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We're an attractive, fit and intelligent couple looking for the same to be FWB. We've dated 3 couples in the past 5 years and had a blast! We know we might not be the normal couple seeking other couples because we aren't into threesomes or same room play at all. We have a lot to offer and haven't had much luck finding what we're specifically looking for. It's more than just sexy for us, we want a lasting friendship with a really great couple. Anyone else in the same boat?
Honestly for us friendship is the most important side of the lifestyle. We enjoy playing but enjoy getting to know people and building lasting relationship. Most of the people we've encountered have been the same way. Keep your chim up and keep looking, your attractive and shouldn't have a hard time finding what your after.
Weve been looking aswell and unfortunately havent had any luck, just when we think things are going to go well they disappear.
Question, we are super new to all this and I’m wondering what does it mean to date another couple? Do you all go out together at the same time or do you each date the other party solo, etc? I find this intriguing.
It's really up to you guys what dating means to you. We've had more of a boyfriend / girlfriend type of relationship with the couples we've dated. The 4 of us would hang out and we'd split off. Sometimes we just do date night with the other spouses on our own. We've even traveled together and have had a blast.just gotta find a cool couple we can have more fun with.
That's the key ... finding a cool sexy couple and that has the same sexy interests. Its important that everyone is comfortable!
We are actually looking for the same thing. However, that hasn't happened as of now. We would like to find a couple close to our age that can do some traveling and just hang out together. It would really be ideal if they were somewhat close by also. Good luck in your search, hope you find what your after.
Candyrocks69 wrote:

It's really up to you guys what dating means to you. We've had more of a boyfriend / girlfriend type of relationship with the couples we've dated. The 4 of us would hang out and we'd split off. Sometimes we just do date night with the other spouses on our own. We've even traveled together and have had a blast.just gotta find a cool couple we can have more fun with.


That makes sense! Sounds like fun to! Thank you for the response!! Best of luck to you guys.
We are looking for the exact same thing as well. A cool, chill fun couple to hang out with and everyone is totally cool and comfortable and safe.
Wakeboarding .... so so true ... good advise for sure!
Looks this type of fun with couples rarely happens, where all people enjoy each other and are attracted to one another...is that the bottom line? With many couples looking for it and rarely finding it, what do you do while waiting for this to come into your lives?
Well, we've dated 3 couples in the past 5 years and it was really great. We know it can work, just gotta find the right fit where all 4 of you connect.
Sunnyday
Sunnyday wrote:

You Both look & sound like a lot of fun. We woule like to get to meet you both.
https://swingular.com/profile.php?_MID=179845Looks this type of fun with couples rarely happens, where all people enjoy each other and are attracted to one another...is that the bottom line? With many couples looking for it and rarely finding it, what do you do while waiting for this to come into your lives?
We would love that dynamic. I think most others would too. It's moe a matter of finding it than wanting it, I think.
Were looking for a couple to date or have as regular basis fwb... but its not easy to find...
Sunnyday wrote:

...what do you do while waiting for this to come into your lives?


Take one (or more) for the team.. lol
hot4tongue2 wrote:

Sunnyday wrote:

...what do you do while waiting for this to come into your lives?

Take one (or more) for the team.. lol
no way lol
We’re trying to herb back into the lifestyle. We used to know a lot of people but it’s been awhile and most of them are gone. We liked the OP’s post and they look really hot. Hit us up and let us know if you think we could be what you’re after. There were several sexy couples replying. We’re anxious to meet a fun couple, find new friendships, and have some fun. 😉
We like this thread. Although we live in Las Vegas, we come up to SLC area often during the winter months to ski. We are looking for lasting friendships too. It would be nice to befriend another couple that would occasionally visit Las Vegas so we can play tour guide. For us, sex is just the icing on the cake. We enjoy separate and same room play.
Hit us up if this sounds fun to you.
Too much work. Yawn... lol. Won’t be long before someone starts catching a feeling or worse suspect someone of catching a feeling. Lol. That’s my opinion but I am sure I am way wrong
massageBBCguy wrote:

Too much work. Yawn... lol. Won’t be long before someone starts catching a feeling or worse suspect someone of catching a feeling. Lol. That’s my opinion but I am sure I am way wrong
So agree!
Maybe someone should make a post of “how to prove you didn’t catch a feeling” lol
(I don’t start topics... I am not wired that way)
We would be curious how many people would be open to discuss any issues/feelings that result from these types of arrangements?!?!
We like to develope a friendship also but we realize not everyone has the schedule to accomodate that. Sounds like candyrocks had more of a poly relationship and that's great but not everyone wants that.

Yep FWB is great and we have that kinda relationship with lots of couples but we date couples and accept what evertype of relationship developes. We have no problem saying no if things progress outside of our boundaries.

This philosophy has worked well and the sexy/horny couples we play with and call friends must feel the same way because we keep having great times with them. Now we have also met couples that are friends that we don't play with and that's ok also.

