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Polyamory anybody? - - Not all polyamorous people are swingers, and not all swingers are given to polyamory. Some are naturally inclined to enjoy both alternatives. Perhaps, most of us fall someplace near the middle ground between polyamory including multiple commitments, all on equal ground, or just casual sex just for pleasure. We both seem to find ourselves near the center ground. We both enjoy a bit less guarded perspective, where we can let our emotions go where they will. We have both enjoyed some extra martial sexual relationships which included some romance. Really, nobody has ever drawn either of us into their influence or romantic spell as deeply as we feel toward each other. So, in the truest sense, we are not or at least have not yet, ever become fully polyamorous. It may be that after almost four decades together, our bond as a couple just naturally creates some boundaries. Our decision to swing began and remains a decision that stems from our shared desires. It is an agreement, that encourages each other’s pleasure. Fidelity, does not require monogamy. Full allowing each other to experience pleasure and relationships is in and of itself a commitment to each other’s growth and joy!

Friends or swinging partner - - That's not really an easy question to answer. We've met a bunch of couples just once. We generally don't hop into bed on the first date, but it does happen. I think there have been couples that we've hopped into bed with that we might not see in other than swinger settings, but we definitely have friends we swing with that we would and do. There are swinger couples we'd really like to spend vanilla time with but just haven't had the time. Candycanepa is right in that this is a swingers site for swinging friends, so the intent is to find friends to hop into bed with. We're a super busy couple. He travels 4-5 days a week and, like a lot of you, we have kids at home. That makes it tough to have time to really have close friends, swinger or vanilla.

Anyone else in or near Daybreak? - We know you are out there! - [quote=PLAYNW3]What ever came of the Daybreak swingers Facebook page? Is it active and being used?[/quote] pretty slow. a couple people talk and post pics. most people just lurk. We need more people. Could be a great group

Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - We should toss back a few "not corona's " Sometime soon

Fullsize Lifestyle Cruise Takeover 2010 - 2500 Swingers on Royal Caribbean's Radiance of the Seas - Are There any Rooms Avilable??? We would like to book. We went on the first cruise out of Tampa April 2009. Had a great time :-O !!!! Balticsun

Swing Camp (7/15 - 7/17) - Swingers Campout in Birch Creek Idaho - "This one time at Swing Camp..." Do you know how you would complete this sentence? No? Well, come join us for the 1st Annual Black Ring Society of Idaho Swing Camp and let's make some naughty and sexy memories that we can use to complete that sentence! We are going to host a swinger's campout at Birch Creek Campground (north of Mud Lake on ID-28, more information below) on the weekend of July 15-17. We have reserved Group Site #4 for this event. This is going to be a group event with an admission fee of $15 per person (collected in cash at the event). The admission fee will cover the cost of the campground, the large 6 foot grill that we are going to provide for those tent campers who need something to cook on, and other supplies that we will help provide. The area we have reserved does not have a LOT of privacy, but we plan to bring several tarps that we can hang up between campers or in other ways to help us provide additional privacy for the things that we would like to do during this event. There is also not going to be a lot of shade other than that which we provide, so if you have a pop-up canopy you can bring, it will surely come in very useful. The campsite is about a quarter mile from the main road and we plan to use campers in a way to block access to the campsite from onlookers. The site is plenty big enough for quite a few campers, so feel free to bring them with the knowledge that there are no hookups there, so this will be dry camping for those bringing their campers. Additionally, if you have them, feel free to bring ATVs because there places to ride up in the area. There is also no place to harvest firewood up there, so be sure to make arrangements for that. We don't really want to plan a lot of group activities because we want members to have the freedom to do what they wish, but here is what we have planned so far. On Saturday morning, Saturday night, and Sunday morning, we are planning to have a group potluck type of cookout where we will provide a grill to cook what you bring. Depending on how we can arrange things while we are there, we think it would be a great idea for the guys to cook the Saturday night meal nude (or as nude as they feel comfortable) and have the girls cook the Sunday morning meal nude (or as nude as they feel comfortable). Saturday night we have a few group games that we will play with those who are interested. Campsite Information: 1) Birch Creek Campground website: http://www.blm.gov/id/st/en/visit_and_play/places_to_see/upper_snake_field/Birch_Creek_Campground.html 2) Directions to the campsite: Birch Creek is 66 miles from Idaho Falls (I-15 Exit 116): 1. Take I-15 North to Exit 143 for ID-33 2. At the end of the off-ramp take a left on ID-33 towards Mud Lake. 3. Just after you go through the bustling metropolis of Mud Lake (don't blink of you might miss it), take a right ID-28. 4. 24.5 miles down ID-28, you will see a sign on the left hand side of the road for the Birch Creek Recreational Area - Middle Access (attached to this post). 5. Take a left on to the Middle Access road to the Birch Creek Recreational Area. 6. 0.3 miles down the road, you will come to a fork in the road (the 2nd picture). 7. Take a left at the fork and you will see the sign (on the right) for Group Site #4. 8. Someone from the group will be at the fork to check you in, so be looking for that. Things to bring (other than normal camping supplies and equipment): 1) $15 per person for admission. 2) Food for your consumption keeping in mind that we will provide a grill for cooking 3) Firewood 4) Pop-up canopy or extra blankets to be used for privacy and/or shade Even though we KNOW this campsite may not necessarily be ideal for this event, this is the site that we have chosen and reserved, so we plan to make the best of it and we hope that you will be able to join us for this event and have some outdoor fun with us.

