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BORED *anything happenin tonight* - - Well ok then fuck it what bar is gonna have the most swingers per capita tonight so we arent alone and guessing lol

Swingers dying out? - Is the utah swinger community dying or becoming to needy? - [quote=BITESIZE]These things come and go in cycles, like hairstyles or the ozone layer. I'm sure if you hang around for another five years someone will have another house party. Just be patient. Or...you could have a house party. That might work, too.[/quote] Oh...I hope hairstyles don't change again...Ms. Karma and I really like ours right now!

How Do you Find Out - Question about Friends - For the most part, DON'T ASK... There are WAY more NON-SWINGERS in the country than swingers, so your chances of your friends being swingers is slim. There are a few things that will point to swinging. Check her closet. If there is allot of club wear the chances are better. Ask about their vacations. If they mention a place like HEDO they are pretty much swingers.. If there is a couple you would like to play with you can create a fun night and when things feel right, ask if they have ever thought about swinging... Keep in mind that not all swingers want to be KNOWN due to family, friends, jobs etc. Good luck... ... Steve

Utah moms (Mormon) TikTok drama - - I don't know who that person is but I do know that swingers will ways throw others under the bus. It's happened to me several times mostly to get with the female I was with. Men will tattle on each other in hopes that the female will leave and run to him which never did work. Nonetheless the attempt was there. They ways tell and swingers always talk. Yet this entire time I've kept so many secrets about others and never will reveal anything. Too bad no one else does. I've been around for a long time in the lifestyle especially when I was a couple. We knew about marriages breaking up. Two of who I know personally. Actually three now that I think about it. I'll never name anyone. All I ask is the same respect and keep it to yourself.

Clubbing? - New to this lifestyle - [quote=LILMISSRIDINGHOOD]I'm new to this lifestyle and was wondering, are there any good clubs where swingers go to meet. I RSVPd to a party on the home page, but it says there's an 89-person limit and there are twice the number already signed up. Chances are, I won't get in. So where is a good place to go to just have fun with like-minded people?[/quote] IT IS AN 85 COUPLE LIMIT...SO UP TO 170 PEOPLE GIVE OR TAKE A FEW HERE AND THERE

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Have you ever.... - - Seriously, if you go to a bar or anywhere as a couple and you are obviously together and people get friendly they are just that, being friendly. If they get flirty and playful then it may be more than that and it may just be them being flirty and playful. Picking up anyone that is obviously quite inebriated is just stupid and selfish be they swinger or vanilla. But if they seem to want to move a step further than flirty and playful and they are sober enough to be rational then really just how vanilla are they? Swingers did not invent non committal, recreational sex and swingers did not invent the bars and clubs pick up scene. Self described swingers are not the only ones open to or even out looking for a sexual connection. So picking up on a sexy single while together in a bar may just be one more person added to what they hoped to find when they left the house. People pick up and have sex with people all the time and sometimes it is wonderful and sometimes they have regrets. A sexy single may say wow that was wonderful and they may say wow that was strange and decide to stick with the singles scene. It is sort of the same risk as the singles pick up scene just a bit kinkier. Picking up another couple may be a bit more complicated. If the couple has never discussed just such a possibility together then we agree with Evil you might be complicating a relationship. One side might be saying yes, yes while the other spouse says yes and is really not sure about it. There might be jealousy issues and other surprises arise once the clothes come off. Really that can happen when meeting with other swingers too! If they are in a bar they are more likely to have discussed such things together than some other hangouts. For example when we are at Maggie Moos, and Mrs. Delicious pulls her boob out of her shirt and wipes the ice cream off the sample spoon onto her nipple and ask the couple next to her in line if they would like to taste the Chocolate Amaretto we have discovered that the hubby usually says yes or seems he wants to say yes while the wife often get upset. Imagine that!

To cover up or not to cover up - Slut shaming and the lifesyle - Sadly there are many entirely false stereotypes about swingers that non swingers and/or newbies to the lifestyle believe. Probably the most predominant one is that someone who is a swinger (especially a woman) is more or less DTF anyone, any time, anywhere. We used to try to educate those who thought this way but often they don't want to believe the truth because it destroys their fantasy about swinging. Now we just avoid those individuals because more often than not they are the very same individuals who don't understand or listen when someone says, "No."

Seems Pointless - Seems Pointless - [quote=Defiantstranger]“Because it’s a swinger site” - doesn’t explain the WHY the site would have any user (single male, or otherwise), be able to view users that they could not contact. Wouldn’t it make more sense to have your profile NOT pop up on searches from singles males or any other demographic that does not interest you? “not designed for single males” As you said earlier, it’s a swinger site…. It can be assumed that is “designed” for all types of swingers… couples, single males, single females, all types. The category’s are pretty clear in its stated format. I do agree however that many seemingly just troll.[/quote] We disagree on the definition of what a swinger is. I don’t consider singles to be swingers. Maybe try the apps 3Fun or Feeld. They’re geared towards 3somes

Swingers Party - Doesnt mean who ever is there is open to everyone elsa - first and foremost, boundaries must always be respected and no one ever has the right to do things to another person without their permission. however, i also acknowledge that at a party where the intention/perception that playing will or is occurring can create some areas of "unknown". it is important to find out what is ok and when it is ok. for some, that means french kissing within the first few minutes, others may not. i have seen different ways that people have tried to find out. the simplest and most direct is to ask. however, i have seen people do so by "testing the waters" - small hug, then a bigger one, then a peck, then a lingering kiss, then french kiss, etc. and at each step trying to "read" the body language of the other. and i have seen that some people have become so "desensitized" to some of these things that their starting point is further on the scale than others. i dont have a problem with someone trying to open-mouth kiss my wife (even if they have only met for 2 minutes - which she has done with some guys and girls that she was immediately attracted to). i have a problem if they try, she tells them "no", and then they try again. but we go to these parties with the mindset that if there is a mutual interest of the involved parties, then sex is a likely outcome for the evening (unless the party is a "meet-n-greet"). and for us, open-mouth kisses are part of foreplay with our partners. we have even had some parties that we have just "made-out" with some without engaging in sex. ultimately, it is important to find the common ground of what is acceptable for those involved and being respectful of that. it is also important to politely inform someone when they have crossed a boundary. it is unfair of us to expect that others implicitly know all of our boundaries.

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