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Are swingers moral? - Who determines what morals are? - ALSO IF YOU BELIEVE IN THEM: "THE TEN COMAMANDMENTS"
Age - New to the swingers community - is age a factor in how a couple is viewed? - We tend to focus more on an overall package deal, rather than choosing to focus on one parameter specifically, such as age. Personality and intellectual attraction combined with levels of physical attraction sometimes make the issue of age a moot point.
Black and white generalizations are something we prefer to avoid when referring to those we encounter in the lifestyle, i.e., younger ones are always too immature or clueless, older ones have no stamina, etc.
Diversity within the swinger community is too great to even attempt such broad categorizations. Besides, what potential fun/friends are we missing out on because of that?
Honestly, we have found younger couples to far exceed their years in relative wisdom, often surpassing those that are well above their age group. Inversely, my wife and I will outlast most party goers ten years our junior.
Alright...'nuff rambling. :)
~J~
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - Posted By: TEQUILAROSE Reply posted on:
Jan 8, 2008 - 1:02 pm
AKLIM,
Saying pitbulls are a dangerous breed would be as inaccurate as saying all mexicans are illegal and are on welfare, all blacks like fried chicken and listen to rap music or all whites live in a trailer park and fuck their sister.
There are dangerous Pitbulls, just as there are dangerous German Shepards and Golden Retrievers. It does not make it right to assume all are just because some are. Pitbulls are not the "most dangerous" breed by nature. The have a higher risk of attack, because many people mistreat them because of how they fight. Mis/Disinformation, ignorance and insecurity is what perpetuates intolerance
Again, you are right. However, there are those that will cite raw statistics to JUSTIFY their opinion instead of trying to FORM an opinion.
Anyone going to Habits tonight - First time for us... Habits in SLC, it sounds fun.. is anyone going - Habits has been great for couples and other swingers.
They have put a lot of effort and money into their club and they deserve our support and patronage.
Wendover questions - - Anyone know how to find a place for happy ending massages?
Any couples going in the end of march?
Are there any swingers clubs?
What is there to do?
Forum disagreements and swinging (was Something for Lefty) - - You know what??? I thought this was a swingers forum. A place to meet people and make friends. What on earth are you doing bringing war and politics in here? Politics is just like religion. Everyone has their own thoughts and beliefs and it's their right to. My thoughts and opinions are that this forum is no place to discuss either. Seems that some start these kinds of threads just to start heated and argumentitive discussion. Also by the persistance i see, they also like to hear themselves talk. Well why don't you take it to a political forum and give us a break. We'd like to read about things here that bring about a little sunshine in our lives. Your precious Mr. Bush hasn't done that since day one.....war or no war.
Here's something Ive been curious about - - I don't think they are swingers, they are just single people that like to play with swingers, and for sure there is something in the lifestyle that they like besides the sex.
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asking your swinger friend if you can join them. - - Tell him you would be interested in seeing what might be possible, because you are interested, but that if he is uncomfortable with any potential swing possibilities that you are okay with that and it never needs to be mentioned again. Just be honest about your interest. Fuck trying to be cool and just be honest. He probably needs to know that your friendship is not in jeopardy if he would say no. In the end if his wife is not sexually attracted to you, it may well be a mute point anyway. If she is then who knows. If they enjoy swinging then like most swingers, they probably already know that they enjoy watching each other getting properly fucked. I would rather watch a friend that I already respect and trust having sex with my wife than a stranger. The wife feels the same way when it come to watching me have sex.
With all of that said remember that most, not all, but most swinger women, just like vanilla women, only want to have sex with men they are sexually attracted to and that they feel they can trust. If they would not have considered having sex with you, were they not married, in the vanilla world, they would not consider having sex with you in the swinger world either. Swinging women are typically not afraid of going to hell for sex or offending their husbands for having sex. Swinger women typically do not devalue themselves for having strong sexual appetites. So more guys can and do have sex with them because those obstacles to sex are not so apparent, but in the end just because they know that you know that they swing does not mean they want to fuck you. If they want to fuck you it can happen. If they are a secure swinging couple in a healthy relationship and she already knows you, then maybe, all hubby might have to say to her is "you know (Insert your name here) if he was cool in all other respects do think you would be interested in having sex with him?" and if she says, well maybe, then it is a maybe but if she says "Hell yes. Why is he interested?" Then the ball is already rolling and it is up to you to not blow it.
Yet Another Cheater - - Dayyuuuummmm
This ones is getting thick. Nothing like a good hot topic on a cool Wednesday.
Cheating = lying = bad.
Playing alone Is not cheating.
Anyone who wants to dabble in this world is going to run across some unsavory shit. You don’t go to a bikers bar and bitch about there being so many bikers. I’m not saying swinging is the same as cheating but let’s face it we’re dealing with extrarelational sex, lines get blurred.
A very pious couple might look at sanctioned swinging and say we’re all fucking nuts. Normal swingers look at a cheater and question hus/her morals. I feel like everyone wants to point their finger down stream and call them assholes.
We’ve run into cheaters too, we roll our eyes and move on. Vent if you need to vent but don’t let the bastards (or bitches) get you down.
Have fun!
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