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WHAT ABOUT THE SINGLES - - I AM GATHER CONFUSED ABOUT THE FACT THAT IN SO MANY INVITES TO PARTYS THEY ONLY WANT COUPLES
WHAT ARE THE SINGLES TO DO
I AM A OLDER SINGLE MAN WHO FELLS THIS IS WRONG
I LIVE IN WASHINGTON STATE AND I CANT FIND ANY OTHER SINGLE SWINGERS
MY AGE OR YOUNGER
I UNDERSTAND COUPLES WANT COUPLES BUT WHY ARE THE SINGLES OUT IN THE COLD
Policing Ourselves - Can it be done? - Oleman,
I'm going to disagree with you.
I speed now and then. I don't always wear my seatbelt (law here). I might even steal a grape from the supermarket when doing my grocery shopping.
But when it comes to other people, respecting them, respecting their boundaries, I am very attentive to the rules, spoken and unspoken.
I have been violated. I would never turn around and treat another in a way that I know is harmful or degrading.
I would think it is very reasonable to assume that people act like decent human beings. Swingers or not..
Ali
Have you noticed? - Admin. doesn't give a SHIT!!! - In our humble opinion, Kasidie is a much better website. But,Swingular has traditionally been the site for Utah. However, we have noticed a significant increase of Utah swingers now joining Kasidie, which will probably continue.
Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - thanks justlooking
Utah? - - OMG! Don't you know ANYTHING about Utah???? All we have here are swingers! (and a few skiiers.......who swing!) Honestly there are a TON of swingers here.... if you apply the term broadly and include polygamists....and maybe some Mormons... and a few illegal....er undocumented workers. Just watch the HBO series "Big Love" and it will answer all your questions. Utah is a TOTAL bargain for swingers since you usually get 3 or 4 for the price of one. Where else can you invite a couple to swing and have an extra 2 or 3 single females at the "party"? But don't tell anyone cause we want to keep all those hot chicks with braids, gingham dress and hairy armpits to OURSELVES!!!!
Evil
Explain why you like being a swinger - - [quote=JANDY275]We don't like being swingers....we are really kleptomaniacs. But what better way to see what kind of cool things other people have. :)[/quote]
and you could potentially add "spouses" to the list of things you theive? :p
BUSTED! Your Kids Found Out Your Swingers. Now What? - - I'm pretty sure spermint's profile got booted/deleted a LONG time ago. check the dates of this forum.
Single Males - - In our experience some of the select, honorable and honest single men that have profiles on this site also enjoy actively dating women not associated with, or self identifying with the "swinging lifestyle". No they don't up and blurt out on a first date that they sometimes fuck other men's wives (not that couples own each other) and or participate in group sex with "swingers". Yes they disclose their sexual nature and life choices when dating leans toward sex with a woman. Yes we know of guys that give up swinging if they are seriously dating a woman and she is uneasy or apposed to his having those sorts of sexual relationships or often just because he is just really into her and she is the focus of all his energies. As was mentioned earlier in this thread, couples that have a rock solid romantic and sexual relationship are those that often are the most comfortable and successful with their pursuits within the swing community. Couples who by nature value each other and their relationship first and foremost are much less likely to struggle with too much eternal angst over swinging or even the lack there of. So with that said, some single fellows who really enjoy adventurous sex also enjoy deeper romantic relationships. Most men like to have sex, with sex for sex sake included in that mix. Some guys only want to have sex and those guys are more than likely, going to purchase memberships on the site too. Wouldn't it make sense that the deeper more multidimensional sorts of fellows, would make better playmates, while at the same time being just a bit less available at the drop of a hat, or less likely to send out countless emails or express immediate anger and frustration at any sign of rejection?
Foot note of sorts, non monogamy is quite a bit less of a radical idea outside of the religious communities these days. All the swingers events and maybe group sex and such, may in part be becoming what sets "swingers" apart much more than merely living a somewhat open and comfortable non-monogamous life.
Anyone else in or near Daybreak? - We know you are out there! - [quote=BMSHELL][quote=ITSNOTUS]Great idea! I have created a group. I called it Daybreak Swingers, but anyone near here can join. Just looking for people around here. :) Can't wait to meet our fun/sexy neighbors![/quote]
If it's a "Swingular" group, you'll find it's not much use. People rarely visit that section of Swingular and all the groups are dead.
[/quote]Not all...the Motorcycle group is still active. Not as active as it should be...but still worth checking in on. Just saying...BTW...we live next to Daybreak, as well!
A fine line. - - Trying to stick to the OP intent here.
[quote=CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL][quote=EVILDOERS] we often find it difficult to walk the fine line between being nice, polite, and social with other people when we do not actually feel an attraction to them. If we had a week at desires it would be easier to be nice and talk with everyone. However adult hours are not easy to come by so we do find this line hard. My wife will talk with a friendly person or couple the whole night. Even if the couple is in some committed deal. I have been working
on getting her to direct her time on couples she can see us doing something mor. Or limit the time she spends and move along.
Do you at some point just say honestly that while they are nice it just ain't gonna happen?
We only feel this is needed it they ask us if we want to get a room. At that time you just have to say something and it is never easy.
Do you make some sort of lame excuse and beat a hasty retreat hoping they will get the hint? Do you move on to another couple that you are attracted to and look annoyed when the first couple follows you around all night. Of course some people just won't take a hint or take "no" for an answer and for those you DO have to be blunt.
This is one method that does seem to work. It is easier if you do it early on in the timeline like the first 5 mins or less.
So what techniques do y'all use in situations like this? How do you be nice to others without necessarily encouraging them?
[b]Seriously? I mean, you don't know how to interact with others and carry on a conversation without having them believe you want to hop in the sack with them?[/b]
Its not that easy.. How do you walk over to a couple and start to talk to them at a swingers party and not have them think you want the Mor?
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