We don't look for something that's not there (feelings perhaps). We just go with the flow and if it's a one timer that's ok also. If the date is too one sided we make a decision together on how to proceed. We always have fun and we never regret any of our decisions. If things did not workout we have a good laugh and move on.

Good luck and good swinging.
We've dabbled into the poly lifestyle and enjoy it but its hard to find others open to the idea
We have had a situation that was similar to what you described, and are looking for something similar to it again since she moved away :(. We like a woman that likes to play in the bedroom as a 3 way, or one on one with either of us, but also go out with us as well.
We don’t have to “date” persay, but we like having someone that is able to go out to dinner or stargazing or even dancing with us, or hang out with her and have a girls day then come back and cuddle and watch a movie with both.
In the case of another couple, we enjoy being able to swap partners and go on a date wether that together or separate in addition to the bedroom fun.
I think putting a label on it such as a “relationship” limits it too because they feel pressured to only be committed to that relationship.
That’s just our take.

But anyways, if any female or possibly couple reading this is interested in something like what we described definitely message us!
WildCouple88 wrote:

We have had a situation that was similar to what you described, and are looking for something similar to it again since she moved away :(. We like a woman that likes to play in the bedroom as a 3 way, or one on one with either of us, but also go out with us as well.
We don’t have to “date” persay, but we like having someone that is able to go out to dinner or stargazing or even dancing with us, or hang out with her and have a girls day then come back and cuddle and watch a movie with both.
In the case of another couple, we enjoy being able to swap partners and go on a date wether that together or separate in addition to the bedroom fun.
I think putting a label on it such as a “relationship” limits it too because they feel pressured to only be committed to that relationship.
That’s just our take.
But anyways, if any female or possibly couple reading this is interested in something like what we described definitely message us!


Everyone is looking for their own thing. What’s right for you may not be right for another couple. Hopefully you can find a couple that just clicks. I do agree though that pressure isn’t something you want in this situation. It has to be fun and worth it. We are busy professionals and we want to keep it fun.
HI everyone
Yes, everyone has their own wants, needs and desires and we all have busy schedules. Friendship first is what works best for us, it always seems to make the playtime even better.
We like to have friends for dinners, movies and going out.
We both have hall passes so another couple that we can have fun with would be amazing.
Thanks and have fun everyone
Nothing wrong with “catching a feeling”. As long as it’s a good feeling, a physical feeling, and stays at purely a sexual level. Isn’t that why we do this? I want to fk your wife and you want mine. Great thing we have going on here. And it’s just a bunch of good, harmless fun. It’s feels good to cum! And feeling someone new and different is exciting. They look different, smell different, sound different. We’re stimulated by these things. Granted, I could have my wife and no one else ever and would be perfectly happy. But it’s like eating your favorite donut every day. You’ll always like it, but once in awhile you wouldn’t mind the cake filled one with sprinkles.

Enjoy life. This is our one shot to do just that. Cheers!
This sounds like almost exactly what we are looking for as well... Minus the part about dating. We want true friends outside of the bedroom, with awesome benefits. But damn it's hard to come by. lol
Any suggestions for getting started down the couples path?
More4her1096 wrote:

This sounds like almost exactly what we are looking for as well... Minus the part about dating. We want true friends outside of the bedroom, with awesome benefits. But damn it's hard to come by. lol
Any suggestions for getting started down the couples path?


have patience and make sure you’re both happy and in it together.
That's exactly what we're looking for in a couple. Folks that we get along with outside the bedroom is more important than getting along inside the bedroom to us....
HOTOILER3006 wrote:

That's exactly what we're looking for in a couple. Folks that we get along with outside the bedroom is more important than getting along inside the bedroom to us....


Having a couple we genuinely enjoy being around is a huge plus. Fun conversation, dirty jokes, being ridiculous and inappropriate...that's what we want.
Well finding those couples are hard to find on here. We have a couple of them we hang out with from time To time as well. Have fun with see movie have drinks it's not all about the bedroom. That's the plus when that happens as well so treat people like you want to be treated . Those friends are hard to find so good luck on what you are looking for best wishes to you guys
Franknfelicity wrote:

Well finding those couples are hard to find on here. We have a couple of them we hang out with from time To time as well. Have fun with see movie have drinks it's not all about the bedroom. That's the plus when that happens as well so treat people like you want to be treated . Those friends are hard to find so good luck on what you are looking for best wishes to you guys
thank you kindly.
We are always up for meeting new friends, we are not pushy or drama.
Evan n LaNae
Such a hard thing to find, 4 people who get along well enough to do this. When you do it is fun and exciting. We have experienced this situation, and hope to find another couple.
Hey my name is Lee an I. Interested in your ad
Bigc wrote:

Hey my name is Lee an I. Interested in your ad


nooooooope
Candyrocks69 wrote:

Bigc wrote:

Hey my name is Lee an I. Interested in your ad

nooooooope


Aw c'mon. Give the guy a chance. You never know what that "c" stands for. Could be calm, captivating, caring, chivalrous, compassionate, complimentary, comely, cordial, courageous, creative, cultivated, cute, or credible. Or it could stand for cock, I guess. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Wakeboarding love the sarcasm!!!! lol
EVILDOERS wrote:

Candyrocks69 wrote:

[quote=Bigc]Hey my name is Lee an I. Interested in your ad

nooooooope

Aw c'mon. Give the guy a chance. You never know what that "c" stands for. Could be calm, captivating, caring, chivalrous, compassionate, complimentary, comely, cordial, courageous, creative, cultivated, cute, or credible. Or it could stand for cock, I guess. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯[/quote] lol
Candyrocks69 wrote:

EVILDOERS wrote:

[quote=Candyrocks69][quote=Bigc]Hey my name is Lee an I. Interested in your ad

nooooooope

Aw c'mon. Give the guy a chance. You never know what that "c" stands for. Could be calm, captivating, caring, chivalrous, compassionate, complimentary, comely, cordial, courageous, creative, cultivated, cute, or credible. Or it could stand for cock, I guess. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯[/quote] lol[/quote]

Besides, he's apparently a truck driver and he might have a sleeper in his cab so you wouldn't even need to spring for a hotel room. Your husband could even sit in the drivers seat and pretend to drive and toot the horn while you and Bigc do the nasty. Win/win!

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We know quite a few poly people, as in they approach nonmonogamy more from a polyamorous point of view than that of someone mostly interested in recreational sex. Most of the poly people we know are actually in committed couples relationships and really not in any other committed relationship outside of their twosome, but the are open to the possibility. We know two couples, where one of them is in a relationship with a second person and two couples whose relationships became permanent and committed threesomes. The way we look at it, it just has to flow that way naturally.

Candyrocks69, you baited your hook and tossed it out in the water, with this thread. You may not be attracting exactly what you are looking for just yet, but all the responses to your thread just keep rebaiting your hook. We hope the catch you are looking for yanks at your line!
EVILDOERS wrote:

Candyrocks69 wrote:

[quote=EVILDOERS][quote=Candyrocks69][quote=Bigc]Hey my name is Lee an I. Interested in your ad

nooooooope

Aw c'mon. Give the guy a chance. You never know what that "c" stands for. Could be calm, captivating, caring, chivalrous, compassionate, complimentary, comely, cordial, courageous, creative, cultivated, cute, or credible. Or it could stand for cock, I guess. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯[/quote] lol[/quote]
Besides, he's apparently a truck driver and he might have a sleeper in his cab so you wouldn't even need to spring for a hotel room. Your husband could even sit in the drivers seat and pretend to drive and toot the horn while you and Bigc do the nasty. Win/win!
https://media.giphy.com/media/a9S5thwzVclKU/giphy.gif[/quote]

This just wrecked our truck driver fantasy Evil. Thanks.
Candyrocks69 wrote:

We're an attractive, fit and intelligent couple looking for the same to be FWB. We've dated 3 couples in the past 5 years and had a blast! We know we might not be the normal couple seeking other couples because we aren't into threesomes or same room play at all. We have a lot to offer and haven't had much luck finding what we're specifically looking for. It's more than just sexy for us, we want a lasting friendship with a really great couple. Anyone else in the same boat?

You guys are super cute!
We seek both, long term friends who are open to sexyness when the occasion is right but sometimes like to get together with other couples for cheap meaningless sex lol. We have luck finding both. Sometimes casual encounters had lead to long lasting friendships. I guess there are a lot of nice people out there and "togethersex" is just one of the interests (among others) we have in common.
Bigc wrote:

Hey my name is Lee an I. Interested in your ad


he just from FL lol
It's been hard for us as well. Especially since we're not on here often. We use kik more. Hit us up at bcarr214 (him) or acarr214 (her). Hit us up, we like friends with or without benefits.
Encore wrote:

It's been hard for us as well. Especially since we're not on here often. We use kik more. Hit us up at bcarr214 (him) or acarr214 (her). Hit us up, we like friends with or without benefits.


Do you guys travel to South California? We travel to SLC 2-3 times a year.
Hi
Hi
We're still looking for a fun couple to date. Any takers??? Check out our profile and message us if interested.
Hi ,
Melissag
Sounds like we are most definitely in the same 🚣‍♀️...... hit us up and I can send ya a pic
If you all lived here in st George we would be totally interested! Seems like we miss out living here. Maybe my hubby needs to transfer areas 🤔😉😊
We are looking for the same thing
Just like any other date. Go out, get to know each other, and hopefully get laid at the end of the night.
Soooo, are we all going out?
Hey there. I just pm’d you. We are looking for the same. :)