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Stabbing at swingers party? - - Unfortunatetly, this kind of thing is bound to happen. It can happen in any setting for any reason. There are always people with coping issues present in life and especially in this lifestyle. Since the spectrum or Gamut of people in the lifestyle is wide, you get varying degrees of ability to cope. Some find they enjoy watching their spouse with another and have great lines of communication and understanding, whilst others aren't honest with themselves or their partner. This can lead to numerous problems in the relationship from arguments to, in this case, murder. I think age (immaturity) has a great deal to do with the circumstance in this case. For anyone to blame this on swinging would be idiocy. My two cents... -Mr TR-

BDSM and Swingers? - Where does BDSM fit in the swingers' world... your thoughts and experiences? - After 10 years of celibacy following a brain aneurysm which left my wife paralyzed and severely brain damaged in a nursing home, I decided that self-denial is unhealthy. Although I had been browsing swinger sites, plus was given a "hall pass" by my wife 6 years ago, it wasn't until 2 years ago I churned up my froze-up engine. My first new life encounter was with a "girl" much younger than my daughter who quickly introduced me to the D/s (Dom/sub) culture in its many dynamics. BDSM, DDlg (Daddy Dom / little girl) role play, hot wax, floggers, blindfolds, rope and chains.... the whole 9 yards! Since then, I have explored and encountered that Daddy Doms can be blessed with very enthusiastic young baby girls. My current little has many facets and gifted me by registering herself as owned property.... a registered slave. Since then I immersed myself in the culture, found out I was a natural-born dominant, and have never looked back. I stay in touch with swinger friends I met over the years (many are also on my Facebook...lol) and have noticed that kink is playing an ever-increasing role in swinging. The rules between the two are VERY different. I am curious to hear if and how it has become part of your play.

We have heard about it many times........... - Couples that are swingers - Queen, unfortunately your experience isn't so unique. There are a fair number of people who are curious about the lifestyle and in their haste for some experience, neglect to mention whatever hangups they might have. People fear that if they don't throw in the obligatory "we're fun, open minded, and drama free" statement in their profile they'll appeal to a more narrow range of couples and it will take longer to have a first experience. These people aren't always prepared for what's going to happen and I guess they just *hope* everything will work out okay - a very vulnerable state of mind. This is why there are a few questions I try to harp on numerous times before meeting a couple regardless of what their profile states: Are you D&D free, herps free, what are your boundaries, is kissing okay, etc, because most peoples' knee jerk response is going to be the answer that they know is "correct" but not necessarily true. The key is to ask multiple times, because some people aren't likely to be honest until they understand that you're working in their best interest. Still, there are some people who will deliberately lie no matter what; there's not much that can be done for them. :! Hopefully your first bad experience will be your last. Good luck!

truth dare or double dare - - I have come up with a swingers lifestyle truth dare or double dare game. i am willing to let all have it. that part that sucks it i can afford to do that. I dont know how much i will charge. if anyone is interested i will work on the price. just a couple examples Truth-Where was the most unusual place you have had sex Dare-Unbutton the persons pants to the left with your teeth Double-dare-Everyone put your keys in a hat. Now the person whose turn it is draw a set out of the hat and kiss the owner on the lips I have come up rules and have 72 questions. i am always coming up with more so i will have them ready soon also. post on this forum if you would like the game if you ever feel like the question is to much for you the game has a rule to help so all can play

Age - New to the swingers community - is age a factor in how a couple is viewed? -

Don said...

We view the lifestyle as a multifaceted creature. The sex part being a benefit. In order for a person to want to have sex, they have to be attracted to the other person in some way shape or form. For some, age is an issue. Should we fault them?? I think not. Just as we've discussed in other threads about D&D, Smoking, Sexual Practices etc. The list is long. I think this has to do with preference. Are some people picky yes. Don't let their decision hamper your good time. There are many couples that this is an issue. Most people's taste doesn't change because someone complains. I say move on. We don't have an issue with age so much as we do attitude and personality. As some of you well know, I (Don) am very opinionated and love to say what's on my mind. Some don't like that. Some thing I am a prick. For those of you that think that... Anyway, as we say in the Army, suck up and drive on. Don't let rejections rule your outlook, let your successes. Good luck.

