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In need of advice - sexual - [quote=ANDRAYWAY_SHANAYNAY]I just have to say it amazes me how judgmental swingers can be... you would think from the outside looking in that they wouldn't be. [/quote]
Not judging just yet, I do that and make a fool of myself more than I want to admit. But in this case I am trying to see something real..
Have you considered he might be a single male posing as married? We have seen that a few times over the years. My point is there is no one to validate him or his story. When we have differences of opinions or ask for advice on the site we recognize who we are talking about and can respect or have some faith in what they are saying.
I believe if your going to talk about a specific person in a negative way on a forum they should have the right to see it and defend themselves.
Virtual Swinger Club event - 4/4/20 - Hello,
We have attended a swingers club down south in the past and they sent out an evite for a virtual At Home event for this Saturday. If you would like it forwarded, pm us. I know it’s definitely not optimal but wtf else do we have to do?
Tooele swingers party 2 - Doing our second party - So we were going to try for the 20th but unfortunately my wife will be workingso were going to rry to move it up or do it the following weekend. But it will be this month ;-p ill be sure to contact thos interested and we will make a kik group once we hammer out our plan.
Policing Ourselves - Can it be done? - Policing ourselves, can it be done? NO!
Advice for a newbie, LOL! I would say "RUN, run away as fast as you can!"
Seriously the first thing I would say to a new person/couple is "What ever you think swinging is, its not."
I think that with each couple comes different rules, as well as with each different scenario. How can you have a set precedence with as many different types of people that are even on this site alone? Let alone in the lifestyle.
I have often wondered why swingers would even have rules, I think the lifestyle is about the moment and with each moment you should take it as it comes. But that's just my opinion.
To set ground rules is to invite anarchy. Why bother?, a person either has respect, or they don't period. For every rule you could come up with someone could justify breaking it.
My 2 cents.
~K~
How has swinging made your marriage better? - - Curious... how many of the previous posters (or anyone on here for that matter) are on their FIRST marriage and have been "successful" swingers for 4-5 years+ ?
Tally those numbers and see if it makes marriages better. Would also be curious about second, third, fourth marriages (but those are harder because a lot have met in the lifestyle and/or came from a marriage that ended in infidelity). Still, have wondered.
P.S. EVILDOERS Mrs cntrl has been told that a couple of times as well.
Have you ever.... - - Seriously, if you go to a bar or anywhere as a couple and you are obviously together and people get friendly they are just that, being friendly. If they get flirty and playful then it may be more than that and it may just be them being flirty and playful. Picking up anyone that is obviously quite inebriated is just stupid and selfish be they swinger or vanilla. But if they seem to want to move a step further than flirty and playful and they are sober enough to be rational then really just how vanilla are they? Swingers did not invent non committal, recreational sex and swingers did not invent the bars and clubs pick up scene. Self described swingers are not the only ones open to or even out looking for a sexual connection. So picking up on a sexy single while together in a bar may just be one more person added to what they hoped to find when they left the house. People pick up and have sex with people all the time and sometimes it is wonderful and sometimes they have regrets. A sexy single may say wow that was wonderful and they may say wow that was strange and decide to stick with the singles scene. It is sort of the same risk as the singles pick up scene just a bit kinkier. Picking up another couple may be a bit more complicated. If the couple has never discussed just such a possibility together then we agree with Evil you might be complicating a relationship. One side might be saying yes, yes while the other spouse says yes and is really not sure about it. There might be jealousy issues and other surprises arise once the clothes come off. Really that can happen when meeting with other swingers too! If they are in a bar they are more likely to have discussed such things together than some other hangouts. For example when we are at Maggie Moos, and Mrs. Delicious pulls her boob out of her shirt and wipes the ice cream off the sample spoon onto her nipple and ask the couple next to her in line if they would like to taste the Chocolate Amaretto we have discovered that the hubby usually says yes or seems he wants to say yes while the wife often get upset. Imagine that!
Why are there so many swingers from Utah? - - We were actually considering moving home to Florida at summer's end! Maybe a 2500 mile detour out west is in order?
Florida does seem to be the swinging mecca of the US. We have lived in Texas, California, and Florida and have have noted that South Florida (which should lose any such contest based on the population count alone) boasts 3 of the worlds best swingers clubs; atleast by NASCA's tally.
We are fairly good friends with the owners of two of the other popular paid sites, and they are based in Florida, so the Floridian member count is very high.
We helped to launch one in 2003 (a new swingers website) and it was 100% Floridian until we moved up here to Maryland, bringing the gospel of the (adult) "private adventure" with us. Our repeated attempts to convert the local natives to morally casual, sexually enlightened beings have met with limited success. (There are far more churches here than 7-11's, so I fear it will be a long and hard fought battle.)
Go 'head Utah. Do your thing!
Luvbugs! (mR.) ;)
Celebrity Fantasies... - - Well, isn't this site a swingers site? Well, then we should pick a foursome. The obvious for us is Brad and Angelina, but, we wouldn't kick Seal and Heidi Klum out of the bed for eating crackers. I could climb Heidi and Seal could certainly set the mood music.
B and J.
Selfishness linked to case of Jealousy? - I can, you can't... (just curious) - Maybe this also happened. All those Boba Fett cloned storm troopers all had profiles and they were all really obnoxious, being clones they all shared that trait, and they all used the categorization single male and spammed all the other intergalactic swingers until many species just started saying do not contact us we will contact you to single men. Finally the swinger web site designer included a new category "storm trooper" and you could just block all storm troopers, which made life easier for nice guys like Chewbacca to hook-up. Storm Troopers perhaps were famous for having extra small wieners and that explains why Luke was so damned whiny, because his own sister nailed his insecurity right on the head when she said [quote]Aren't you a little short for a Stormtrooper?[/quote]
Game ON....which sign is Hornier...(is that a word?) - zodiac signs of swingers? - another scorp:D
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