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Ugly people and swinging - - A few years ago we met our first "swingers." They were in their 50's, overweight, and not attractive. We eventually met more of their friends who were equally overweight and not attractive. They were always trying to entice us to participate in their "swinging" activities. It seemed as if all these couples lost interest in each other and just wanted some other person besides their own partner to fuck. They were always looking to trade up and we were the outcasts for not participating. The overweight ugly people always hide behind "inner beauty" and "connection." Sorry, I don't get it. My girl doesn't get it even more than me.
I'm aware that ugly people need love too. It's great when two ugly couples can come together and eventually....come together. You know who you are. Or at least others know who you are.
Attraction is everything in this lifestyle. Standards vary not only from couple to couple but person to person. Think about it: It's absolutely amazing that you found someone that isn't completely disgusted by you and vice versa. The odds of finding another couple that BOTH of you are into are astronomical.
I think a lot of people in this lifestyle just "settle" for what's available, in turn lowering the collective standard. Don't be afraid to reject a couple if one of them is unattractive. Your partner will appreciate this.
Swingers - a couples only lifestyle? - Are singles considered to be swingers? - We also said in our post LUSTYTWO4U:
"It'll be interesting to hear what others have to say."
And you're right - we did say "to us" - we didn't say everyone had to agree. Everyone is entitled to their ideas about the lifestyle - as we are.
female AGE turn on-off - - SPERM,
You are a class A jackass. Pleae take your cheating ass elsewhere.
Your words spit on everything that real swingers believe in.
You make me sick.
Mrs Classy
I'm a hater. Will you be a hater too? - Warning, the rats ass just ranted all over the floor! - Brent,
I have to disagree with you to a cetain degree. I have seen many couples gravitate to other couples. Also as a single male, I have even been blessed enough to find the occasional couple or single lady looking for it. The best thing to do is to keep a positive attitude and keep trying. Eventually something should come your way.
Instant,
I am sorry you guys are having such a hard time finding playmates. All I can say is that it is their loss. As others have told you before, this is largely a numbers game. If you are in an area without a large proportion of swingers then it will be harder for you. I did like the way you found your fun though. I would have loved to be in that bar on that night.
Reno Fun - Business Trip to Reno - Where are all the Reno swingers? I'll be headed out to Reno in a couple weeks for a couple weeks. My wife will be with for part of that trip. We'd like to play maybe while we're out there. Couples and single females only. We'd love to go out for drinks and dinner maybe and see where things go. Take a look at our profile. DMs open!
Swingfest 2008 Hollywood Florida - - Just wondering who is going to Swingfest 2008 on July31-Aug.3rd. We will be there to party with all the other 10,000 Swingers & Hedonists who will be on hand. Give a a shout if you are attending.
Creating an Amazing Swingers Profile - How to market yourself better - [quote=CALYPSO1]Then we are fake! We are only verified as real..... Maybe we missed a punctuation mark. Fitting to most that the squawkers are the ones that never go to parties or events and never tend to mingle with the Real peeps. Oh well, comment away[/quote] You are fake??? Last time I remember the cute hand marks on Amys butt cheeks were real!!! And I recall you making them!!!! Lol
Swingers - a couples only lifestyle? - Are singles considered to be swingers? - We don't care either way...but, Yolo cruises and Swingular, amongst others, have partnered together to sponsor a "Lifestyle" cruise for couples & single females only, thus excluding single men. Go figure. Oh, Hugh Hefner is still legally married! Go HEF! What about the term poly-amorous for singles? eh, who knows. Commence the a** ripping.
UNIVERSAL "SWINGER" SIGN - UNIVERSAL "SWINGER" SIGN - Is there a Universal sign for Swingers? And if there is not, there should be! How many times have you been in a bar or out with your partner and spotted a nice looking couple and wondered???Are they??? What can you say without embarrassing yourself or them by saying, "hey are you in the lifestyle?"
We did some looking and found this website http://www.swingrings.com/index.html take a look and tell your friends it would be great if it worked....AND WE ARE NO WAY ASSOCIATED WITH THIS PRODUCT just like the idea so we all can quit guessing.
If you know of anything tell the world.
Friends? - Friends in and out of the bedroom? - For us time is an obstacle to socializing. We have numerous adult offspring, and yes we have a few grandchildren, and we have vanilla friends, and we have jobs and do some volunteering and try and fit in some hobbies. We both seem to make friends easily enough, so that we end up doing a certain amount of socializing with people we see at work or in our vanilla world. Throw in the unexpected and there isn't much time left. We have a hard time making everything fit into our schedules as they are now. Honestly, we might disappoint someone, looking for someone they can hang out with every week, if they are looking to have us all to themselves. It seems, that busy people, do well hanging out with people who are also often on the run, and busy associating with other people. That might mean you see these sorts of people, while they are busy seeing other people. For us we are pretty good friends with our family, and many of their friends, and our family members, are pretty good friends with quite a few of our friends, and we end up hanging out. It's often pretty impromptu. It's not that uncommon for twenty people to be at our house having a meal or just hanging out. Our house, is one of those houses people just walk into. If in any social circle, the majority of the people hanging out are not swingers, and swinging would make them uncomfortable, then swinging probably won't happen. So swinging for us is a bit compartmentalized. But yes, we would not mind making a few more good friends, who fit in with our crowd, that also happened to be swingers, and not in everybody's face about it. People we could see more frequently, that fit in with our friends and family, who we could swing with in private. People we could see more of in and out of our clothing. Proximity, discretion and spontaneity are all a big plus.
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