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A letter to Single Men looking to meet a willing Single Woman - - [quote=STANSBURYCPL]OK single peoples I could use some advise. My ex and I divorced 3 months ago. We were active swingers and that did not have anything to do with the divorce. We are still best friends and hang out all the time just live separate places and are following our different paths in life which was one of the things that led us to our divorce. Now upon divorce we talked about our Swingular profile and swinging in general. We love it and want to continue to attend parties together and be each others "wingman" per say. I have clearly outlined this on our profile in our description. Now to where I need advise. Now as a single man I would like to also find a single lady to have some fun with as well. I messaged and emailed and well to say the least the majority think I'm lying and trying to cheat, or wont talk with me because I do not have a profile picture. I explain that I cant post a public picture as it could cost me my job if the wrong person were to see it, but I'm happy to email one if requested.
Now several months later I have not received one invite, one friend request, its radio silence. I would like to change this but I don't know how. Its led me to feelings of maybe I'm just not attractive enough sob story sob story bla no one wants to hear that crap, but I'm super frustrated.
Any advise would be welcome.
Thanks in advance.
Aaron [/quote]
This might sound simplistic, but I have been approached by government agents, school principals, Fortune 500 CEO's and CFO's that are unable to provide a face picture but will email one as you mentioned. Why can't you put your face picture in your private pictures. The only people that would see it is the ones you granted access to? I am given some reasons for this from them, but most stem because of government conspiracy theories. Hoping that is not you. If you can be fooled granting access you can also be fooled sending your picture by email. I don't want to give out my email to single men or newly single men with or with out a wing woman. Assuming you are verified and I haven't checked that, but this would also insure the person you are communicating with that the picture is indeed you.
Just a thought.
Swingfest - Hollywood Florida! - We were hoping to go, as we know a couple from the NYC area coming down, and we would love to meet some fellow swingers from this site. July has been a rough month financially for us, so we shall see.
If we get there, we hope to see a lot of you!
Ron & Chrissy
Swingers House Party in Jerome, Id - Free Swingers House Party - When you contact Rod & Dawn please tell us you saw this on Swingular.
Breaking the 4th wall - meeting a swinger in a vanilla situation. - Traveling to a party in Ogden, while gassing up at a truck stop, we ran into some casual friends of friends (Not Swingers) from our home town and it was a little odd trying to come up with a cover story on the spot, it was easier though because they were also flustered. So later that night at the meet n greet it was a good laugh about the truck stop.
Sort of backwards from the original question but this might be a good time to mention that if you see Rachel at work it is totally not an appropriate time to mention that you think you've seen her pictures on the web.
Bob
are there not any ladies who just gotta have fun in the day ??? - good times ??? - [quote=HELLO_KITTY12984]Well the title of your post says "any ladies" so I'm going to assume you're talking about single females. They're called unicorns for a reason. And as a general rule... you're not going to find them here on a swinger site. You gotta look elsewhere. As for couples... its more of a matter of patience and being in the right spot at the right time. The fun exists. You just gotta find the right match for you.
And if you read the forums regularly... seems like there's a lot of openness... just not necessarily around here. ;)[/quote]
The baton, gets passed on every generation, and I am confident the runners just now taking the baton and those waiting for their turn are better prepared and certainly have more access to the tools necessary to make things better, more open, etc., etc., and to pick up the pace. I am talking about society as a whole, and swinging and swingers is part of the whole.
CPLINTOOELE, you are talking day time play, it appears, and that eliminates quite a few during the work week. I have come to the conclusion that the number one barrier for hooking up, for most of us is time, because we are all so damned busy, and the number two obstacle is a place. If you make it plain you have a place, if that be the case, then it will be more likely you will grab the attention of a lady that has the time and that can play on your schedule.
Original humans as swingers? - Provocative theories based on Bonobo sexual behavior - I think I'm aroused.
This lifestyle - What are we really? - I guess we are Poly-Swingers. Basically we are and have been swingers for some time now, I however, am quite poly and have several lady friends who I love deeply. Finding 2 couples is not as difficult as some might think. One of my lady friends is married and our families are quite close. Fact is they are not swingers at all but she is poly and he is poly friendly. The other is separated and both my wife and I love this lady to the ends of the earth. So we are poly.
Now, we are also swingers . We do have sex with people that we are not in love with. We do, however, care about people and we prefer to get to know people first before sex. We have been known to get it on on the first meeting if the chemestry is right.... I don't see any division in swinging because someone may be poly but enjoys sex with people that just hit it off.
Swingers are such a diverse group of people and there is room for whatever ones heart desires...from love to just sex. Find what's right for you and enjoy...
Ray
New Swingers Club in Utah - Gauging interest in new club - We agree with Davidandmarie exactly!
Another way to identify swingers - Totally hot T-Shirts - Is anyone else going to buy some?
-K-
Frustration with Friend Requests - - [quote=EVILDOERS]The underlying problem is the "we're swingers, you're swingers" mindset. We've been around the scene for a long time and met many many people who don't understand why we won't just fuck them...afterall, they're swingers and we're swingers...so let's just fuck already. This "hobby" is for fantasy fulfillment. If you aren't at least a little bit attracted to someone for any reason then what the hell is the point of fucking them? Especially when most of us can stay home and have WAY better sex with someone we love. [/quote]
Exactly!!! Couldn't put it better myself!!
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