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Swinger & 🦄 Bait - An experiment to attract swingers and unicorns. - The unicorn bait would have definitely caught my eye. :)
Thank You and Goodbye - - I JUST WANT TO SAY A FEW THINGS .
FIRST OF ALL I HAVE SPOKEN TO THIS GUY AND HE IS REALLY COOL AND SWEET AND IS ALSO LOOKING FOR FRIENDS AS WELL .AND I HAVE ALSO SPOKEN TO OTHER SINGLE MEN ON THIS SITE AND STUFF THAT I HAVE HEARD OTHERS SAYING TO THSE SINGLE GUYS IS VERY RUDE AND UNCALLED FOR . IT IS ONE THING TO SAY THAT U ARENT LOOKING TO PLAY WITH A SINGLE MAN AND LEAVE IT AT THAT . BUT SOME HAVE GOTTEN VERY RUDE AND IN DETAILS . AND TO ME IT IS JUST SOMEONE ACTING CHILDISH AND HURTING OTHERS FEELINGS . THERE IS A WAY TO SAY NO TAHNKS . AND THERE IS BEING RUDE AND PUSHY AND HATEFUL . AND THERE IS NO REASON FOR THAT IN THE LIFE STYLE .THE LIFE STYLE IS HERE FOR US ALLLLLLLLL TO SHARE . FIND THE ONES U CLICK WITH AND HAVE FUN . BUT THERE IS NO REASON TO BE RUDE TO EACH OTHER . EVERYBODY IS LOOKING FOR DIFFERENT THINGS .
AND IAM THE ONE THAT SAID I HAVE MORE PROBLEMS WITH MARRIED MEN THEN SINGLE MEN . I LIKE LADIES . I PLAY WITH LADIES . IF AND WHEN I FIND A GUY I WANT TO PLAY WITH THEN SO BE IT ILL DO IT . BUT FOR NOW I DONT NEED IT OR WANT IT . AND I TELL EVERYBODY THAT UP FRONT . THE SINGLE GUYS (MOST OF THEM ) ARE VERY RESPECT FUL TO MY LIKES AND DISLIKES . AND NEVER TRY TO TALK ME INTO IT OR ANYTHING . I CHAT WITH ALOT OF SINGLE GUYS AND WE HANG OUT WITH THEM AT CLUBS AND PARTIES . AND FOR THE MOST PART THEY ARE VERY WELL BEHAVED AND JUST WANT TO HANG OUT WITH (NICE PEOPLE ) THAT WILL TREAT THEM LIKE A PERSON .
AND AS FOR COUPLES . YES MOST ARE LOOKING FOR OTHER COUPLES OR FEMALES BUT NOT ALL ARE . AND IF U ARENT LOOKING FOR A SINGLE MAN THEN U CAN SAY IT NICELY .
BUT KEEP IN MIND THAT WE WERE ALLLLLLLLLLL SINGLE ONE DAY . AND WE CAN ALLLLLLLL BECOME SINGLES ANY DAY . AND TO JUDGE SOMEONE OR TREAT THEM BADLY CAUSE THEY FALL IN THE SINGLE GROUP IS JUDGEING A BOOK BY ITS COVER . AND SOMEONE THAT IS SINGLE AT TONIGHTS PARTY MIGHT FIND MRS RIGHT AND BE THE HOTTEST COUPLE AT THE NEXT PARTY . AND I HOPE THE FIRST THING THEY DO IS TELL ALLLLLLLLLLLL THE COUPLES THAT THEY ARENT LOOKING FOR COUPLES . THAT THEY WANT TO GIVE A SINGLE GUY A TRY .
WE HANG OUT WITH ANYONE THAT IS RESPECTFUL AND FUN . THE SINGLE MEN ARE FUN TO HANG OUT WITH . AND THE MARRIED MEN NEED TO REALIZE THAT IF IT WASNT FOR THEIR LADY AT THEIR SIDE THEY WOULD BE ON THAT SINGLE MAN BOAT AND WOULD BE SITTING IN THE CORNER WITH NO ONE TALKING TOTHEM . WE TRY TO MAKE EVERYBODY FEEL WELCOME TO THE LIFE STYLE . AND HELP EVERYBODY HAVE FUN . AND MEET NEW FRIENDS AND PLAYMATES . JUST CAUSE THE LIFES TYLE PEOPLE SHARE SEX AND IS LOOKING FOR DIFFERENT THINGS DOESNT MEAN IF THEY DONT FALL IN OUR WANT GROUP THAT WE HAVE TO BE RUDE TO THEM . AND IHOPE U ARE NEVER WALKING IN THEIR SHOES . CAUSE THE WALK IS ALONELY AND HARD WALK TO WALK ALONE .
