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single guy bashing - - [quote=MAGNETIC]Single males provide necessary services in the world of swingers, more so than single females. He has to work a lot harder than the single female to be welcomed into a couple's life. Age is not as important as his determination to do as follows. A good single male will stay in good shape, no extra flab or belly. He will be clean, well groomed, dress nicely, intelligent, and knowledgable on almost all subjects, he will be well practiced in all forms of sexual activity, he will be a good listener, kind, gentle, caring, understanding, or rough, crude, and demanding according to what is requested or desired by the hosting couple. He will be able to carry on a quality conversation with both the husband and wife on anything of interest to them. He will not try to dominate the conversation, or the encounter. He will make it clear that he is not there to try and steal the wife. He will make himself available to help the couple do ordinary things that additional help is required or appreciated. He will bring these qualities to the table. A good single male is not a piece of meat that you chew, screw, and then shoo out the door. You'll want to keep him around. Husbands appreciate a single male that is willing to be a good friend, to share common interests, exchange experiences, and to learn from one-another. Male bonding is the term associated with this. Wives appreciate a single male because they are usually entertaining, capable, and are willing to provide her with some excitement that married life loses after some years. A good single male will not do or say anything that will make the husband or wife jealous. There is no place for jealousy in swinging. How can I make such bold statements as these? Well, I was single for many years, married for many years until widowed, and now single again. So, I know both sides of the fence very well. [/quote] Magnetic, I think your description of the ideal single male should start out with "Once upon a time" and end with "and they all lived happilly ever after". [b]IF[/b] such a single male does exist in "real" life, not only do I wanna meet this Super Hero - I think I want to turn gay and marry him. [b]IF[/b] this is what couples are looking for in a single guy, then I guess us normal, average, regular, run-of-the-mill guys are SOL. Oh, wait a minute - just thought of something................................ Is your description of the ideal single male also your resume? All in fun, Dude - all in fun.

