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What makes you ignore vs. view a particular profile? - - Did you see our attachment, you go on a date without seeing pics first, this is what you will have knocking at your door.. LOL. Ok, there seems to be an underlying theme here.... PICS!!! Holy crap people everytime I see an email or think someone is cool in the chat room and click on their profile and it has "0" pictures, it really pisses me off. How many people out there do you think would honestly meet someone or a couple without seeing them? I've even asked the question and have had people tell me honestly that they have met people without seeing them!! No Freakin Way! Look, we aren't pretensious, and are the first people to hang with and find friendship and great qualities in everyone we meet. BUT, and that's a big but (no pun intended lol), we aren't sleeping with everyone on here. There is a thing called "chemistry" and "attraction". Unfortunately for us, we aren't out to get banged by every willing couple. If we click, and there is great chemsitry, chances are HIGH that we will hook up. But I'm here to tell you, if we can't see you and you don't post your pictures, you're wasting your time. And DONT try and IM us at yahoo wanting to chat if you don't identify yourself. If we could design and develop a swingers website, pictures would be a prerequisite. No Pics, No Profile, period!! Am I sounding harsh? I hope not, but it's the truth damn it! So PUT YOUR PICS ON YOUR PROFILE!! Thank you. Uthotcplextreme.

Should Single Men be invited to Swinger Parties? - or do they get in the way - Since you didn't indicate the size of your party I'll give two opinions and nothing here should be construed as single male bashing, that sport went out with the Beta Max. (1) Birds of a feather flock together, so do swingers. We seek out those that share our interests. :^) Assuming you know the majority of the couples attending you should have a fair idea of their feelings regarding this somewhat controversial area of the lifestyle. No matter what you decide make sure the couples know what to expect. There are couples who are very much opposed to single men and will not attend a party or club where they are permitted, surprises are only fun for birthdays parties. (2) If your talking about a very large party where you don't know the majority of the couples and their interests then you will need to make a judgment call. Statistically speaking the majority of lifestyle couples are not interested in single men, not a "bash" just the facts ma'm. You can play it safe and go with the probable majority or take some risks and maybe please a greater number of party goers. Florida Swing clubs have grappled with this issue for years. Some don't allow single men ever. Some allow single men on certain nights but not others, this gives couples the option based on their interests. Some clubs allow them all the time BUT they are restricted to sitting in assigned areas and they are not permitted to approach a couple, they MUST be approached. Most all of the BIG swingers conventions don't allow single men OR women, couples only. That's right sweetie not even a Unicorn, LOL We have several groups who put on large (200 plus couples) private parties in Florida, their rules range from no single men being the majority, to single men must be escorted (sponsored) by a couple. There are a few that allow un-escorted men but their numbers (ratio) are closely watched and they do a lot of pre-screening to allow only quality individuals (and there are some for sure) and avoid the turds in the punchbowl. We don't share a personal interest in single men but we don't think all should be thrown off the bridge either, it's just simply not our thang. We can tell you we have met a few couples who would fit in punchbowl as well. Hope this information was of some value, it better be because I type with two fingers! LMAO Good Luck!

Lifestyle parties - - well alecia, you have been to my store and you are a very beautifull young lady, and a swingers party should be meet and greet, and not judge by color, sex or sexual oriantation, all on this site should be willing to know someone before judgeing them, so let start a party of all swingers big small, tall gay straight, bi invited all luv all walt

Excuse me? But are you guys swingers? - Excuse me? But are you guys swingers? - I think that just be respectful and ask straight up if they are in the "lifestyle" . If they aren't they won't know what you are talking about or if they are then you have a straight answer...yes. No one will ever be offended if they don't know what you are talking about. Also you might ask what they are talking about if they seem to be hinting..... Like ask... are you talking about swinging?... I guess it all depends on a number of factors... Are these people neighbors, someone you've just met and don't really know them or them you....Are these acquaintences that you know fairly well that are talking maybe to find out if you are in the lifestyle... So the reaponce is basically conditional... Can they hurt you? If not then what's to loose.

