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Fast lane travel in the digital age - Swinging - There are advantages and disadvantages, and Delicious, Cpswin,and Evil have pretty much covered them. But with all the disadvantages and lack of automatic screening, there is one big advantage. People genuinely interested in the lifestyle, nice and honest people, who might have known it existed and wanted to get into it can find it now. That wasn't always true. I sort of stumbled into it in the late '70s, simply because of some "hippiedom" connections from the early '70s. And even then, because I was single, I got invited to very, very, few gatherings. In fact, it was pretty much only if someone of about 4 or 5 couples were invited and the husband couldn't go and I was honored to be allowed to sort of fill in for him. Then in '82 I went to Europe, and when I came back in '89 I didn't even think of trying to find it again, I'd lost track of my old friends, and figured it'd be a useless pursuit, which it would have been. So, even though it lets idiots like single males who refuse to accept any responsibility for their own behavior, and who apparently think they're God's gift to women, and get all butt-hurt when they find out a girl they met on a swingers site is having sex with someone besides just them, find the lifestyle, it also lets some nice people who, just because they didn't happen to know anyone who was already involved, find it too. And I suspect that the bad outweigh the good, because the bad will get recognized as such, people will talk to each other, and while the not nice people will still find the public events, they'll be avoided by others, and eventually just go away. So hooray for the internet. [em]Emo_80[/em] Besides, if it weren't for the internet, I wouldn't be able to make my poor attempts at trading jokes with Evil. Whose current "backing away" won't, I hope, keep us from meeting him sooner or later, even with him in Salt Lake and us up in Ogden. I'm dying to find out if he's as funny in person as he is online. ~ Terry

St. Pete FL... Anyone out there!?!?!? - - Caliente can be a bit pricy, but the facilities are nice & lots of people go there. Some smaller nudie facilities are near by there as well. The crowd, the price & the facilities at each vary. Some will give you 1-day free passes to try them out. A good percentage of swingers live at or near several of these facilities. For more casual spur-of-the-moment hooks ups, just try some of the bars in Ybor City. While you are there, also try to catch a meal at the Colombian. The food there is worth the trip if your other plans fall through. What have you been trying so far? In what ways has it not been working out for you? Tampa is a target rich environment. You probably just haven't found the right places or learned to read the local body language yet.

STD Testing - How often are you tested? - The only thing is that the test results are pretty much only good for the day they were done. Unless someone gets tested and then stays in a vault cut off from anyone else until the test results come back there is no way to determine if they are still STI free. Even accounting for incubation periods an STI test is really only good for that MOMENT when your blood was drawn. Bottom line if you're going to swing first be okay with the real and inherent risks and second protect yourself to the extent that you feel okay with those risks. We do our homework about what diseases are out there and then act appropriately. To us it only makes sense to assume that EVERYONE has an STD (most adults are seropositive for HSV type 1 or 2 which are now almost interchangeable as to where they can and will induce a primary infection) and to protect ourselves accordingly. People that are super paranoid about sex cooties prolly shouldn't be swingers. JMO Not even going to mention how some VERY common STI's don't have a reliable test and thus aren't routinely screened for.

Oregon?? - Oregon?? NE1? South? Central? Western?NE1 at all? Jeeze - This site was founded in utah that is why so many peeps from utah. I am in idaho and not many active swingers on here from idaho.

City Cracking Down On Sex Parties - - RUBE, that's all I was saying. I can see the issue with the parking. I too would be pissed if my neighbor was blocking the streets. However, in this instance, the parking issue was resolved with the no parking signs and the city just advanced to the next level. The motivation is beyond parking. Now, they are misusing their power at the council level to make laws that prohibit the exercise our liberties within the confines of a private residence.

Those damn single men! - Where do they fit in this lifestyle? - I always seem to bring up the dead topics because I don't forum check every day, just when I can't sleep... I get asked a lot where single men fit in swinging, since we openly invite them into our play time and I loved TequilaRose's response. Thank you for putting the perfect words down for me. And I quote so all can read them again, as I find them truly important to understand: "...singles can be swingers. swinging is not a "couple" only thing. Swinger or Libertine means that you are not bound by moral restraint when you engage in sex. In other words, you don't need to honor the "holy matrimonial sanctity" of a married couple, whether you are in the married couple or wishing to engage in sex with them. So I still contend that a swinger can not be pigeon holed as a swapping couple only. " Swapping is partner exchange, swinging is open minded people be they male, female, straight, gay, or bi, married or single. The original poster wanted to know good advice for the single male to be picked out of the see of choices, and here are my criteria, which btw are things I say long before I arrange to sleep with them. 1. Never approach me (in person or email) and just say "wanna fuck" It's never funny, and always gets you a no thanks. If you like my profile, say something, don't just "someone likes you" It makes you look like a picture hunter and I'll delete it without even looking at you. 2. Listen to and adhear to my personal 'rules' which are: you are not my new best friend. I don't want daily text messages or phone calls. If I was looking for phone sex, I'd call my hubby at work. I prefer the 'you free thursday at 11am?' messages. If we pick a time, stick to it. You only get one chance. You stand me up, you're history. Hubby will always know where I am and with who and will hear all the kinky details. Nothing is secret or behind his back. Hotels are on your dime, not mine. If you don't have a suitable bachelor pad for our afternoon delights, I'm gonna think you're married and lied to me Afternoons I might be able to fit you in, nights and weekends I spend with hubby. When looking to play alone with a single guy, I will never pick time with you over time I could be with him. Don't even ask. 3. NO CHEATERS, ever. If I find out you're married and lied to me, I warn you up front, I will be the girl that calls her up and tells her. Might even have pics to prove it.... watch out, I bite. 4. Stick to the girls/couples rules, it's respectful, and everyones are going to be different. The above mentioned almost sound mean, but it's just upfront. The men I've met are more than happy to adhere to my rules of conduct. I have had only good experiences from the single men I've met on this site. Not all ended up regulars, but no experience was 'negative'. The only really bad swing experience we had was when we first started swinging over 8 years ago, and it was with the male half of a couple. Didn't scare us away from other couples, we just learned from it and moved on. The bashing is stupid and as soon as someone opens their mouth and lashes out at someone else opinions they drop massive IQ points in my book. Too sad..... Do what makes you happy and ignore the rest. Enjoy "that you are not bound by moral restraint when you engage in sex" :) Mrs Curious

Have Diapers...will travel. - Funny, not so funny...the Love Triangle from Space. - I just want to know how the things she had packed up (along with the pepper spray) were going to be used - this was one smart USAF/NASA trained lady so she had to have some great plan to make use of it all. If she would have only been a swinger the triangle thing would have been much less of a problem :-) Swingers In Space ". . . .or would you like swing on a star . . . ." Max

whats wrong - web site ads - Want some cheese and crackers with that whyne. Coming from experience you have to make a positive effort about who you are and who you are looking for. You sound lonely and bitter. We have only been here for a short while and this is the only web site for swingers we belong to, and before we put pics on we got a response. We are all in this for what we beleive are the right reasons, are you?????

Its Saturday night - - Hello everybody Its saturday night and why is there so many of us swingers sitting here online and not out playing with friends? Let\'s hear all of your excuses... ours is we have kids tonight.

Polyamory - Please share your thoughts.... - Thanx SLCWANDERLUST Sounds like theres more to it then what I have seen !!!! I know most look down on swingers