DO U HAVE ANY ADULT GOODIES THAT U WOULD LIKE TO SELL ? - NEW OR USED 4 MEN OR WOMEN ??????? - I RUN A SWINGERS SITE THAT ALSO HAS AN AUCTION PART ON IT . ANYBODY AND EVERYBODY CAN USE THE AUCTIONS . U DONT HAVE TO BE A MEMBER OF THE SITE TO SELL OR BUY STUFF . ANYBODY CAN SELL ANY KINDA OF STUFF ON THE AUCTIONS . IF U LOVE TO SHOP U CAN PICK UP A FEW EXTRA NEW THINGS TO TRY TO SELL . OR IF U ARE CLEANING OUT YOUR CLOSETS OR DRAWERS OR FILEING CABINET HA HA AND U HAVE STUFF THAT U DONT NEED OR WANT ANYMORE OR MAYBE SOMETHING JUST DIDNT FIT RIGHT ON U . U MAY PUT IT UP FOR SALE . IF IT IS USED PLEASE PUT THAT IN YOUR AD . AND U HAVE TO LIST ANYTHING THAT MIGHT BE WRONG WITH THE ITEM . MISSING BUTTON , FADEING IN THE COLOR OR WHATEVER LIKE THAT .BE HONEST ABOUT THE COND OF THE ITEM . THERE IS MANY DIFFERENT AREAS TO LIST YOUR STUFF IN THE AUCTION PART . IF U DONT SEE AN AREA THAT U NEED THEN PLEASE EMAIL ME AND ILL ADD IT TO THE LIST FOR YOU . THE SITE IS ALWAYS LOOKING FOR STUFF LIKE ... SEXY OUTFITS SHOES OR BOOTS CLUB WEAR PORN HOME MOVIES OR STORE BOUGHT OR PORN MAGS . NAUGHTY ART WORK . CANDLES OR CANDLE HOLDERS VASES ANYTHING LIKE THAT . U CAN ALSO SELL REG EVERY DAY STUFF ALSO . CLOTHES ,CURTAINS , BEDSPREADS ,BIRD BATHS WHATEVER U WANT TO SELL . THE SITE OFFERS MANY DIFFERENT WAYS FOR PEOPLE TO CHOOSE TO PAY U . U ARE IN CONTROL OF WHICH WAYS U WILL ACCEPT THEIR MONEY . CREDIT CARD , PAY PAL CHECK , CASH ... IF U RUN A ADULT STORE OR SITE OR SELL ADULT STUFF U MAY SELL STUFF ON THE SITE . IF U ARE A DANCER OR WEB CAM LADY U MAY SELL YOUR PICS , OUTFITS , MOVIES TO YOUR FANS AND TO OUR MEMBERS . IT WORKS JUST LIKE EBAY . BUT WE LET U TAKE NAUGHTY PICS TO SELL YOUR ITEMS . HA HA U CAN PICK TO CHOOSE TO SELL IT TWO WAYS OR BOTH . U CAN LIST AN ITEM FOR A BUY IT NOW PRICE . OR U CAN PICK A RESV PRICE AND THEN HAVE IT IN OPEN AUCTION AND SEE IF PEOPLE WILL BID AND WANT TO PAY MORE FOR IT . WHEN U LIST IT WITH A RESV PRICE . U PICK A PRICE THAT U WILL NOT SELL LESS THEN THAT PRICE . THEN THE PEOPLE BID ON IT TO TRY TO GET TO YOUR PRICE . IF A FEW PEOPLE ARE BIDDING ON THE SAME THING THEN THE PRICE MIGHT GO PAST YOUR RESV PRICE AND THEY WILL HAVE TO PAY AS HIGH AS THEY KEEP BIDDING ON IT ... EX. IF I WANTED TO SELL A NAUGHTY OUTFIT . IF I PAID $20.00 FOR IT . SO I WANT TO AT LEAST GET THAT OUT OF IT PLUS A DOLLAR OR TWO EXTRA . SO I CAN LIST THE ITEM LIKE THIS . RESV PRICE .... $22.00 BUY IT NOW PRICE $25.00 THIS IS JUST AN EX. U CAN CHARGE OR MAKE WHATEVER U WANT TO . THATS ALL UP TO YOU . IF THERE ISNT A BUY IT NOW PRICE THEN THE BIDDING CAN KEEP GOING UNTIL THE AD STOPS OR THE PEOPLE HAVE WENT TO THEIR HIGHEST PRICE THEY WILL PAY . THE HIGHEST BIDDER WINS . ONCE SOMEONE HAS MADE A BID ON AN ITEM U CANT TAKE IT OUT OF THE AUCTIONS UNELSS SOMEONE USES THE BUY IT NOW . OR THE AD HAS ENDED . U CAN BID ON AS MANY THINGS AS U WANT TO . BUT YOU ONLY HAVE TO PAY IF U WIN THE ITEM . AND U DONT HAVE TO SELL ANY ITEM UNLESS YOUR PRICE HAS BEEN MET . IF U HAVE ANY QUESTIONS FEEL FREE TO EMAIL ME ANYTIME AND ILL HELP YOU . NAUGHTY DREAMS FREAKY KITTY WWW.SWINGERSOFAMERICA.COM

Sexting to make her happy - My better half wants me to talk nasty to another woman. - [quote=UTAHSFINEST]I am not his wife. I am supposed to be his girlfriend but apparently I am not enough![/quote] Most of this community, both the men and the women, do not believe that one is enough or should be enough. That is why the term swingers applies to us. Committed to one person: YES. Exclusively: NO. So I will give you a bit of advice that you and others probably will no like: Not every couple survives this lifestyle. We are not better at keeping it going than any other group. So don't expect the other person to change how they think because most of the time it does not happen. Either find a way to live with in the lifestyle or leave the lifestyle and find happiness elsewhere. In either case we wish you happiness and peace of mind.

