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Android swingers apps? - - I agree to bad swingular cant just steal an app :p that would be wrong lol
But if we all hit one app and recomend it maybe swingular can work out a deal with app makers
Though i doubt it will happen this site costs a bit to run im sure and most of us bought the lifetime membership on sale.
so admins really are probably at a point that there running this out of pocket now lol
ok the whos fuckin app got changed cause of the name lol google booted it off they renamed
It is now Who'sF*ckin'
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.wf.android
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Poly-Swingers - Moving beyond FWB relationship - Ever seen Zebra Lounge? Give that movie a whirl!
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - Gremlin! Lucky! Those cars are awesome, but I guess you already know that!
Swingers Dares - Text for cards in the game - How about kissing the Ice cube to your Favs.Make out with the host/hostess, one minute.Everyone stand tightly in front of each other and pass the orange forward using chin/shoulder.Penis bagle tossTwo girls tie a ribbon on a penis only using there mouthsAll girls have to kissBlindfolded oral sex (guess who the partner is)Everyones blindfold and try to find your partner.Remove an article of clothing from your fav. and it has to stay off the whole evening.Try a friends drinkPass the cherry, lips only.Fondle For Fun (1 min.) your choice.Men, serve the woman through out the night; fruit, (periodically). There choice who.8:30 Clothes, 10:30 Lingerie, 11:30 one article of clothing. turn out the lights.Hope this helps, sounds like fun. Oh and the Bagle toss is a real ringer.
Does that couple swing? - - I usually wonder that a lot when I go to bars that are known to have swingers hangout there.
KUTV News Story on Swingers - News - A scene from Caligula.
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Swingers unnerve families at hotel - - The morning radio station had one of the fathers of the soccer team players live on a call this morning and he said the kids saw alot ..more by the pool ....They had to send some kids to thier rooms and the kids are like\" why are we being punished\"? LOL He also said it was terrible planning the next time they will NOT go there ...
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Safe Sex - How do you (or don't you) protect yourselves? - We now have the rule that we always use condoms. And we are still shopping around for the best ones that work for hubby. He would prefer not having to use them but not enough that he is going to stop. (Side Note: red condoms can have a BAD visual connotation for some guys)
I admit that when we started out we didn\'t use them the first couple of times we played. We then discovered that the first couple we played with doesn\'t use them at all. They had some of the same arguments I\'ve seen posted here. The fact that STD\'s can be transmitted via oral sex, condoms don\'t feel right, etc. I can see those points. But then we found out that they don\'t get tested at all and he picks up random chicks while traveling (with wife\'s knowledge and permision) I think that is the point that makes me the most uncomfortable. Most of the swingers we have met so far are very aware of STD\'s and take some precautions such as getting tested, condoms, etc. But I have seen the statistics on STD\'s in single sexually active people and it\'s like 1 in 4 and most don\'t know they are infected. So he is playing russian roulette in my opinion. We didn\'t know all this before we played with them.
So I guess the moral of the story is to talk with potential partners and ask questions!! For us newbies, it may be awkward and feel like you are being crass, nosy, or killing the spark, but the other couple should be willing to at least discuss it or maybe they aren\'t right for you!!
Carrie V.
becoming a poly couple - wanting another woman to join our family - [quote=MISSSMITHNSIRNEWBY]The Utah Polyamory Society is a decent place to start networking, if that is your thing. Not a big fan of the term, or of being labeled for who and what I am at any given moment in my life.
As far as physical attractiveness, it is hit-and-miss in every community. Usually, one has to delve deeper than the loud and more public crowd.
I've met a number of swingers on here who also view themselves as "poly," and even more who have expressed interest in pursuing such a lifestyle. I've met some who have branched away from swinging toward poly. Swinging for most couples I've known represents a passing phase toward messy divorce, and sometimes some form of poly -- though that also tends to lead toward messy divorce.
In other words, your favorite label fails to insulate you from the consequences of life, and from your own choices. Therefore, being too proud of what you think you are today is rather silly.
Daniel[/quote]
Becoming self aware really can release us from a large measure of cognitive dissonance. Labels, and especially the determination to personify the definition of a label can inhibit self awareness. In the dance of neurons and mirror-neurons firing within us and all the accompanying chemical responses affecting our emotional state, etc., etc., we are in fact never really a centered being, or completely a separate entity buy really more an ever changing manifestation within a whole. If we think we are going to change and we are not capable of ever really controlling or even predicting exactly where the change will take us or what and how we will experience it then at least we are aware it really is all pretty mysterious. Marriage or a bonding or whatever you call it is as ever changing as the rest of the universe. We each and everyone of us are frankly a completely different physical manifestation every micro second that most probably has never existed before and will never exist again. Never-the-less, we all tend to have a self identifying life story or self image at least to some degree. It is at least somewhat based on our recollection of events that lay backward in the arrow of time, as we remember it, which in and of itself is sort of an illusion based on our limitations in perception.
We also know a few peeps that are members of the site that are more Poly Light than poly in that they have been willfully enjoying a life partner as in just one for many years but that are open to deeper relationships that may include a measure of romance.
Willfully enjoying a life partner seems to be the key. We are in the middle of that every micro second. Exactly who and how we will be in the future is impossible to predict. We willfully agree to keep doing it together.
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