I DONT PLAY WITH NO MEN . AND FOR SOME REASON THE SINGLE MEN UNDERSTAND WHAT THAT MEANS . BUT I JUST CANT GET THE MARRIED MEN TO UNDERSTAND THAT ..... AND IF AND WHEN IAM READY FOR A (MAN) ILL PROB PLAY WITH A SINGLE MAN BECAUSE HE WAS SHOWING ME RESPECT ALL ALONG AND NOT JUST KISSING MY ASS TO GET SOME WHEN I ADDED ON MY PROFILE . HEY I THINK I WANT TO BE WITH A MAN . A MAN SHOWS RESPECT . MARRIED OR SINGLE . A DOG MISBEHAVES ALLLLLLL THE TIME . STRAYS AND TAKEN ONES . BUT I WOULD UNDERSTAND MORE IF THE HORNY SINGLE GUY WAS THE ONE BEING A DOG .
IAM SORRY THAT THE PEOPLE ON THE SITE HAS MADE U FEEL LIKE U NEED TO LEAVE . BUT U DO WHAT U HAVE TO DO CAUSE ITS ALL ABOUT FUN . AND IAM SORRY FOR PEOPLE THAT WANT TO CALL THEMSELVES OPEN MINDED LIFE STYLE SWINGERS CANT ACT SO DAMN CLOSED MINDED MOST OF THE TIME . KEEP LOOKING CAUSE U WILL FIND THOSE THAT ARE LOOKING FOR U .... OOOPPPSSS SORRY. IAM SURE THEY ALL SAY THAT RIGHT .
WHEN WE WANT U WE WILL FIND U . WELL DAMN WHO IS TREATING WHO LIKE A SEX TOY AND BEING RUDE . I THINK IT IS THE OTHER WAY AROUND . COUPLES TREAT SINGLE MEN LIKE HOW THEY SAY SINGLE MEN ACT TOWRDS THEM . I JUST DONT GET IT .
I WORK FOR A SWINGERS SITE AND U ARE MORE THEN WELCOME TO JOIN THE SITE AND TRY TO MEET SOME NEW FRIENDS . THEIR IS A PHOTO CONTEST GOING ON NOW SO PLEASSE ADD SOME OF THOSE HOT PICS OF YOURS ... I PROB WONT BE ABLE TO GET ANY WORK DONE... BUT IKNOW THE MEMEBER S WILL LIKE TO SEE U TO . HA HA
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WE WELCOME ANYBODY AND EVERYBODY THAT IS FRIENDLY AND FUN .
NO RUDE OR PUSHY OR STUCK UP PEOPLE .
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
I SENT IN A PIC OF WHAT I THINK ABOUTMEAN PEOPLE
Breaking the 4th wall - meeting a swinger in a vanilla situation. - [quote=FUN4MWF]Rather than jump on the bandwagon and agree with everyone all teenie-bopper style, I'd need more info. Did you articulate in your email EXACTLY who you are, as in your real name and job and how you knew them and the specific circumstances that allowed you to recognize them?[/quote]
Basically my e-mail was:
"Hi, I'm James, the male half of Blueidkat, I work as a sales rep for a national beverage company and consequently call on a lot of retail locations along the Wasatch Front. The other day I was at Blah business in Blah City and noticed someone who looks a lot like you. I know with all the swingers in Utah I must bump into some, everyday, and not realize it. It was so cool to possibly recognize a lifestyler out there in the vanilla world and just wondered if I was right."
I understand the whole fear of being stalked and the need for anonimity but are we that afraid? Do we need to be?
Northern Utah Party ... Damn It! - We WILL hunt you down ... - SWINGERS??? Oh shit!!! I thought we were just trying an "alternative lifestyle". Hmmmm last time I jumped from a SWING...it hurt like hell!!! But the last time I just slid nice & easy into open arms...it was a good landing!
How to find other swingers - - Those are way cool... wonder if there are any window decals that have the 7946437 on them... Hmmmm, interesting!
Is this one of your rules? What is it? is it fear? or something - Does everyone feel this way? - For the record, we're fuck first, friends later types. We didn't become swingers to make new friends. We could have joined the Rotary Club for that. LOL Frankly, we like our non-swinging life. We became swingers to add a few special "others" to our already great sex life. It was about fulfilling some group fantasies and the wife's bi-curiousness that did it for us.
It's a LOT more serious for us to decide to be friends with someone than it is for us to decide whether or not to fuck them. It takes a LOT longer than deciding "do 'em/don't do 'em" does.
With that said, we HAVE made a few great friends from swinging that we wouldn't have met otherwise and wouldn't trade for the world. And that fact that we are good friends AND swingers makes these relationships really cool.
But we have found that most folks don't actually "get real" until after the first sex anyway. Before that, everyone is guarded and on their best behavior. We're too old and wise to choose our friends based on first impressions.
Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - I can't wait to try DP! and I want to try having 3 guys at once, so I can have one in my mouth too...