Do you mix your vanilla and lifestyle friends? - - Though I have to add that we have been to a few parties/bbq's where it has been mixed...never really turned out that well cuz everybody knows after a few drinks us swingers can't keep our hands to ourselves or our own partners...hehehe

lifestyle camping - - Google Southwest Swingers Jamboree for pertinent information on an upcoming event.

Singles who are married and cheating - - better get a cup of coffee cuz this is gonna be a long read: there are a few things you have to take into consideration when you decide to be in the swinging lifestyle. i think the biggest thing is finding out if your spouse is into it. most people, i think, go into a relationship knowing what their spouses boundries are. and then there are couples who evolve in their relationship and the more trust they have in their relationship, i would think it would be like a "coming out" of sorts. like..."hey, um...honey...the johnsons next door are having a party this weekend...and we were invited" "Really?" "Yeah, and i hear its one of THOSE kinda parties" "well, honey..we better wear our crotchless underwear" i dunno..something like that..like, at some point you decide that swinging is for you, right? or you go into a relationship knowing that swinging is an option. buuuuuuuuuuuutttttt... if you go into a relationship knowing that swinging is definetly not what your spouse is into or in the evolution of your relationship you decide swinging is right for you, and your spouse isnt into it, and under no circumstance is it ok....then, in my humble opinion, you arent in the lifestyle. now, if you come to some sort of open relationship agreement if your spouse isnt into it but agrees to let you get some strange, fine. if you take it upon yourself to sign up for a swinging website behind your spouses back, hook up with couples behind your spouses back, then YOU ARE CHEATING! if you are cheating, then you are just asking for trouble: 1. you are being dishonest 2. you are bringing your drama into someone elses life whether they know it or not. what happens if the wife finds out and shows up at your house party with a shotgun? 3. what happens if you get an s.t.d.? you bring that home with you to your spouse, and if you have them, your children. even if you use condoms you can still get s.t.d.'s, its happened. 4. when your spouse does find out, and they will...you are humiliating them in front of their friends, family, job...cuz somehow they all find out. that leads me to believe you have no regard for someone elses feelings so why would i want to swing with you? 5. you are giving other single people, male or female, a bad name and reputation. 6. you are giving swingers in general a bad name and reputation. jenn and i are honest with each other. we are not in a place where we are gonna swing separate, we communicate and talk things out so we have a full understand of where eachother is at, at any given moment. if jenn or i didnt want to swing anymore, or if we wanted a break from it, we talk about it. we arent perfect by any means, but we do our best to consider eachothers feelings in this lifestyle. we dont invite drama into our lives so i would have to say...no, we dont swing with someone who is cheating on their spouse. we would both suggest that if you feel the need to cheat that you should either talk it out with your spouse and seek external help or if you dont think that will help, you should consider ending the relationship. this is all just our opinion. we know its easier written or said than done. but if you arent happy with your spouse, why would you drag them down with this? communicate..compromise...talk it out..but dont be a cheater, cuz its not cool. brandon

Swinger (7946437) Bracelets. Who wears them? - - [quote=NASTY4U2]I say everyone should just have one color. Talk to them if they are wearing the bracelet and if you don't click. It would be like not clicking on here. We only have a little of what were into or willing to try on our profile. So we talk with the other couple to find out. So its the same thing. Just in person.[/quote] I agree completely - one clearly identifiable color would do it. The object is to identify yourself as a Swinger to other Swingers - PERIOD! Once that's established, you can engage in conversation and work out the intricate details. The purpose is to connect with others through a common bond that identifies you as a member of the Lifestyle. There's NO need to advertise your preference for Coke over Pepsi, or chocolate over vanilla.

shameless commercialism - Where do we let people know what we have to offer? - We actually saw a website just for swingers to advertise their business. I wish I could remember the name of it. We got it from a link on someones profile a while back. Very good idea.

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