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What is wrong with being a bi male? - - I've always had trouble with the fact that as swingers we are supposed to be open minded and different from vanilla people but when it comes to bi men we are so homophobic, as a group. It's OK, more than OK for a woman to be bi but men have been shunned as bi, in the lifestyle for as long as I can remember and we've been in the lifestyle for about 18 years now. At a hotel after party in a room there were 8 of us and one person made a comment about one time he was doing a woman who wanted him to pull out and cum on her chest. When the time came he cummed at her chest and caught her husband on the stomach. This brought about several comments from the other men in the room none positive and one said that would do him in for the night... Shit happens when there are a bunch of people doing what feels good. What's the problem. As far as bi men go it has long been a stigma that they could or were more prone to disease than a guy who is not bi. Women, even bi women have stayed away from bi men because they think one has a better than average chance of catching some dred STD. While bi and gay men are in the forefront of the HIV thing bi men, in the lifestyle are, I would think, are quite a bit more careful about using protection and who they play with. From my comments some might think that I'm bi, bi curious, or other unknown by me phrase. I am basically straight but definitely not homophobic. Someone said here that when you are in a pile it doesn't matter who is giving head if it feels good....regardless of what sex they are. I've used this example many times on various sites we have been on. Men who are bi do not want to cross the line and try to turn straight guys. Most are quite respectful for your preferences. Now all we have to do is get the notion that they are somehow dangerous, i.e., STD wise and that they want to turn straight guys. Might be some but I've met a number of straight guys who we find are not that arrow straight when you get to know them. They'll tell you when they find out that you are friends regardless of their preferences. I think that through sites like these that bi men are becoming much less a thing to be shunned or afraid of. Remember that bi women are as much a threat to your manhood and as much a danger about STD's as bi men. Remember we are supposed to be OPEN MINDED in the lifestyle.

Hanging out this weekend - Habits tonight?? - [quote=HERRIMANFUN]We enjoy it if there is a couple we are interested in they have sections that aren't so loud that you can talk. But yes it is loud. And we have run into lots of swingers there lots of times. But I hear that a lot I think most people don't talk to people or just walk up to a stranger(s) and say hi. But I the male half does a lot that's how you meet people and then once you chat a bit it comes out that they are swingers. Not a big fan of he meet and greets it's always the same people unfortunately. And that's great for some but we haven't really made a connection at any that we have been too, yet. [/quote] We have been to the meet and greets too and we don't go very often and have not been to one in ages. Maybe twice a year we hit one but when we do go we pretty much introduce ourselves to everybody and if we missed someone we didn't mean to. You do have to be proactive to be successful in meeting people or at least reactive in a positive fashion when someone interesting approaches you. We have been to Habits and ended up leaving with someone, but we had already had a bit of friendly back and forth somehow with the people we left with or it was someone we met previously and had at least chatted a bit. We think we have only been there maybe five times altogether. Well, maybe Mr. Delicious will put on a collared shirt just in case we head that way but for now we are thinking maybe the Green Pig sounds fun.

FALL KICK OFF MIX AND MINGLE PARTY - THE NEW SANDY STATION - [quote=KNR84088][quote=FIT4LIFE]Yessss, so glad you guys put this together! Thanks for taking the initiative! Hopefully along with the new "dress to impress" dress code, they will adopt danceable Habits type music as well... Can't wait![/quote] Great news about the music...DJ Scotty B has been hired over from habits as well as a few bartenders and servers so there will be fun "habits" friendly faces as well!![/quote] Beauty!! Great news! I asked Jodie last week where her DJ was headed but she didn't know, so we are very happy to hear that! We just checked out club Elevate and it felt more like a gay bar (which is fine, just no swingers), then we walked over to Sky...the music was great, but the crowd was very young tonight (20's)! Sooo, now we are headed out to Sandy Station! Hoping it's more to our liking tonight! If not, next week will be for sure!

Bashing - Isn't it sad !!! - [quote=CPLINTOOELE]Well Psyche not the point I was making here I can take a good joke and fun play .. I was just saying why even respond to something if you are not interested in it ?? and your only purpose is to down the persons with the idea or question.. yes fun I understand but rude ass comments I don't ... [/quote]Do you have a recent example, CPLINTOOELE? Otherwise I guess ya may have missed MY point, which is usually the most important one. [em]Emo_17[/em] Your last post, the one that people seemed to be jumping on, was a booty call posted in the forum. There are 35 Booty Calls (in my area) right now. Can you imagine if all those people just kept re-posting their booty calls every day in the FORUM area? Nothing would be on the front page of the forum except for booty calls. How 'bout if the party groups, "Perfect" or "Swingers Circle" always posted their party announcements on the FORUM instead of in the Events section where they belong? Same difference, there'd be no Fun discussions left on the forum, only Event announcements (and booty calls). There's an organization to this place and if you use it where possible it just makes it easier and more enjoyable for other folks trying to navigate the site. Apparently you've used the Forum repeatedly for what is essentially a booty call and a few folks have gotten annoyed. It's understandable, I hope. And, If you REALLY want to advertise your desire to get laid during the daytime, just get in your bikini and stand on the corner of 25th and Wall in Ogden with a cardboard sign dangling from your neck that says, "Cheap Floozy for rent, 25 cents." Seems to work for me!! [em]Emo_54[/em]

