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Swinging/Polyamory - I just wanted to hear other people thoughs on this....... - We think the problem is that people see the equation "sex = love". IOW, if I have sex with you, I must love you. Therefore polyamory and swinging are the same. After all, if I don't love you, I won't be having sex with you. The way I see it, swinging is like a game of golf or tennis. I might play a game with you but I don't love you. Similarly, I might have sex with you but I don't love you. Poly, IMO, is basically having a relationship with that other person and sex is involved on some level. Kinda like "I'm in love with you and oh, BTW, lets make love" The way we see it, swinging is about exchanging sexual partners for recreation sex. In an orgy situation at a party, you can have sex with that person with zero words exchanged. In a poly relationship, there is a real connection going on besides just sex. Sex becomes incidental just like it is with married couples. With swinging, there is no emotional attachment. Is that a good thing? Well, it depends. We need to understand the very simple nature of things. We do this to avoid that. That is human nature. Many swingers DON'T want emotional attachments and avoid them because of the complications they cause in the first one. Are there benefits to the attachments? You bet. Is there a price to pay for that benefit? But of course. Is it worth it to you? That depends on your viewpoint. In our life as a couple, the problems poly cause BASED ON OUR OPINION (your's may vary and no right and wrong here) do not outweigh the payoff. IOW, we don't think the benefits of a poly relationship are worth the problems it creates based on our opinion. YMMV

cuckold couple - Just curious - Cuckolding usually refers to a humiliation element - a woman is with another man while husband or bf gets off on being shamed, humiliated, knowing she is with someone else, hearing how much better or bigger they were, etc. It's fetish that some enjoy. Not something I would enjoy personally. There's also 'hotwife', which is more where the man enjoys seeing or hearing about her with other men, seeing her pleasure, seeing how desirable she is, aroused by the sight or hearing about it more from pride and appreciation of her sexuality, beauty and pleasure. This can be at different levels - from merely bragging about a sexy wife and having men acknowledge that, to her flirting and teasing other men but always coming back to him, to minor or major sexual adventures. 'Cuckolding' is usually seen with a derogatory and humiliating element as a fetish, while 'hotwife' is pridefully showing off or sharing. Although, both terms are used interchangeably at times, they have a different connotation. There's also cuckquean - a woman who enjoys her man being with other women coupled with derogatory or humiliating elements. There's probably a male version of 'hotwife' - 'sexyhusband'? - but I'm not aware of any particular term that's popular. Personally, I get the hotwife/sexyhusband idea much better. We both take pride knowing we're desirable to others and yet committed to each other. That's probably the general feeling most swingers have. Cuckold/cuckquean isn't a necessarily a bad thing (if both are into it), it works for some people, but many find the humiliation element not enticing.

Ebbs and Flows of Swinging - - Finding the time, or really even knowing what our schedule is, can be an obstacle. When we were young and raising five young children, we were monogamous in our marriage. We enjoyed that stage of life for more than two decades. We were perfectly happy. I don't think that if we had been swingers, we would have had the time to hook up with much frequency. Somewhere around 2004 or 2005 our offspring became old enough to require a bit more autonomy and time alone, away from home, hanging out with their friends, and so we had more time to hang out with our friends. The internet had become available and was full of sex, sex, and more sex. We became swingers, later joined this site, and we hooked up with a quite a few new and interesting people, with frequency, over the span of about a decade. We really enjoyed the variety, the adventurousness, and the intimacy. As our kids all started to become adult and started to enter into long term committed relationships and we started to become grandparents, they wanted to hang out with us a lot, and we love that. So most of the free time we used to spend swinging has reverted to family time. An honest hard look at where we are at this point of our life, and really where we have been for a while now, finds us having become swingers that only hook up maybe four to six times a year or less. We may actually be on a graceful trail that leads us back to monogamy. But not quite yet!

Dumb question? - What and who can see what? - [quote=EVILDOERS]I thought "Silver members" meant you were old. I'm confused. Must be because I'm old. [em]Emo_79[/em] [/quote] Hey we got an invitation to join a site for 50 plus swingers this week. So far we don't see the need and it is probably more of a national site, and not as Utah handy as this site is, but we did think it is interesting that such a site exist. Maybe if we join we can get a discount if we belong to Triple A? We are hardly retired, so we don't have an AARP card yet. We know a couple who bought a condo in a three floor project that pretty much caters to adults, usually older adults, with no children. The husband told me there are "wife swapping couples, like 5 couples, living in the project." I asked him if that has become their new hobby and he said his wife would have none of that.

UK Swingers sought - - Hiya!! We are a genuine lifestyles couple (please see our profile) that would like to make contact with other UK swingers through here but, so far, have had no luck.... Are there any out there want to chat and exchange info/experiences?? Please get in touch... XXX Dave and Andrea XXX www.frenzswingers.com [email protected] Picture is from our last couples party before Xmas

Swingers In Uniform - Pay your memorial day respects here. - Mr. Quixote keeps insisting the we don't have a clue. Well Mr. Wizard could ya please clue us in. Let us in on the secret. You seem to know it all. After all, all the support you have seems to suggest that you are the best qualified person to enlighten us all. You haven't even responded to my posts. The best you can come up with is, "You don't have a clue" and you like my dead mother's mouth on your dick. You are a Gas Bag. You are a troll. All you are out to do it offend people so you can bring on the flames. You live a sad existence. You called other's spouses "Hose Beasts". Where the fuck is yours???? Where are your pics? You're looking pretty stupid man. You have no power behind your words. You chastize us for our undying passion for which we stand, yet you fail to tell us where you stand. ANSWER ME! STAND UP LIKE A MAN AND ANSWER! I wonder if you were rejected on here. Maybe some couple on here didn't like that you are a self-proclaimed necrophile. Now, you have made it you personal war to slam everyone one the site because you feel inadequate to the living. You realized maybe that "the living" actually may have a difference in opinion. That maybe Quixote's couch isn't where the world begins and ends. The first clue might be your lack of following here, the second might be the effect your comments have on everyone around you. Would anyone else like to add a third? I am sure you can even you come up with some yourself Mr Q. With all of that being said, maybe you should think hard the next time you decide to challenge the resolove of American Patriotism by thrashing us for giving thanks to those who've sacrificed something you're to feeble minded to understand or appreciate. Damn guys this is like shooting fish in a barrel. It almost makes me feel bad. Almost... Don & Tami

Do you frequently have... - - ...dirty dreams? What's the naughtiest dream you've ever had? And remember, we're all swingers here so something akin to boinking the cute neighbor in the house down the street might cause us to yawn a little rather than get turned on. [em]Emo_49[/em]

Young swingers party - sold out, who still wants to party ? - We would be up to go to a different one. Let us know .... :)

Swingers in a vanilla bar... - - Dr. Ziggy... How would someone approach a couple in a vanilla bar if you suspect (or know from a reliable source) that they are swingers? (And the wife/gf seems to be quite friently.)

Age quesiton - Do swingers of the same age group swing together? - Age is not a factor for us! With her 34 and me 51 can be close to one but not both. If people are nice and want to have fun we say why not! R & J

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