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I enjoy seeing my wife pleasure others. Woman and men especially. A fantasy that may someday come true is seeing her in a gangbang. Perhaps, attending a party where she performs oral sex on several men. Don't get me wrong I love participating and this isn't strictly just watching.

My question is do others share in this desire?
When with the Lady I enjoy being with one other male/female...the 3 of Us... unless in a group situation. Getting to many players,for me, just gets a little to busy ... but certainly open to new and arousing experiences ~
I also love it!
We've had several gang bang scenes. They were amazing and we can't wait to try again.
I also love watching my wife with others! And I would love to see her in a gangbang, especially an oral one!!
Someone should set a oral gangbang. That should be fun!
I also love watching my girl ..
we would love to join in your fun !!!
We might be the odd pair out but we both love to watch!
So what do you do when your with a couple and all four of you just like to watch?
So what do you do when your with a couple and all four of you just like to watch?
So what do you do when your with a couple and all four of you just like to watch?
We just had our first threesome yesterday. It was great! We all had a great time, but hubby had to strike a balance between getting to watch me take a cock and participating. He did great! We can't wait to do it again :)
We just had our first threesome yesterday. It was great! We all had a great time, but hubby had to strike a balance between getting to watch me take a cock and participating. He did great! We can't wait to do it again :)
I also enjoy seeing the wife give and receive pleasure! Once she has reached her peak, I always know her best round is to follow. I like taking her to that next level. I would think many of the men enjoy seeing there beautiful partners experience all the great enjoyment this LS can bring to them.
Now don't get me wrong likein2love mentioned "we all can't watch". All parties should get there moment of enjoyment before the evening ends.
We started years ago with a foursome that was just so-so. Over the years of living in Las Vegas and visiting swinger clubs and then living in Utah and meeting lots of great people, we have progressed in the LS.
I have watched my wife please and receive pleasure from many men and women alike. She has had a couple of gang bangs and been a "fluffer" in another gang bang thrown for her GF. We have had and still have many single guys over to our home and they have always left wanting to come back. She has had regulars that still meet with us and pleasure her when we return to Vegas to visit. I love to watch her in action and I love the way her pussy feels when they leave and we make love.
Oh yeah. I very much enjoy watching her with other people. She plays with them then at the end I cum in and finish the show. It is so arousing to be the 3rd, 4th, or even 5th person to be with her.
The main reason we are same room only, Nothing better than seeing her get pleasured and she loves watching me.
TJ
We really like it when we are with another couple... watching each other .... it is really hot
That is our favorite kind of play, I love watching a stranger slide his cock in her and see her go into ecstasy, love watching her give head to other guys also, or give me head while taking cock deep inside her wet pussy. would love to give her a gangbang and a full night of fucking other men, damn i'm hot now.
Watching her with another is always fun.
We love being watched and watching each other play with others. We're definitely both open to free for all play styles, 3somes, gangbangs, orgies, etc. We are a participating couple, its just hard to find events set up for play styles such as this. If anyone is interested or ever sets up anything let us know.
We met a great couple a few weeks back, went to their place, and I enjoyed watching the wife play with both of them while I just watched. It REALLY turns me on watching her play. The couple was were respectful and super fun. Can't wait to set up another play n watch.
Awesome 👍 I would love to be invited
My wife wants to get fucked by multiple guys. It always seems hard to pull off. I can’t wait to watch and then lick her pussy
We love watching each other... its a big turn on, we have a couple friend of ours, where we all like to watch one day while playing the wife of the other couple wiser to my ear that she wanted to watch a bit, we started cuddling, touching, kissing while watching, the then we started having very slow sex while still watching. after my wife and her husband were done she turned her wild side, then our other halves watch. We have don't this few times and its always a great time, BTW we have the same fantasy for the oral gangbang, Lets organize one soon.
I'm interested and available ☺...please send friend request, if interested
We both enjoy watching and being watched. It’s really erotic. In the past we have invited a few liberal minded, but not swinging friends to have drinks and conversation in a suite at the Monaco downtown. We invited a couple of lifestyle friends too. It was a fun experience. Sometime afterwards one of the curious vanilla friends admitted she kind of hoped that the lifestyle people might do something sexual while she was still there. I asked if she would have enjoyed watching. She said yes, especially if it was something involving one of the swinging wives, especially my wife, with someone other than the subject woman's husband, and even hotter if it was with a man or men she had never been with before. She could live vicariously while watching. It is fantasy she enjoys with herself as the woman in the fantasy. Her husband has the same fantasy but they are not so bold as to actually do it. They talk about it frequently while they are having sex together. Since then we have thought it would be hot to invite her and her husband and some swingers, to a hotel party and then tell them we are planning to play and let them know that they are welcome to watch. Definitely make sure her fantasy is fulfilled and let her see Mrs. Delicious with a man or two. It would be hot to just invite a couple of single men and let her and her husband watch Mrs. Delicious enjoy these gentlemen. I am afraid I'll need to join in too!
It's one of those sexual pleasure we both enjoy.