Exclusive Couples - couples who are committed to another couple - Ok! You have heard from someone who is poly....ME. But we are still swingers and no one expects us to be exclusive either.... anymore than we expect them to remain true to us and us alone. Polyamorous is a conjunction of a Greek and a Latin word. Means to love more than one.....I don't fall in love with everyone that we have sex with but I do have 2 secondary relationships. One woman is separated and we met her in the lifestyle.. We love, yes WE love her as much as people can feel love. The other were seeing what swinging was about and came to a club that we attend. The lady and I started talking and then on line and we discovered that we loved each other. I stopped by their house and talked to her husband and we, that couple and us are great friends and she and I are lovers.... and everything is open and above board. Recently while I was in the hospital from a heart attack, they came to visit everyday. So poly really isn't about swinging at all but there are poly people in swinging who are looking for exclusive relationships... I let people know that I'm poly because if the lady and I hit it off...... I don't want any surprises... BUT I never go looking for that type of loving relationship in the swinging community, i.e., "the lifestyle" I think that some people use the word without a true understanding of what poly really is... Poly can involve sexual relationships but those are based on love not sexual recreation. My wife is not basically poly however, she loves that lady who is not attached as much as I do... so in a way she may be poly but does not wish to define herself that way. When talking about poly and swinging one has to make a distinction as to what people are looking for in a relationship. And, let's not kid ourselves...swinging and sex with people outside of your marriage or relationship is really a relationship aleit maybe a short lived one but one all the same. I'm just a person who can and does love more than one person. Like being hetro or BI or whatever..... that's just part of my make up.. I have chosen to be a swinger and if it lead to something I hope that I have let people know ahead of time and found out their feelings on that possibility... If they are not open to that but are sexually attracted, then we can keep it on that basis and I simply have to be aware. I think it can best be analoged to a couple or one of the partners in a couple being bi. They find a couple to play with but that couple are not bi or have no curiosity in that bent.... So they play and the bi part is never an issue because they discussed it beforehand and everybody was fine with the situation.... I belong to a poly group here in my state. the group is more a discussion group although they get together once a month and every mon or Fri to discuss poly issues. Most of the people who are in that group, over 300, will say that poly and swinging are two entirely separate issues and they are totally unrelated. There are a number of members, both single and couples, who are also listed on swinger sites....They are looking for sexual companionship and maybe, if it happens, loving relationships... So poly and swinging are not so exclusive nor does it mean that poly swingers are only looking for LTRs any more than bi women will only play with couples who have bi women in them.... Being poly of Bi ain't an issue...playing is... There may be some who are in the lifestyle to find lovers... Easy to find out and make a decission about....

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Elusive FMF - Your thoughts? - Hello All! Forgive the long post - but I simply wanted to respond to what VP stated SO well. Posted by VP: Here's a question: Is it that a single swinging female is all that elusive, or is it just more likely that a woman who's secure enough in who she is to have a liberated lifestyle is probably more likely to have a boyfriend / husband? Thus making it a simple fact of life and society that the whole concept of a liberated single female is for the most part a myth or at best a temporary state. Guys are programmed to be tomcats. There comes a time when "every boy must become a man". But little girls are taught that "sex is something only for your husband". Society accepts single males prowling about generally - that's why when a single guy get shat upon in a swingers site, the resultant wailing bears striking resemblance to a chorus of whining mules. They don't get it: "They don't like me? Why? I'm hot..." Now if a woman were to go out there looking for it, then she's branded a home-wrecker, "slut", "whore", or worse. Tell me you'd sign up for that cruise? IMHO: I think when a couple starts kvetching about the lack of single females, they might do well to have a look at why it is that they want just a woman and not her S/O. Chances are, deep down those same paradigms that are causing the lack of single females are deeply rooted in their own attitudes. ---------- From the "not so elusive" Te: From my perspective I would have to agree with these statements wholeheartedly. I