Why are people not answering? - - I agree totally. The most aggravating are those who send an email expressing interest, you reply courteously and never hear from them again. Might as well reply to their email with " Take a long walk on a short pier", or "Kiss my ass" for all the good it does. And those who do it know who they are...even more disgusting are those who do answer emails, schedule a meet and then disappear, never to be seen or heard from again....or they do schedule a meeting and never show up....(how many cups of coffee is a realistic amount of time to wait? ) then you realize you have been "had again". Seems to me there is an inordinate number of voyeurs vs. swingers. Jim
Male on male - Not sure if this is where this goes, but male on male tonight only. - i'm obviously supportive. i'm amazed that so many supposedly free thinking male swingers on Swingular project such a homophobic attitude. and i'm sure every bi guy on here has been contacted by the male half of a supposedly str8 couple looking to get some MM action on the side. one of the best things about being bi is to learn how much fun it is to GIVE a blow job. i used to think that women were doing me a favor by going down on me. know i know why so many women love it. i've also met women who just wanted me to invite a second guy so they could watch two guys go at it. and women who thought they were dating a str8 guy until he undressed and saw that he was wearing women's underwear. i guess what i've learned is there is a lot more variation in human sexual behavior than i thought when i was younger. obviously the majority of people are more comfortable with the opposite sex...but that doesn't make MM or FF play wrong or ever the slightest bit unusual. imho.
Guy and Gals - What do you think? - i like to get to know know people . so i always ask alot of questions about alot of stuff . and for the people that i would like to be playmates with . i like to watch them first do thier thing so i can see what all they are into and how they like it . everybody has a different style . and i love watching them and learning and also seeing if it turns me on . if it doesnt turn me on watching them then i wont play with them . and it gives u a chance to check them out . i know people laugh at me when i say this but i like to watch them play cause u can learn alot about them , as people aslo . some times u have never seen a person naked before . from our pics u can tell we both shave . i chatted with a couple for a while and then they wanted to meet us at the club so they sent some more pics to us . ... and i dont think the lady has ever shaved her private area . at all . i dont want to offend anyone by that comment . cause i dont care if u do or u dont as a person . but for my playmates . thats not something i want . and i think something like that they should be the ones to say something about it . but she didnt and i was honest with her . and told her that i would never want to play with her cause of that reason . but i would still love to be there friend if she wanted to . i guess she took what i said the wrong way . but that is totally different then us . and that matters to us . we shave all the time . so why would i want to play with someone that has never shaved . she had lots of black hair all in the front up and down and sideways . it look like bathing suit shorts . i think that she should have said something about that . to us . long before . idont like suprises . so i like to see people naked and watch them play first before i even think about really playing with them . i dont want to be caught in a room with someone and then change my mind for some reason and make them feel bad . cause something i might not like others would love . so i dont want to hurt anyones feelings . but something s bother me ...and iam not going to take one for the team or anything like that . so i think u should always be honest about yourself and what u need and want . and u should ask as many questions as u want or need to .
one person said something like they talk to each other or watch the other couple to see what their mates want . thinking they are going to do everything the same . everybody is different . i love to be bitten but it is very hard to find someone to bit e me the way i like it . so if one person sees me getting bittten and then tries it i will tell him how i like it . and if that person can do it in a way that turns me on then ill ask for more . but if it isnt turning me on ill ask for them to do somethng else . when we get with out play mates it should be fun for all . and it s great to see when u really turn someone on .and everybody is getting into it really good . and we have been playing with a couple lately . where the lady makes us really weird faces . i have stop doing what i was doing to ask her if she was ok with what was going on . cause the looks are really weird . to my husband if that look was on my face it would mean get me the hell out of here . but she explain all is good and keep going . and i dont care how many times i have heard her saying iam ok .... the look always makes me aask . cause there might be one time that it isnt ok and i dont want to keep going . cause i always want to be invted back .
i think it helps with stuff like this to get to know the people a bit before trying to play .
i dont understand why swingers treat the life style sex different then dating . people are in a rush by what they see on the outside of the person before they know anything about them . and sometimes people have different ways that dont click with each other . and then they have regrets or hurt feelings or just a bad night with someone . i am sorry . i dont want to regret anything . and i try my damnest to find people that will make my night a blast and people that i can do that for them .
i will always ask for what i need and how i need it . and ill always ask the other person what they are wanting and needing . but also go with the flow at the moment and kinda of use my own judgement on if i should ask for something s of just keep doing what iam doing ..
its the quiet ones that worry me .... i have been told to shut up by others around . and i have also been told that i made and make the person feel special cause i let them know they can talk open with me and iam here to make them just as happy as they are trying to make me .
have u ever tried to tell someone to stop doing something or change something and them not understand .one of my biggest problem is with the nipples . yes i like them to be bitten during sex when we are in the moment . but alot of guys bite them hard from the get go and then u can t start up the way u want . or when u are playing with someone and then they try for your ass without asking or u showing any signs that u want that . if i am light touching with a soft swap with someone i dont think they should go right for my ass .i tell people all the time get your finger out of my ass . maybe they were lost . maybe they were trying to move things along faster then what i wanted . hell i dont know what they were thinking but ill tell u this i put a stop to it from the get go . some took it in a bad way cause others have been in the room . and others have understood and made no big deal about it . but i think that is a thing that should be talked about first and not just thrown on someone like that in a group of people . but thats just me . and we all think and see things different .thats why people try to talk their way through things
naughty dreams
freaky kitty
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