If you are looking
for Swingers in Colesburg, IA, then Swingular is the place for you. We
have hundreds of thousands of swingers all over Colesburg looking to meet new people.
Here is a list of 16 random Swingers within 100 miles of Colesburg, IA. To
see more or to contact these members, click here to
create a free account.
Colesburg, Iowa Swingers can be found on Swingular. It's easy to find others
using our advanced search technology. We base our search by zipcode so you will see how
far each member is away from you by miles. You can search locally or you can search by
state or zipcode as well. We have thousands of members from Colesburg, Iowa so
you have a very good chance that you will meet someone to your liking. We also have a
booty call feature so you can post a booty call for quick response. Create your free
account today and begin hooking up with Colesburg Swingers right away!
Black rings. Does anybody even wear them? - - [quote=SKICOUPLE][quote=Gunthercouple]Is the black ring well known in LS groups, we are new to LS and have not heard or noticed.[/quote]
Not as frequently as you might think. You probably see it on swingers that have been active for awhile. You see a couple with black rings on the right hand and they probably have some good stories to tell.[/quote]
over 20 yrs playing with couples and girls, never wore anything like that
we figure being on swinger sites and attending swinger events with my wife wearing her sexy little dresses sends clear clues
plus if we are in public we would find it very creepy to be asked about the LS by total strangers
unless they hot lol
That little nudge many of us need - - [quote=PARTYINLV][quote=EVILDOERS]There are plenty of people on Swingular, ourselves included, who strongly prefer to meet and get to know people a bit (sometimes over weeks or even months) before any kind of 'sexy time' happens. In fact, for us at least, we're happy just to hang out and be friends even if sex NEVER happens. There are also avowed demi-sexuals here who absolutely need some kind of emotional connection (and no, it doesn't necessarily have to be romantic or love or anything beyond friendship) before they can feel sexual attraction to other people. Perhaps your wife is more oriented in that direction. Beyond that, maybe it would be more above-board to just hang out with vanillas and see if you can slowly evolve your friendship towards something more sexual. Just a thought.[/quote]
We have friendships with vanilla couples who we think are smoking hot and wish they were in the lifestyle. lol. Perhaps this is a question for another forum thread. But, how does one broach the subject with a vanilla couple who are friends? Does anyone have any success stories of how you converted a vanilla couple friendship to the lifestyle? We would be afraid about outing ourselves or maybe even losing a friendship. [/quote]
Personally, we think the best way to broach that subject with vanillas is to just, at some point in the friendship, put it out there that you're swingers and then let the other couple process, digest, and come to terms with that information and do with it what they will. We feel like there are FAR too many swingers who enjoy 'vanilla hunting' and use unfair tactics (alcohol, late nights, etc.), if not outright subterfuge, to try to 'convert' them as, I guess, some kind of power trip. If you let people have the space to come to a rational, informed decision on their own there is, IMO, FAR less chance for drama (or WORSE!) as a sequela.
What is your fantasy for 2008? - Many have made resolutions for 2008, but some of us may have made a resolution to fullfill a fantasy. What's yours? - our fantasy for 2008 is to meet as many swingers as we can and also enjoy them
Polyamory - Please share your thoughts.... - polyamory
Definition: participation in multiple and simultaneous loving or sexual relationships
bigamy
Definition: marrying while one has a wife or husband still living, from whom no valid divorce has been effected.
polygamy
Definition:
1. the practice or condition of having more than one spouse, esp. wife, at one time..
2. the habit or system of mating with more than one individual, either simultaneously or successively.
swingers
Definition: a person who engages in the exchanging of spouses for sexual activities.
monogamy
Definition:
1. marriage with only one person at a time.
2. the practice of having only one mate.
3. the practice of marrying only once during life.
(btw. i didn't write these myself. they were on dictionary.com)
Favorite bars in utah - - We go to Club 90 usually on Saterday nights & we Dance alote & with other couples hopping they are swingers but it seems they are not so it would be nice if we could all wear a ring or something that lets others know we are in to the same swinging style that they are & it would help take the guess work out of it.
SexynPC - Traveling. Looking for suggestions - Amsterdam is full of swingers club, I’ve heard good things about same place but there are a lot of options. The red light district is in the center of the city and it’s fun to walk around and check out the prostitutes. Then check out a live show at the banana bar or moulin rouge.
Best way to connect with Boise area folks? - - aff now 10/27/2023 at 0:45 AM
note the online profiles
[url=https://imgur.com/TURAoMd]CLICK-HERE[/url]
also reddit ID Swingers
[url=https://www.reddit.com/r/IdahoSwingers/]REDDIT I DA HO? NO, U DA HO[/url]
best thing to do is to get on all sites you can find until you find a nice group of sexy spuds
LDS Swingers Survey - Will any former/active LDS swingers take my survey? - Cool when you going to reveal your results
Why do you swing? - Why not? - As other have said it can enhance your relationship with your significant other and create a bond like no other but not for everyone. True swingers enjoy sex and should not have jealousy issues and take pleasure in the experience of sharing with the people they are attracted to and get along with.
We have made some great friends and had some wonderful experiences but not always and we accept that sometimes the unexpected may happen and thats ok. At the point where you are not having fun you should walk away and we are still having way too much fun.
Swinging/Polyamory - I just wanted to hear other people thoughs on this....... - Posted By: XPLORR94248 Reply posted on:
Nov 10, 2007 - 12:11 pm
Poly people generally take issue with swinging as be strictly recreational SEX! and no love where as poly, supposedly, is love based not necessarily any sex....but sex usually is involved at some level. The attitude is that swinging is not a good thing that swinging is diametrically opposed to poly.
So while there are some similarities in swinging and poly in that more and more swingers are looking for relationships, i.e., "friends with benefits" ; "Friends in and out of the bedroom". These friendships are based on attraction and sex after the attraction. Poly people take the concept that poly is based on loving someone and if sex happens then OK, but that love is the key and sex is at best secondary.
I would say that swinging (full swap, soft swap) IS recreational sex. It ISN'T about falling in love with someone. That poly people would think swinging is bad because it is diametrically opposed to poly doesn't surprise me one bit. Kinda like me being a Grand Dragon of the KKK thinking that people who even can think of having a relationship with a black person are sick in the head. To a poly person, the only difference between them and a "normal" person is that they have more than one person with whom they have love in the relationship. "Normal" people also think spouse swapping is a bad idea too. Again, no surprise.
I would say that swinging and poly have only one similarity and that is that they are having sex with somebody that they are not legally married to and the spouse is fine with it. Beyond that, I don't see the similarities.
|