Watching each other engaging in a sexual act with another individual can be very arousing and extremely pleasurable.
Hmmmm...seems kind of on the soft swapping side of things.
Utahldscouple wrote:

Hmmmm...seems kind of on the soft swapping side of things.


Perhaps, except the half in the equation having sex with someone other than their significant other is full swapping. If you mean it is soft swapping for the couple watching, sure is! We are game to be the entertainment for these sorts of soft swappers, if there is chemistry and trust. We have even allowed a few Skype episodes in the past, just like that. In person is more fun!
Count me in
Sounds fun. Drop us a line.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:

Utahldscouple wrote:

Hmmmm...seems kind of on the soft swapping side of things.

Perhaps, except the half in the equation having sex with someone other than their significant other is full swapping. If you mean it is soft swapping for the couple watching, sure is! We are game to be the entertainment for these sorts of soft swappers, if there is chemistry and trust. We have even allowed a few Skype episodes in the past, just like that. In person is more fun!
I was totally trolling sorry couldn't resist :D!
TRIXXIVIXXEN wrote:

I enjoy seeing my wife pleasure others. Woman and men especially. A fantasy that may someday come true is seeing her in a gangbang. Perhaps, attending a party where she performs oral sex on several men. Don't get me wrong I love participating and this isn't strictly just watching.
My question is do others share in this desire?


Yes I love this as well..Especially when the Mrs. is getting spit roasted and I can watch the big finish!
Utahldscouple wrote:

DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:

[quote=Utahldscouple]Hmmmm...seems kind of on the soft swapping side of things.

Perhaps, except the half in the equation having sex with someone other than their significant other is full swapping. If you mean it is soft swapping for the couple watching, sure is! We are game to be the entertainment for these sorts of soft swappers, if there is chemistry and trust. We have even allowed a few Skype episodes in the past, just like that. In person is more fun!
I was totally trolling sorry couldn't resist :D![/quote]

All in the spirit of fun!
I had a lover for 4 years that would come to me in the night and make love to me as my husband watched and on occasion th et re would be others. But when Craig's list closed down its personals and my my special sex partner moved I dont kn ok w where or how to hook up with anothet
Watching and being watched is a lot of fun. I would love to help any couples who want another guy or even GB. I also have a FWB lady who wants to be with another lady while I watch and possibly join in. Jimown0987 on Kik or text 435-315-2415 for quicker response
Yes, very much so. I love the hotwife lifestyle.
One of my favorite things is watching my wife with other guys. Such a turn on!
TRIXXIVIXXEN wrote:

I enjoy seeing my wife pleasure others. Woman and men especially. A fantasy that may someday come true is seeing her in a gangbang. Perhaps, attending a party where she performs oral sex on several men. Don't get me wrong I love participating and this isn't strictly just watching.
My question is do others share in this desire?


I think most coupled males in the lifestyle enjoy watching their partners pleasure and be pleasured by others otherwise they probably wouldn't be in the lifestyle (Unless they were, like, strict separate room swappers or something.). The problem is that admitting that out loud leads some men to assume that you're some sort of cuck with a masochistic streak. I'm glad you qualified your post by saying, "Don't get me wrong I love participating and this isn't strictly just watching.".

For ME, the really sexy part about playing voyeur in the lifestyle is that I know by heart all of my wife's little sex noises, expressions, movements, etc. when she's turned on and I get to sort of step out of my body, in a way, and see them all from a different perspective. It's EXTREMELY hot! The really cool thing is that my wife really enjoys watching ME with other women as well and later we get to go home and replay all that voyeuristic sex energy together and have unbelievably explosive sex between the two of us.
EVILDOERS wrote:

The problem is that admitting that out loud leads some men to assume that you're some sort of cuck with a masochistic streak. I'm glad you qualified your post by saying, "Don't get me wrong I love participating and this isn't strictly just watching."