-D-

St. Pete FL... Anyone out there!?!?!? - - Caliente can be a bit pricy, but the facilities are nice & lots of people go there. Some smaller nudie facilities are near by there as well. The crowd, the price & the facilities at each vary. Some will give you 1-day free passes to try them out. A good percentage of swingers live at or near several of these facilities. For more casual spur-of-the-moment hooks ups, just try some of the bars in Ybor City. While you are there, also try to catch a meal at the Colombian. The food there is worth the trip if your other plans fall through. What have you been trying so far? In what ways has it not been working out for you? Tampa is a target rich environment. You probably just haven't found the right places or learned to read the local body language yet.

Another Swingers Show on TV - - did anyone catch this show?....we thought it was a decent representation of some of the issues that arise in the lifestyle.However,we did think it was humorous at times as a few of the couples seemed to be concerned with privacy in not letting family and friends know they are swingers (we dont either) but they are on TV in a swinger show..lol..it will be interesting to see how they progress in upcoming episodes.

Mormons - - [quote=COUPLEFORFUN4041]Ok, I have set back long enough. I thought that the swinger community excepted people for who they are, wether its sexual orientaion, colorof skin, size, age, transgender, and the religion they attend or not attend. We have meet a lot of people over the last couple years and so far we have not come across judgemental people. We feel that you meet somebody and chat, if there’s an agreement that all of you have common interests, then you meet, and if there’s a connection then all of you decide if comfortable, then sex is an option or not. For those of you who get pissed of for mormons being judgmental and then you turn around and judge them, then I say p**s off, we probably wont get along. Live and let live!!![/quote] Okay speaking plainly, many of us have been Mormons. Reading your comment I must say I do feel guilty, because I in fact do have a lot of Mormon friends. I really do not want to offend them. Very, very few people in most religions believe all the doctrine that their religion teaches. People are all individuals. I should not assume that all swingers, are not believers. Several people in this and other threads have mentioned that a lot Mormons, or Utahans, are good looking people. Hence the jokes about how hot they are. The pictures we are in where we are dressed up, and could pass for temple attendees, we look pretty darn good, better than we normally do! My out of state friends and family always, always, always mention it, when they visit. Mormons are quite often really good looking people. They are frequently very friendly people. We are Irish and visit Ireland from time to time, and in the Republic of Ireland, most everyone there knows quite a bit about Catholicism. There are a few people who are really angry at the Catholic Church there, much like here, but there are way more who albeit are no longer believers, still sort of hold something about their experiences close to their hearts. The kidding around is perhaps part of the way people cope with the loss of their religious beliefs, and sometimes some of their family and friends, once they announce they are no longer believers. I am sincerely sorry for offending you, or anyone for that matter.

Why are there so many swingers from Utah? - - There are a lot of Utah members on here because it is based here in Utah and Rob does a great job of promoting it locally.

KUTV News Story on Swingers - News - We watched it last night. It was totally one sided and from a bitter woman looking to lay blame for her failed marriage. She thought that swinging would fix her marriage. This is the most ridicules thing I heard. First of all if you don't have a 100% strong and trusting relationship then stay away. This is not marriage counseling. Second of all about the STD, play it safe or understand the risk. Third don't throw around the religion card to get sympathy. We are all adults and make choices be adult enough to live with the ones you make. As for the therapist she was way of base bringing in the emotion of love to the swinging world. There is a difference between sex and love, one is a act of the way you treat and live with your other and one is purely to satisfy a animal instinct we choose to satisfy. This was a one person bitch session to get even for her own failures in life not a fair say on both sides.

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