us a bit more time to us .i want my kids to be hanging out with their friends always here at the house or at a house of an adult that i trust . so we try to make friends with people that want the same things . we mix our time with family time with the kids so we can always watch them .but we know everybody doesnt click with family time or with everybody else or all the time . people will always disagree and there is always going to be friendships that end . for alot of differnt reasons . we try to not worry about those we just find other friends to hang out with . we want to enjoy life with our kids and good friends . and have ablast tog.
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freaky kitty
We like to date couples, anyone wanna play? - FWB??? - We are still searching for this as well.. we're more poly than swingers though... if any couples are interested we'd love to chat with you both.
How to identify yourself as a Swinger - - Yes, the black ring has been around for decades. Along with white rocks in your yard, flamingos, upside down pineapples, etc. I'm sure these things were helpful and even needed before the age of the internet.
Nowadays, there are so many ways to contact and meet people, I can't imagine the need to randomly bump into to other swingers.
In fact, the black ring is so well known, that that is the reason I DON'T wear one. I knew about it about 18 years ago, well before I ever considered swinging.
So, it's useless for two reasons. 1. Not enough swingers use it to be of much use. 2. Too many non swingers know about it to be very practical. But with the sites and parties and events, there really isn't much need for it anyway.
I'm glad I started all this recently with the internet to use. I really would have hated wearing black rings and putting white rocks and flamingos in my yard and upside down pineapples in my window. :p
KUTV News Story on Swingers - News - [quote=TorqueNTara]we were kinda getting busy last night when the story aired, and just now watched it on the web. Wanted to add something useful to this thread, but see that it has taken a downward, spiraling turn into some geeky abyss.[/quote]
You're right. Let's discuss sports. Did you see that ludicrous display last night?
Lusting After the EVER ELUSIVE Male-with-Hallpass - The Great Swingular Mystery - We both have hall passes that are discussed and approved on a case by case basis. Here is where we see the imbalance occurs. Men looking to swing are far more plentiful then women looking to swing and I dare say that is true within and without a marriage agreement. Yes there are some really liberated sexy and sexual women in the lifestyle but they are out numbered. Within the lifestyle, approaching someone about having sex is supposedly not considered inappropriate and getting a no answer is not supposed to be a problem. That not always being how approaches are received or a no answer is delivered is another subject. So the multitudes of men make approaches. If a woman within the lifestyle has a hall pass she is going to get approached. Well, frankly she is going to get approached if she does not. There are not enough women with hall passes or single women looking to swing to satiate the demand in the lifestyle market created by the multitudes of interested men. Some ladies are having a great time giving it a try. The law of supply and demand as applied to swinging.
Knowing and understanding this, frankly, the Mrs. sees no reason to go shopping for men to play with because she does not need to. Knowing this, frankly, I have never gone out shopping for s single female or a married woman within the lifestyle community with a hall pass. I see how many men my wife politely refuses. Shopping online I suppose I might have the same experience as the majority of men out there making request. Yes some of the men making online advances make a pretty bad first impression. If their foot in their digital mouth suggests an emergent flaw in the expression of their DNA or it is just bad learned behaviors and attitudes, well this is a fun based undertaking for us and not social work so jerks get a quick and lasting no. In fact most single men and men looking to play with Mrs. Delicious using a hall pass get a no. Many of which are most probably great guys. Sex is upfront and open in the lifestyle and so, men, ask to have sex and women usually do not have to ask for sex because they have several friend request and e-mails to consider every week if not everyday where sex is the requesters primary motivation. The male requesters list of expectations from her, are usually not as demanding as the list she has for him before there is a fuck agreement.
If a couple wants to see some balance in the number of sexual partners they each have as swingers then, perhaps, it may require that the female half be a bit reserved and accept only as many offers as her main squeeze can find. Same goes for the frequency of sexual encounters. We prefer hooking up with couples but we will on occasion entertain a single. Usually the MFM hookups are men we picked and not a guy contacting us. The guys that aggressively send a new friend request or let
We thought this was educational and should explain a lot about s - keep an open mind. Swingers are spiders. Each to their own unique ways! - Awesome!
Black Ring, Right Hand - How to tell if someone's a swinger - Don't underestimate the power of the internet and social media to disseminate information (especially information considered salacious by most of the world) VERY quickly. All it would take would be one pissed off swinger who didn't get laid or something to lash out by telling everyone the dirty little secret. [em]Emo_84[/em]
And personally we don't find it very inhibiting to walk into a bar or a restaurant and not be able to tell immediately who is and isn't a swinger. It would be interesting to poll people and ask them if they would be likely to wear a black ring on their right hand in otherwise vanilla situations to be able to be identified by and to identify others as swingers. We'll start. We wouldn't do it. We enjoy the fact that our little hobby is known just to us and a few friends. It's our naughty little secret. We wouldn't advertise our vanilla sex life to friends and family so why would we want to do it as swingers? JOHO
New Lifestyle Destination Coming Soon - There is a new lifestyle-only "BnB" club opening this Fall in the Ozarks - Funny you should mention this... my wife has a dream of opening a swingers BNB when we retire.....
Hello summer - Swingers couple party - Is the event open to single males that are respectful and kind??
Does that couple swing? - - I usually wonder that a lot when I go to bars that are known to have swingers hangout there.
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