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Are we really as judgmental as vanilla people? - - Swingers are very judgemental, maybe more so than the general population. It's not just over weight people that are judged by people in the lifestyle. Single men are discriminated against daily...just because they are male. We seem to be good at grouping like people together be it sex, weight, race. People in the lifestyle sure don't hold back when it comes to discrimination.

To message first or not - Do you reach out first? - We respond to inquiries far more often then we make the first contact. When we were younger we got a lot more inquiries and we also made more first contacts . We used to play almost weekly, and sometimes two or three times a week. We attended more meet and greets too. As we have aged we get fewer inquiries. We are probably not within the age parameters, that most swingers are looking for. We also have very little free time. So really it kind of works out. We have discovered that now that are kids are all grown and married etc., that almost all of our social time is family related. Its a good thing! What it has done is eliminate us from the hit most of the events crowd or the hang out twice every weekend crowd. We just can't live up to that. It's not out of obligation it's a choice. We spent far more energy and emotion as parents than we have in the swing scene. So for us spontaneity and flexibility are really key elements. We can't spend much time swinging, but we will make worth someone's time when we do hook up. For us primetime swing time was at the point in life when the kids were old enough to not need a babysitter, they needed a lot of time to hang out with friends and needed a bit of autonomy too. We could go out, while they were out playing with their friends, and play with our friends. Now that they are all real adults, happy and successful, they want to hang out. We enjoy each others company, and for us family really is paramount. We were not swingers when they were young. We really didn't have time for it. Now that our kids are adults, and are doing what we did with family, and we are involved and enjoying it, what and who fits in the lifestyle has changed up a bit. The search engine parameters, and most profiles don't address most of the deeper layers of compatibility. In the end, if you remain true to yourselves, and each other, you'll run into the right people, at the right times in your life.

25 Ways to tell if youre a REAL Swinger - - LOL oh how very accurate that is so many of those do apply guess we qualify as swingers :)

Have you ever... - - OK, in the interest of playing, here you go: Had sex outside? yes Had sex in public? (movie theater, concert, theme park) yes Had sex in an unusual location? yes Had a threesome? yes A foursome? yes More than a foursome? yes Had a happy ending? yes Been tied up? no Tied someone up yes Been to a sex club / swingers club? yes Watched a porno? yes Been in a porno? Professionally? no Wore a costume / role played during sex? yes Recieved a spanking?yes Given a spanking? yes Paid for sex? No. (not directly, but dinner, drinks, etc...?) Had sex with someone you weren't attracted to / didn't like? yes Had sex with someone you didn't know / just met? yes Traveled more than 50 miles to have sex? yes How many States / Countries have you had sex in? 8 states Favorite position? being straddled while sitting. Had a 'nooner'? (skipped out of work / school to go have sex and then returned) yes Had sex at work? yes With a co-worker? yes Slept your way to the top? no Preferred location of "money shot"? Inside a nice wet pussy Women - sexiest outfit / lingerie you own? describe in detail Men - best pickup line? Pull my finger Preferred hairstyle? (on you and on others) Shaved bare? Landing strip? 70's fro? Other style? shaved or trimmed neatly Underwear choice? Ganny panties / tightie whiteys? Thong? G-string? Commando?anything easy to remove Easiest way to get you turned on? her talking dirty to me Worst mood killer? Him talking dirty to me. Preferred style? Soft and romantic? Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am? Hard and fast? Hair pulling, ass spanking deep and rough? Yes Please. Piercings? Love 'em Tattoos? Love 'em more Shoes / socks on or off?On. It means we can't even wait to get undressed all the way. Do you fantasize about other people when having sex with your spouce / usual partner? Sometimes Who is your fantasy partner? Who's available? Describe the perfect sexual encounter... My next one Willing to give me your answers in person? Naked? Absolutely!!!

Free Platinum Memberships for Platinum Members - Memberships to give to your friends! - To be honest I found out about Swingular from a party hosted locally years ago. The format was superior to AFF as it was a one time fee and the quality of members was and still is far superior. Had it not been for that party we wouldn't know about this site. Now if you are looking to grow the site so that you have more $$ I think the best way is by search engine. Here is why I suggest that. Back in 2001 when I did my looking it was all by the internet. I found AFF and made a profile and away we went. At that time I didn't know any swingers... and all the swingers I do know are already here. So really I wouldn't have anyone to bring to this site. I think your new customers will come from hosted parties and events.... Internet search (you have little presence there) and then friend referrals. Now if you just want the base to grow and keep it quality then the word of mouth friend referral is the only way. Just my .02 Euro.

Wow ....check this out... - - I agree with HUNNY_BUNNY in some respects. Depending on the comments made earlier, it would be hypocritical to allow some comments and not others. BUT This is a swingers site. Political narrow mindedness shouldn't be thrown around here. I am a moderate and although I don't like everything George W says or does, I dislike the way the Democratic party has handled their grievences even more. They keep giving the enemy political and moral victories left and right every time they say some poorly worded crap about the war. This is all just pay back for the witch hunt the Republicans gave Clinton. I think both sides need to grow up and quit acting like children and come to a common ground. While we are still above ground and not 6 feet under. So lets drop all the politics, and get back to what this site is about.

Fun Couples Cruise - - Hi we are a couple from nh we know it is a long way from the salt lake area that most people on this site seems to be from.The wife and i are looking into takeing a cruise and are tossing around the idea of a swingers cruise but not sure if we want the expense and being locked in to everything to be about swinging we are hoping you could give us a bit more info on your plans for this cruise

Polyamorous Couple - Seeking girlfriend for husband - I (Mr. DandDMontreal) have not had any luck finding other poly people on this site as it's predominantly frequented by swingers (great for when we want to swing!). I have had a tiny bit of luck on OKCupid and I have found a lot of poly people on fetlife.com but online dating is generally terrible for poly men. I have had pretty good luck with attending poly events like poly cocktails and the most luck just generally being open about my poly in everyday life (not an option for everyone). Checkout https://utahpoly.org/ for details on poly events.

MAIL - people that never answer you back - We have the same experience in The Netherlands. Think its a worldwide item. Shouldn't be so, as we are all swingers (hope so), a respectfull bunch of people!

Elitism in the lifestyle - - Bottom line, there are fucktards everywhere you go in life. Even in the lifestyle. Some of the nicest people we've ever met have been in the lifestyle and also some of the biggest douche canoes. Don't worry about it. If someone acts like a complete twatwaffle just ignore them and find someone who is nice. As long as you (or anyone else) doesn't feel like someone should fuck you just because you both happen to be swingers then everything should be fine. There is absolutely no reason for anyone not to be nice, pleasant and accepting of anyone else in the lifestyle as long as doing so doesn't give the false impression that you are automatically going to fuck them. And the analogy to a few bad apples applies to everyone. Why do you think single males get such a bad rap in swinging? We've found that for the most part you create your own experience in the lifestyle. Developing a thick skin is a really good way to survive and thrive in this little hobby of ours.

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