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Do you only play with married couples? - - I don't think another couple's/two swingers level of commitment has anything to do with it. As long as no one is left out, that's the issue. Who gives a fuck if they're married, dating or just hooking up as swing partners.
-D-
Looking for Advice - Recently coming back into the LS - Others have told you that you aren't actual swingers. We say, who cares what they think? You are in the "lifestyle" for your enjoyment and preferences. Don't be bothered about what they tell you. However, they were correct that what you want is a "tall order". They may not have been judging you, but just giving you the reality of what you seek. But, be patient. At some point, a unicorn or a wife with a hall pass will join you. It will not be as frequently as what most of us do here, but it will happen eventually. Just keep posting. We really hope you find what you're looking for.
Where do you go have Adult only sexual fun in Vegas... - Sexual fun - Well since you said good old wholesome adult only sexual fun in Vegas we would think should definitely not go to a church in Vegas or anywhere else. It seems that far too often the sex negative power hungry control freaks at the pulpits do not seem to understand the concepts we swingers embrace that sex needs to be "consensual" and with "adults."
Only time we ever had swing sex in Vegas it was with basically open minded vanillas that we met at a coffee shop at Mandalay Bay. So we added a swirl to there vanilla world. Fun!! Other than passing through we have only been to Vegas once. There was and maybe still is a web site dedicated to tourist looking for swingers hook ups in Vegas called "American Lowlifes." We established a profile for the few days we were there and like all other forms of digital social media we did chat with a few people and met with one couple but decided not to hook up after we met them. Mostly we just toured the strip and chatted up people we met just being friendly, which can sometimes lead to flirty which can sometimes move to your place or theirs and so on and so forth. We would suggest that whatever you do do not sit in the hotel room in front of a computer waiting for replies to e-mails. Get up get some coffee get out the door and get your sexy show on the road in the flesh. People go to Vegas to have fun so you are going to be bumping into people with the idea they want to do something or maybe someone sexy and new anyway.
'No pressure!' or 'Boundaries respected!' - What does the opposite look like? - "...isn't it a given that one won't assault another person or attempt to do so?"
One would hope. Unfortunately the lifestyle has become so adulterated (pun intended) by just about anyone who thinks it's a free, easy way to get NSA sex that you now have a virtual cornucopia of people who don't really "get it". What I guess I'm trying to say is that it seems like it's no longer wife swapping or swinging. It's now "the lifestyle" and apparently includes every manner of sexual libertine imaginable including those who view swingers (and yes I mean mostly females) as wanton sluts who are borderline nymphomaniacs that lack the capacity or will to say (or mean) "No.".
It would be very interesting to poll women who have been in the lifestyle for a considerable amount of time, say ten, fifteen or twenty years, and ask them if they're ever had to more or less fight a guy off or worse, or if they've ever entertained unwanted advances so as to not rock the boat or harsh the vibe at a swing party. Sadly I'd be willing to bet the number would be fairly high. [em]Emo_8[/em]
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - "pecksniffian" lol
I would go break out the scrabble dictionary for that one but you dont want to appear too self righteous.
JIM
Pissed when partner posts booty calls but does not follow throug - My partner posted a booty call an we had a good response but he won’t answer my calls or texts. - My partner posted a booty call and we had a good response but I can’t let my fellow swingers know because I don’t remember the password. I feel about it. I would host if I could.
YOLO Cruise April 26 2009 - swingers cruise - We are a Jax couple....we already added you on our friends list but we would love to chat with others from the Jax area!
Pete and Ashley
Why Hide Your Faces? - Don't you realize you're smarter than everyone else? - Because we are ugly! haha. just kidding...
But, can you imagine being a middle school teacher and the students found out you were letting other men fuck your wife in gangbangs? Vanillas seem to think we are all sex crazed zealots who will have sex with anyone and engage in large orgies all the time. What if one of these kids told his parents that he saw your profile on a swingers site advertising gangbangs? More than likely, that parent would tell everyone that you are not the role model that should be teaching their children; and demand that you be fired. You would lose your career and reputation.
There are many other reasons. But this is just one.
Any Swingers out there? Golf swingers that is... - - [quote=SMILEYMAN4U]Bill Murray "it's in the hole, it's in the hole" LOL[/quote]
I actiualy Played that course! & BM really does have a resturant at it called the Caddy Shack! The World Golf Hall of Fame in St Aqustine Fla... You folks down there are SOOOOooooo Lucky!
To message first or not - Do you reach out first? - We respond to inquiries far more often then we make the first contact. When we were younger we got a lot more inquiries and we also made more first contacts . We used to play almost weekly, and sometimes two or three times a week. We attended more meet and greets too.
As we have aged we get fewer inquiries. We are probably not within the age parameters, that most swingers are looking for. We also have very little free time. So really it kind of works out. We have discovered that now that are kids are all grown and married etc., that almost all of our social time is family related. Its a good thing! What it has done is eliminate us from the hit most of the events crowd or the hang out twice every weekend crowd. We just can't live up to that. It's not out of obligation it's a choice. We spent far more energy and emotion as parents than we have in the swing scene. So for us spontaneity and flexibility are really key elements. We can't spend much time swinging, but we will make worth someone's time when we do hook up.
For us primetime swing time was at the point in life when the kids were old enough to not need a babysitter, they needed a lot of time to hang out with friends and needed a bit of autonomy too. We could go out, while they were out playing with their friends, and play with our friends. Now that they are all real adults, happy and successful, they want to hang out. We enjoy each others company, and for us family really is paramount.
We were not swingers when they were young. We really didn't have time for it. Now that our kids are adults, and are doing what we did with family, and we are involved and enjoying it, what and who fits in the lifestyle has changed up a bit. The search engine parameters, and most profiles don't address most of the deeper layers of compatibility. In the end, if you remain true to yourselves, and each other, you'll run into the right people, at the right times in your life.
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