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is this legit?? - - Discretion (as basically defined by Websters Dictionary )
1: The quality of being discreet, cautious
2:Ability to make responsible decisions
3a: INDIVIDUAL CHOICE OR JUDGEMENT, to make responsible decisions
b: POWER OF FREE DECISION of choice
4: the result of separating or distinguishing
Discretionary
1: Left to discretion; excersing at one's own discretion
Swinger
1: One that swings as
a: a lively up-to-date person who indulges in what is considered fashionable
b: one who engages freely in sex
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Where some may want to be part of this documentary,
that is your INDIVIDUAL CHOICE OF JUDGEMENT, AND POWER OF FREE DECISION
some of us may not feel being part of a television documentary fits into our lives,
that is our INDIVIDUAL CHOICE OF JUDGEMENT, AND POWER OF FREE DECISION
We are swingers, that means we openly engage freely in sex, which is an act of discretion in itself, one most of us throughly enjoy,
that does not mean that being non-discreet means we must exploit our personal lives on the television.
But if that is your decision. Have a great time doing it!
oh and let us all know when the eposide airs, as i am sure many of us would like to see it. lol
just my 2 cents
xoxo
k
Christian Swingers - - I am an Atheist myself. However, I have seen lot's of people here that are Christians and also swingers. I personally think they can go hand-in-hand. It's not anyone's place to judge. This is why... There are plenty of people (all men) who "Covet thy neighbors wife" and both men and women commit adultry. Both of which are a "sins", according to the teachings within the bible. There are also intolerant fucks who judge others despite the teachings of Jesus etc. These hypocrites are just as guilty of sin, but consider themselves christians. Why can't a swinger be a christian???
So.... I say, that a christian is no more perfect than the next person. They're all aspiring to be godly, but all of them sin. According to bible (no matter how absurd it is), lust and sex, outside your marriage, is evil. It's among all manner-o-sin outlined in the book-o-don't (bible). So, since no one is perfect and all of us sin to some degree, why is this even an issue?
I would say to all those hypocrites, "Unless you are perfect, you can jam your judgments up the posterior end of your alimentary canal." As a great man once said... "Fuck Those Fuckin' Fuckers!"
-D-
Real Swingers Nasty Play Party Saturday the 14th - Cum meet couples that like to play in Draper - If the hubby hadn't broken his foot this morning we would Have been there. Sorry hopefully next time..:v
Just looking for other couples happy with super soft and no swap - There must be more of us out there? - This subject is whats making it hard for us real swingers to find real friends !!!! I dont think they are trying to be mean by saying face book is a good place for ya they are just being honest ...... But I hope u find what your looking for dont really see much fun in it though !!! But each there own ... Just sayin ...
Thanx J
Playing Alone - - Couples all have different rules. Many categorically refuse to play alone with ANYONE ever. This is their "security" place. They feel comfortable in the place where they can see each other and "protect" if necessary. It takes some people a long time to get passed this.
It's kind of a 'control' thing leftover from the vanilla life. I'm not saying it's bad, good or indifferent it's just the way it is. Some people take longer to get passed their histories as vanillas than others. As they progress and get more comfortable with themselves, the lifestyle, their partners then they will slowly open up and begin to trust a bit more.
Don't take it personally, that's the key. Many people still hang on to their vanilla background that their partners are their most 'valued' possession. I liken it to my $450 deep sea fishing reel. Sure I'll loan it to someone to use if I'm on the boat with them and can make sure they're taking care of it. Is there anyone I'd just let 'borrow' it out right for the day or weekend? Not a chance in hell.
It takes time to let go of that 'she's/he's mine' get feeling. I think my wife and I took almost 6 years before we got there successfully. We tried many times before that but it never worked out well for either of us. We finally came to a point where it's okay to play separately everything from next room to next state it no longer bothers us. I personally prefer within 30 - 50 miles so she get's home faster for the "after play" sex you're describing (which I really like too.)
You'll have to find a VERY secure, VERY established, VERY strong couple to fulfill your fantasy. They are out there, my wife and I for example but even though we're open to playing separately are we open to YOU playing with her or me separately? That's a different level of trust. Does it mean no? No. It means "maybe" in time it's a possibility. (I'm speaking hypothetically of course.)
Don't worry your "couple" or "person" will come along. You might also try investigating a subsection of the lifestyle called "hotwifeing" while I know few swingers who are hardcore into only hotwifing, there are quite a few that tip toe in that part of the lifestyle (quick def, she plays he doesn't except with her.) That's the post play joy for you and the play and post play joy for her. Most people just bounce between that and swinging. There are people out there just be patient and don't expect it from any current playmates that you have established rules with, they need to progress at their own speed.
Taking the time... - - I have actually turned down invitations from VERY experienced swingers mindful and concerned about being fully able to play my part in accordance with what I imagine their standards might be and/or probably are. I would prefer, still, to play with less experienced people and learn the ropes, so to speak. One of my interests in pursuing this at all is to learn more about sexuality ... others' as well as my own.
Fort Bridger Rendezvous - - There’s swingers at the rendezvous?!? I’ll be stopping in my way to The Gorge if you have any use for an attractive single guy.. KIK justaguy_420
Monday, must be time for a new poll. - The Dad Bod - Maybe. But since the 'dad bod' thing seems to be trending on the internet right now I thought I'd see what female swingers thought about it. And yes, women, in general look for different things in a partner than men often do but in swinging, since they're not looking for fidelity or someone who is a good provider or a good father perhaps they would indeed be more critical of physical failings (more like men?) than they would in the vanilla world.
Small Towns - - The most Mormon swingers are in Utah? Who'd a thunk? I've heard there are more Mexican swingers in Mexico than anywhere else. And I was told by a friend in the KGB that the FBI has one of the highest rates of crossdressers of any spy agency (started with J. Edgar Hoover and well...). Oh and they said the NSA was all a bunch of ferret molesting hermaphrodites. I put in that last part because it's true and because the NSA is reading all this stuff (down in Draper at that big ass spy building) and touching themselves inappropriately while doing so. And they've prolly made copies of ALL of y'all's naughty pics and all the fat geeky computer nerds are jerkin' it to all of our swinger photos. Hey NSA dudes! Don't you wish you knew what a real vagina felt like?[em]Emo_67[/em]
whats wrong - web site ads - Want some cheese and crackers with that whyne. Coming from experience you have to make a positive effort about who you are and who you are looking for. You sound lonely and bitter.
We have only been here for a short while and this is the only web site for swingers we belong to, and before we put pics on we got a response. We are all in this for what we beleive are the right reasons, are you?????
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