Young swingers party - sold out, who still wants to party ? - [quote=CHEFFETTE][quote=LOOKIN4FUN369]We are getting off of track of what this post was created for, it wasn't to make fun or the party or who is attending age limitations. it's was to see who would want to party for those who can't attend due to it being sold out. [/quote] I thought the point of RECON's post was that if age is being verified prior to tickets going out, it isn't actually sold out.[/quote] I doubt they verify the age, just took the money and ran lol

Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - [quote=LUVTHEFUN]We don't like condoms. But we have heard the HPV vaccine is not recommended if you are older than 26, 30, or 45 (depending on the type of vaccine). Not sure the options, other than a small group, tested regularly, would be ideal.[/quote] It’s supposed to be less effective with older people mainly because most have been exposed to HPV in some way the older they are. HPV is the number one STI… chances are you’ve had it and never realized you did, then your body got rid of it on its own. As far as this thread goes, while it might sound ideal to have a small group of friends that are tested clean, the reality is it only takes one of those people to stray and play with someone outside of the group that’s infected with something… then they will bring it into the rest of the group. It would take a whole lot of honesty and trust to make something like that work. Can’t control other people if they decide to have sex with others outside the group… and you’d never know if they put you at risk if they decided to keep quiet. Testing in this LS is a funny thing to us. If you’re active in this LS and are playing with others that are also active, those clean STI results become useless very quickly. You would have to test after each new partner, and after waiting through an incubation period first. Couples that say they have “recent tests” are usually talking about months old tests… how many people (men or women) have they been with since the clean test result? That’s not ever mentioned in our experience… If you test on a Monday, then play with someone infected (and get what they’ve got) on a Wednesday, then get a clean result on Friday, you still have a clean result even though you’re infected. We test for our own peace of mind. Never to show others as proof… we will always only ever trust ourselves with our sexual safety, and take the risks WE can control… those risks are never at zero in this LS, and we recognize that. Oral sex has its own risks as well… Weighing risk and reward is part of it. However, leaving our sexual health in others’ hands is something we just can’t do. We don’t trust you other naughty fucking people that much 😂 So condoms always for us. To each their own.

How much risk is too much? - - [quote=ILLUSTRATOR]You're right. I'm just telling it the way I see it from what I know. I just wanted to voice the other side of this because I know women who feel this way and, although I understand how you feel, I see their side of it, too. And the men on here who think that women truly want to be raped need to understand that they may think it's what they want, but what they really want is the unrealistic fantasy that's played out so often in the Romance Novels that are flying off the shelves. There's a reason for their high sales. But it's merely a Fantasy. These men might come across videos like that of Laci Green's and think that means all women want to be raped. They should know that, in reality, women don't want it played out. That's what the OP should know and consider. [/quote] And a certain percentage of men may have just read that and only saw (or acknowledged), "...all women want to be raped." When we already have a very pervasive bias in our culture towards patriarchy and women being subservient to men, especially sexually, then discussions like this, IMHO, cause more harm than good. It doesn't take much looking on the internet to find sites and discussion boards where violence against women is not only overtly depicted through text and image but also actively discussed and even encouraged. Fantasize all you want but openly discussing how to fulfill rape fantasies in a swingers forum can only cause harm I think.

Questions about the Lifestyle. - Should we get in or not? - Well, I went touring with a couple of bands when I was just a lad, and discovered the wonderful world of no strings attached sex, bisexual women, orgies and such. It was just a couple of years but it did put an interesting finish on my late teens and early twenties. In my mid twenties I fell head over heals in love with a 19 year old virgin, who was saving herself for marriage, so I married her. The marriage has been fantastic as has been the sex. We had a bunch of kids and enjoyed great monogamous sex for over twenty years. As the kids were beginning to become happy and successful adults, we sort of decided to consider acting on some fantasies we had discussed. That was about 2005 we think. We got an invitation to a meet and greet they used to have at a place called Club Vegas, and we met a few swingers. We had one hook up with a couple where nobody got around to actually saying lets get naked, even though we all wanted to. Our next encounter ended up to be really sexual, as in there was full swap sex. It was the first time Mrs. Delicious every had sex with anyone other than myself. It went swimmingly well. Soooo, we hooked up a lot at first, in quite a few scenarios, with couples and or singles. There were a few difficult moments, but nothing traumatic. It was good, good! From time to time we have just really wanted to only sexually focus on each other, but really never all together lost interest in swinging, but really did not try and hook up very often. We are kind of there now. Our family is growing, with kids getting married, having kids, and consequently, so are family events on the calendar. Family first, because as much as we enjoy swinging, we actually prefer family time. We don't make it out to the big events, or very many meet and greets. We play with some old friends from time to time and yes we are still interested in meeting some new lovers, and we still pursue that a bit, but frankly, we are pretty hard to nail down time wise. Are we happy we decided to step into the "lifestyle"? Yes we are. Perhaps it was relatively easy for us to adjust, because we have always had faith and confidence in each other, and we discovered that we both seemed to have married someone with whom we are very compatible in all sorts of ways including sexually. We still remain each others favorite lovers. If you are both on the same page about trying this adventure, then try it! Nothing ventured nothing gained. If you discover it does not fit in with your relationship, then give it up. If it does not make you happy don't force it.