Inconsiderate - Lack of consideration for others - Then perhaps you should edit your post, MAUI, to say that "the vast majority of people in the lifestyle THAT WE'VE ENCOUNTERED IN THE EXTREMELY SMALL GROUP OF SWINGERS ON MAUI are super shallow and don't give a crap about others". Maybe it's just Hawaiian people in general who are super shallow and don't give a crap about others. Or maybe just people on Maui. I'm really sorry your swinging experiences haven't met your expectations. And believe it or not I'm not trying to rip you a new one. I genuinely feel badly for you. Have you explored other options? Travel, obviously. How about other swing websites? Swingular is big here in Utah (it was started here) but there are few members almost everywhere else except Florida. And the part about Maui being family oriented...have ya HEARD about Utah? LOL A very wise swinging couple once told US that the way to be successful in swinging is to first get rid of you expectations (so you won't be disappointed) and then to approach each situation and couple looking FOR reasons to connect and play rather than looking for reasons not to. I'm not saying play with peeps you aren't attracted to or are not compatible with but far too often it seems swingers look for reasons WHY this or that couple isn't perfect and they end up being disappointed that they can't find anyone to play with. Try some different websites. Host some meet n greets. Hell, host a house party and invite people similar to yourselves. Just a few thoughts. Good luck.

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GOING TO VEGAS! - - Cheetas is a great strip club. The girls are very friendly but of course they really just want your money. As we walked in, Val went to the restroom and as soon as I sat down, a girl came and sat on my lap and started rubbing my nipples. She asked me if I wanted a lap dance and I told her I would after Val got there. She was content to sit in my lap and rub against me until Val got there and until the next song started and then she gave us both a great lap dance with lots of grinding and fondling. There are some swingers clubs there, also. The Green Door is near the strip and it is nice. You will want to go to the couples only area or else you will have to fight off all the single guys if you start making out. Everyone (in the couples only area) seemed very nice. Most people seemed to be there to just watch. There is a club called the Red Rooster next to the Green Door but it is very small and not much was happening there when we went. It costs $60 for a couple at the Green Door. There is another Red Rooster out near Tropicana Ave. Same name as the one near the Green Door but totally different club. It is in a big house and it is more of a party atmosphere. They have a dance floor, a pool and a large hot tub. They have several bedrooms downstairs and the rule is if you leave the door open you are inviting other people to come in and watch and possibly join you. The upstairs is for couples only and you have to be naked to go past a certain point upstairs. There was a lot more sex going on at this Red Rooster and A LOT of swapping. We didn't swap with anyone but we had a great time having sex around a bunch of other people and dancing almost naked on the dance floor. I think it costs $40 per couple at the Red Rooster. Also, you need to bring your own towels to the Red Rooster if you plan on using the hot tub or you can rent towels there for $2 each. It is also BYOB. We went to these clubs on a weekend and others have told us they are not very busy during the week days, but you might still have fun during the week days. Hope you have a great time!

who starts? - - [quote=ARISTOTLE801] You would think, as much as the phrase [i]communication is key[/i], gets bandied about people would really want to actively engage in communication. It would seem natural that the more experienced parties would take the lead in discussing how things get done much like flight instructors explaining that when the oxygen masks drop from the overhead compartment, you place it over your head, secure the elastic strap and breathe. However in this lifestyle that couldn't be further from the truth. The problem is that if there is too much chit chat then someone is always in danger of being dumbfounded by the use of a big word. It's hard to be sexy when all the blood is now rushing to your head in a desperate attempt to draw upon a vocabulary that just isn't there in the first place. How do you get around this? Well, I certainly don't need to explain the folly of having a dictionary next to the hot tub. This is why it is strongly encouraged that swingers incorporate healthy role-play. When trying to get that new couple to first base it's best to stick with the basics. A good old fashion game of Neanderthals...ahem, excuse me, I mean cave people. Then the fun can proceed upon simple phrases like, "You look good" or "Me touch you now?" When becoming aroused you might say, "Oooh, this is how make fire," or "I look in hole for water," to facilitate cunnilingus. This role-play is especially helpful to those who don't have hot tubs, or who may have suggested strip Uno because they thought a

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