To message first or not - Do you reach out first? - We respond to inquiries far more often then we make the first contact. When we were younger we got a lot more inquiries and we also made more first contacts . We used to play almost weekly, and sometimes two or three times a week. We attended more meet and greets too. As we have aged we get fewer inquiries. We are probably not within the age parameters, that most swingers are looking for. We also have very little free time. So really it kind of works out. We have discovered that now that are kids are all grown and married etc., that almost all of our social time is family related. Its a good thing! What it has done is eliminate us from the hit most of the events crowd or the hang out twice every weekend crowd. We just can't live up to that. It's not out of obligation it's a choice. We spent far more energy and emotion as parents than we have in the swing scene. So for us spontaneity and flexibility are really key elements. We can't spend much time swinging, but we will make worth someone's time when we do hook up. For us primetime swing time was at the point in life when the kids were old enough to not need a babysitter, they needed a lot of time to hang out with friends and needed a bit of autonomy too. We could go out, while they were out playing with their friends, and play with our friends. Now that they are all real adults, happy and successful, they want to hang out. We enjoy each others company, and for us family really is paramount. We were not swingers when they were young. We really didn't have time for it. Now that our kids are adults, and are doing what we did with family, and we are involved and enjoying it, what and who fits in the lifestyle has changed up a bit. The search engine parameters, and most profiles don't address most of the deeper layers of compatibility. In the end, if you remain true to yourselves, and each other, you'll run into the right people, at the right times in your life.

Habits - - I would love for this community to find a new place to meet up. Habits is too loud to talk if you desire to. The drinks are very watered down. They charge a ludicrous sum for Designated driver drinks and more and more the people in attendance there fall into undesirable categories. It seems most of the swingers we talk to wish there was a better place to go but end up going there by default. Can't we as a group take our business to somewhere more inviting, accommodating and fun? We have a few places in mind but are unsure how to get the group to "swing" over there.

Men, oh men, where are your pics... - - Sooo agree with this!!!! We hate when we see a nice looking female, then nothing of him. As much as my wife loves me, she is never going to play with a couple until she gets to see what she can play with too so it is not an "unpleasant surprise" like the one time we rolled the dice...lol . We don't even contact anyone anymore unless we see both. We have tons of face pics in the private album, almost to the point where someone asked if we were "really" swingers because that is all there was, Now we have body parts in there too,:) Women, be proud of your man and show him off!!!!!

Idea for this website - An official seal of approval for single males - As a long time member of this website (first as the couple "Tequilarose"), I have to say that being a swinger is not exclusive to couples. Swinging means you don't adhere to the exclusive sexual norm ie. 1 on 1 monogamous relationship. A couple is only one facet in the swinging lifestyle. I would also like to add that couples that aren't into single males have a wide variety of reasons for not wanting them. Sometimes it's a fear/insecurity, from the male in a couple, that some guy will come along that's a better lover and take his lady away. Sometimes it's the woman of the relationship that doesn't want another guy, but another woman. For whatever the reason, it comes down to individual choice. If someone doesn't want something, they shouldn't be forced. That being said, I think the same courtesy should be extended to those that wish to entertain singles. If a couple wants a single male or a single female wants a single male, they have every right to be here. If you want a "couples only" section for the website or your party, then go for it. :) Just know that when you say things like, "singles aren't swingers" or "you don't belong here", it really only makes you look and sound like an insecure bigot. How about we allow everyone with a fantasy come here and get what they want. The "Us and Them" thing is not in a true open-minded libertine's vocabulary. If you don't want single males, don't fuck 'em. No one's forcing you to do anything with them. If you don't like the inconvenience of rejecting them, start your own website and disallow them. Otherwise, FUCKIN' DEAL WITH IT! ;) D

Swinger Bracelets - Swinger bracelets - Swinger bracelets Has anyone used these swinger bracelets or had any experience with them? They seem like a good idea for couples the travel!! People in the lifestyle have a way to recognize other swingers. With colors signifying your comfort level in swing activity. A great way of starting conversation or letting other couples know you

bi mmf - I want a bi mmf - [quote=DFW_EDITOR]You'd be surprised how many couples who list as straight would be up for something like this, at least to some degree. Believe me.[/quote] yeah I am very surprised! I am on a swingers site right?

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