That's the part of this I'm trying to balance as a newbie, I'd like to see my wife please and be pleased by another man, but it's definitely not in the cuckold sense. To me cuck-ing seems to carry some implied shame or weakness.

I'd be okay if she had sex with a bigger dick, a better body, more stamina etc.... But it's really just wanting her to have pleasure or new experiences, not because I want to feel shame or inferior in some regard. -Mr Lava
lavahotswings wrote:

EVILDOERS wrote:

The problem is that admitting that out loud leads some men to assume that you're some sort of cuck with a masochistic streak. I'm glad you qualified your post by saying, "Don't get me wrong I love participating and this isn't strictly just watching."

That's the part of this I'm trying to balance as a newbie, I'd like to see my wife please and be pleased by another man, but it's definitely not in the cuckold sense. To me cuck-ing seems to carry some implied shame or weakness.
I'd be okay if she had sex with a bigger dick, a better body, more stamina etc.... But it's really just wanting her to have pleasure or new experiences, not because I want to feel shame or inferior in some regard. -Mr Lava


I wish I could say that we haven't met DOZENS of guys over the years (Yes, almost exclusively single guys...although one or two were married.) who have actually CONFESSED to us that they would NEVER "allow" their wife or girlfriend to fuck another guy. I guess it's that type of guy who incorrectly assumes that any man who WOULD allow their partner to fuck someone else HAS to be a cuck.

It's really quite pathetic. I don't know if they read too many Penthouse Letters (Is that still a thing? lol) or if there is some secret 'Single Guy's Guide To Swinging' podcast or Ebook that gives them this ridiculous idea. I actually hope it's something like that otherwise the only other explanation is that they're just Neanderthals who view women as lesser than or even PROPERTY of men.
Yes
I enjoy watching my wife with other people men or women to be pleasured or to pleasure others. Very exciting the wife sharing program
Always enjoy seeing the wife play with both sexes.
When people have an agenda and expectations, their agendas and expectations are at least somewhat powered by their ego. Perhaps we all tend to misconnect due to the blinders our egos create, at least to some degree. The ego binding effect is perhaps magnified within the lifestyle. If you walk into a meet and greet full of ego and expectations you will evaluate the room, and the people, through the tunnel vision of your ego. Ego tends to be selfish and full of expectations and easy to offend. Ego, left unchecked, begins to extend the concept of ownership beyond justice or compassion. It takes an unhealthy ego to replace compassion for people with ownership of people. Someone with an over inflated ego, or a ego so traumatized by abuse that they cannot stop comparing are not really in a place where they can forget about themselves and really share with a lover, in the moment, as their equal, let alone enjoy their lover partner, by mutual joyful, lustful, loving choice, not ownership, sharing and connecting with another.
I use to do gangbangs weekly. I loved having 6 guys at once for 2 plus hours straight then leave there go to another mfm party for 6 hours b4 going home butt needing more.
It was fun.
Hows it going tonight
TRIXXIVIXXEN wrote:

I enjoy seeing my wife pleasure others. Woman and men especially...


What else would there be?
I have never just sat and watched. But I would enjoy it and also possibly doing a video or pictures for the couple
Nothing makes a person more proud..,
You know what's even HOTTER than watching your partner have sex with someone else?!!? Watching them have hot steamy sex with a playmate while YOU are lying there naked with THEIR partner...gently touching, caressing and fondling each other while your respective partners cum to screaming climaxes! THAT'S what swinging is all about, Charlie Brown.
My biggest turn on is watching her. Yeah, other stuff is fun too but if we're all in the same room, it's hard not to watch.
I love watching her having sex with other men, it’s such a turn on!
That's the part of this I'm trying to balance as a newbie, I'd like to see my wife please and be pleased by another man, but it's definitely not in the cuckold sense. To me cuck-ing seems to carry some implied shame or weakness.
I'd be okay if she had sex with a bigger dick, a better body, more stamina etc.... But it's really just wanting her to have pleasure or new experiences, not because I want to feel shame or inferior in some regard. -Mr Lava[/quote]

I agree with you completely
Biggest turn on is watching my girl with another fella. He can have a bigger pecker she may moan/ scream more than i have ever have with her. It makes me cum faster watching her than anything else. It’s odd I know but I know what I want/ love.
I think it's a huge turn on! For everyone for sure
We’ve done some same room (way long ago) and some separate room swaps with couples, a couple MFM 3-some, and a few times her playing alone. I’ve wanted to truly watch her being pleased but haven’t had the opportunity...yet!
We have the same fantasy.. still brand new but maybe we can help each other out