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Another perplexing experience - - In reply to wetfem there is nothing wrong with you as a cpl. We have had simular situations everything from "oh no your a yankee" to "your too old" of course they never said this to our face we just could tell from the way those nights went the bottom line is ,you cannot possibly be compatible with everyone you meet and chatting, talking on phone, and e-mails/messages gives you just a slight insight into who you are planning on meeting thats why for us for the most part at least folks local to us we do not spend alot of time chatting etc... we setup a face to face meeting very quickly and see where it leads most 1st meetings are strictly social and then we tell whomever we are meeting with lets make it" more private "next time that normally will lead to a positive response or a polite "we don't feel we are compatible". We have learned to laugh about the ones who choose not to bring it to a sexual level and consider it thier loss not ours . Being in the mid aged range we know that we are more uncompatible with the majority of the swingers who frequent sights like this my wife no where looks 47 People continue to guessed her age in her mid 20's (she drives those fair ages guessers crazy she has won every time lol) and when cpls/singles meet us face to face and we tell them our kids are 28 and 26 you can see the look on thier faces that is very obvious "They did not read our profile very well". With all that said, we approach all face to face meetings with no "sexpectations" if it happens great if it doesn't we say nice to meet you and then say "NEXT" Norm&Sharon

single men ...Toys or Annoys? - should single men be allowed to attend swinger parties - I have been on both sides of the fence here. As a pretty shy guy until I get to know people, I may have in the past been perceived as that creepy lurker guy. Heck, I'm probably still perceived as that. Thankfully my other half is drop dead gorgeous... If the single men are respectful and don't think that just because they are going to a swingers party means that they are going to get laid, than I think it's fine to invite a few. I've seen some married guys get pissed off that single guys were at a swingers club because their wife would rather fuck that single guy than fuck them. That can always cause a problem. Of course I've seen married guys who were pissed off that their girl was getting it on with a lady who wouldn't let the guy touch her. So it goes both ways. Whatever happens, I hope you have an awesome and fun party. Wish we were there...

what if I want to but he doesn't - - [quote=NU2THEGAME]the worst part is that I consider myself intelligent with good common sense, so why can't i repress this- why is this so important to me right now? my hormones are taking over my common sense!! don't want to ruin a marriage for a cheap thrill- but also know that sex is a very important part of a marriage... part of it i'm sure is that I've been with him since i was 14..... i know this.[/quote] There are many little things that we all do without that do not really affect our lives to any degree. But sometimes the little things turn out to be really big things. I would say that you have found one of yours. I sounds like you are telling us that you everything your husband wants sexually. But there is something you need that you are not getting sexually. We could guess as to what that is but it would not help to guess. You need to examine and define what it is that you are lacking. Otherwise all we can do is talk in generalities. Some people only feel safe when things are neatly defined and unchanging. I think that most swingers will tell you that sexually we get into a rut or pattern with any lover and that for many of us that is like the end of life. Most will also tell you that this lifestyle helps to keep you feeling alive and part of the world. You learn knew things from different people and your world opens wider. Marriage changes how many think or act. Why that is would take many pages off topic. A marriage like good government should be one of give and take and compromise. Once one side had decided not to compromise or find a solution that makes their partner happy, then they have decided that the marriage is no linger important. As an example: A woman once told me that after marriage her husband only touched her once a year on a specific day. The rest of the time he was a cold fish. That is all he wanted and what she wanted did not matter. In a way that was sexual abuse of the worst magnitude. To choose a celibate life for one

ARE THE LIFESTYLE SWING COUPLES MORE SPIRITUALLY INCLINED - - Great question, I don't think lifestyle people are more or less. I think it's normal number are and are not regardless of the lifestyle question. We have meet several swingers that continue to have issues with this. They feel that their beliefs in god don't allow for swinging. So at times they have major guilt issues with the lifestyle or even just being bisexual. I personally don't get into that line of thinking because I believe that if everyone is in agreement and no one is getting hurt or lied to; then there is no "sin" with exploring the lifestyle.

Open-mindedness - - I see open mindedness a bit situational for most people and while each has their own levels of diversity openness most still tend to set limits. However the observation about the lack of acceptance of bi males or non bi females in the lifestyle does seem out of context with our actions that reach out for sexual freedom. I saw one discussion in another swingers web site about gay marriage and I was somewhat surprised at how many swingers were defending the

STD's and the lifestyle - - This is a sword that cuts every which way. Should they join.... WHY NOT ! Have any of you ever had cold sores, HSV1?? If you have a lesion, you can give someone else genital Variety via oral sex even if there are no symtoms present ....either just before the lesion appears or after is is cleared. There are still cells that are being sloughed off which could give your partner "HSV 2". For years there was this thing about HSV2, GENITAL HERPES being spread through misinformation to curtail the 60's sexual revolution. The problems are real but should be noted that HSV1 can become HSV2 via contact. Also....the possibility to contract HSV via oral from people who have not had a lesion in a while is low but still possible. Also, to contract oral HSV from the genitals of an infected person who has had no recent outbreaks is very slight. If a person is HSV2 positive.. and on meds they should be up front with people when they first talk to them. There is a real fear of STD's, like this one , which are not well founded. I would tell someone on first meeting, no later, or after you've talked on the phone and they seem interested.. Putting anything in your profile will immediately tag someone as a risky contact and many will avoid them like the plague....Many swingers wouldn't know a canker from a nose bleed to start with... and play with no protection.. Some informed people toss caution to the wind and know what is out there but do not practice safer sex. So....It's all about informed consent, isn't it?... Ray PS: Just like the commercials on the TV say, even though someone is on drugs for HSV and has not had an episode for a while, they can still transmit the virus.

Going Down? A question about protection. - Oral sex and the lifestyle. What to expect in regards to protection. - Been doing this for many years and have yet to see ANYONE use protection for oral. Most swingers are pretty heavily in denial as to their actual risk while playing. You have to come to terms with the fact that swinging is risky behavior and be okay with it or you won't last long in the lifestyle. Sad but true.

What to wear to a swingers party??? - - my wife tries to find stuff that looks sexy and nice and is easy on and off or cofortable rolling around in, sexy shoes are always easy because you dont' need to stand much. I wear usually a nice shirt and slacks.

Swinger Friendly Businesses - Business or services friendly to swingers - Anyone on the site do professional erotic photography? In the SLC area

Swinger Cruise - Fun for all - We are going on a Swingers Cruise in April. It is a full ship Swingers takeover (1000 couples) cruise out of Tampa to the Caribbean. Go to www.theswingercruise.com. They have a couple of cruises per year.

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