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HAS THIS EVER HAPPENED TO YOU? - - There are a lot of swingers out there that 1) should consider themselves Poly. meaning they want a meaningful relationship with others. or 2) they have spent so much time and energy in trying to find a match that once they do they make bad judgements calls in regard to how to handle the relationship. The best thing to do is lots of communication. However if that does not work run fast. Some people do have attactment issues.

Do you Expect to get laid at Swinger Parties? - - We never expect to play...we just go to have a good time. If we meet a couple to swap with...thats jsut a bonus. We have a great club/group of swingers around here....only thing I can say is try places and if ones not right try another....and word of mouth is the best at finding the one that might be right for you....or group does a weekly online chat night and helps inform people that want to know about of group and what to expect there. Also they do a Meet and Greet at a local bar on certain weekends to let newbies get to know the regulars.

STD/STI Testing - - [quote=TOKI_WARTOOTH][quote=MAYBEMOR]This is the attitude we find so prevalent!!! Play on to your hearts content. [/quote] We can be tested regularly and play safe without being a paranoid little jackwagon. Maybe the attitude you have is why your postings got deleted off other sites.[/quote] No, Toki, you are the Jackwagon! The way you responded to this thread is an obvious display of your lack of intelligence about this issue. Maybemor and others are just attempting to make this lifestyle a little safer for all involved. Not sure if you read much but there was a situation recently in Kansas City where a man and his wife were HIV Positive and managed to put a number of people at risk of contracting HIV, and these are supposedly "swingers" who know better. I've been to parties for over 4 years!! Not everyone uses condoms. Maybe you do! But even a condom isn't going to protect you against Herpes!! You always use latex with oral sex Toki.. hmm... probably not.. and guess what, you are putting yourself at risk for Herpes! Even if you get tested for Herpes you still are at risk. You could have contracted it on the weekend, go in on Monday get tested, the whole gamut of tests, get negatives on everything. Then two to three weeks later you come down with itchy bumps that turn into sores, oh shit, guess what.. yep.. you just were infected and are now positive for Herpes.. Why.. because you don't get it!!! The reason we need more people to talk about this is people are getting STD's on this site and others like it. I applaud Rob and his willingness to do what some of you may think is not needed. Toki is a prime example of why you don't play with just anyone! Sure you can't stop everything all the time, and frankly anytime you have sex with multiple partners it's a risk. But let's not be stupid folks, let's be careful. You only have this life to live, why fuck it up for yourself and the one you love because you are stupid? PS.. I wrote a long post a few months ago about our own experience with the STD issue. I received a number of posts about others who carry HSV2. Interesting thing is some of these people who have HSV2, DO NOT always tell their potential partners they have the disease. Why? PURE IGNORANCE or just they don't give a shit (which is worse). I want to make sure everyone knows, this is MR ABC who is writing this post.

What the Actual Fuck? - - [quote=EVILDOERS]Fine POSSIBITITYS but YOU have to be in charge of shoveling the sidewalks and keeping the hot tubs HOT...if memory serves that fucking island was like near the North Pole. If Trump is elected, word is that all swingers will be exiled to Atlantic City to work in forced servitude at one of his dumpy casinos...except for the hot foreign ones who will be placed in a special waiting area for when he needs a new trophy wife. [em]Emo_67[/em] [/quote] Yes, the same Donald Trump who said his daughter had a great body and if he wasn't her father he'd probably date her.......shudder.

Ways to point out Swingers in public - - We heard that it’s a black ring on the pinky - if the couple both have the rings on it a sure bet ......

To cover up or not to cover up - Slut shaming and the lifesyle - "The worse offenders, often, are frankly not at all impressive or imposing physically or intellectually. Hence the unchecked adolescent behaviors, as if introspection escapes them altogether. Introspection and critical thinking perhaps are two elements that allow people to seriously consider how others might think and feel." All statements have been very articulate and meaning. I believe the above to be very true in all walks of life, just not swinging. People that do not commit to personal responsibility are easily detected in every aspect of their life. People don't see the benefit of brushing their teeth are the same that are unfiltered in their speak with all, always the most baseless of comments come from that type. Understand more of the slut shaming than people labeling swingers, as stated, most don't understand or know, much easier for the baseless to shame. Like Treetree, wisdom and intuition keep us safe. When either are questioned there is someone looking for the chink in our armor. Looking for a rise that will have us off balanced. I have friends on here that I will never meet because of our distance, one of my normal comments is a "real man". I use it to refer to men that respect their partner if married, but if single understand and respect all women. It seems some men like to respect the woman they are with or trying to get with to fool her so she doesn't realize he is not a "real man" and doesn't respect all women and men nor does he have personal responsibility. My dream or fantasy is to find my "real man". I can easily spot the "real men" I have met on line here. Always refreshing to chat or email with them, their wives certainly understand my speak and understand my desire to be with that kind of couple. At the same time on here it is easy to spot the (real men), whether a horrible incomplete profile, some thinking, stating they are married and cheating is being totally honest. Such a shame. Have no problem discussing sexual situations or ideas, always pleasant being in the chat room when i do and being private messaged about my youngest and if i fuck my family members.

Dental dam, opinions, thoughts and the like - - Been doing this north of 25 years now and have NEVER seen a dental dam used. EVER! Met all kinds of people with all levels of comfort as far as STD awareness and prevention is concerned and still no dams. I think most swingers (and the vast majority of vanilla people actually) are very good at denial. Bottom line, if you swing you are engaging in risky behavior and you, on some level, need to be aware of that fact and okay with it. Oh, and Sir Newby, if by highly selective and picky you mean not fucking anyone but your significant other then I agree. If you mean anything else then I'm sorry to say that you too are in denial.

A&E New show about swingers... - neighbors with benefits.... - I have not seen the show, may never watch it. I did read a review that pretty much says it is stilted, poorly done and appears (gasp) scripted. *******Spoiler alert******* They already have quotes for the "Christian" couple, with the guy making pronouncements that this behavior is immoral, against the bible, etc. And Brittany is sending sext messages to one of the other husbands [i]BEHIND EVERYONE'S BACKS[/i],so that adds the "drama" as that is discovered, with her husband crying about the deception. All very covered in BS. Interesting that these people all live in the same small development, did they include this as a feature in the real estate ads (We have parks, recreations trails, community pools and group sex all covered by your HOA fees!)

Swingers Vacation Spots - Help us - O.K.we are going to blow all your minds how about this SNOW Skiing in the Swiss or Austrian ALPS. After a day of skiing take all those cold bodies and retreat to this huge Suite where you spend all night until the following morning in a HOT, SEXY, WILD ORGY with a grouip of Cold but very horny ski fanatics and then you go skiing right after you got a bit of sleep then this continues for a FULL week just think about your knees would be numb by the end of the trip all you wouldhave to do is figure out was it the skiing or the fucking that made them weak ;) We have done the skiing part in these Alps an can attest to the great slopes unfortunately the Swinging part never happened although we did manage to go to a Austrian swing club after the last day of skiing and it was the first time my wife had her pussy ate bye a lady. Thats our dream trouble is at 45 and 48 we don't have many years left till our knees give out ! Norm&Sharon

Swingers Party - Doesnt mean who ever is there is open to everyone elsa - WOW!! some people just have no manners... I wouldn't write off the whole club just because of a few bad apples though.. Just our 2 cents