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Taking one for the team - Yay or nay - Here Here DARKNLADYJEDI Aka Barbi :p but yeah alot of swingers on here are becoming so picky about the physical they forget all about the sexual side. Its a fuck just like gettin drunk and pickin up a pratical stranger in a bar pratically.

Should Single Men be invited to Swinger Parties? - or do they get in the way - Since you didn't indicate the size of your party I'll give two opinions and nothing here should be construed as single male bashing, that sport went out with the Beta Max. (1) Birds of a feather flock together, so do swingers. We seek out those that share our interests. :^) Assuming you know the majority of the couples attending you should have a fair idea of their feelings regarding this somewhat controversial area of the lifestyle. No matter what you decide make sure the couples know what to expect. There are couples who are very much opposed to single men and will not attend a party or club where they are permitted, surprises are only fun for birthdays parties. (2) If your talking about a very large party where you don't know the majority of the couples and their interests then you will need to make a judgment call. Statistically speaking the majority of lifestyle couples are not interested in single men, not a "bash" just the facts ma'm. You can play it safe and go with the probable majority or take some risks and maybe please a greater number of party goers. Florida Swing clubs have grappled with this issue for years. Some don't allow single men ever. Some allow single men on certain nights but not others, this gives couples the option based on their interests. Some clubs allow them all the time BUT they are restricted to sitting in assigned areas and they are not permitted to approach a couple, they MUST be approached. Most all of the BIG swingers conventions don't allow single men OR women, couples only. That's right sweetie not even a Unicorn, LOL We have several groups who put on large (200 plus couples) private parties in Florida, their rules range from no single men being the majority, to single men must be escorted (sponsored) by a couple. There are a few that allow un-escorted men but their numbers (ratio) are closely watched and they do a lot of pre-screening to allow only quality individuals (and there are some for sure) and avoid the turds in the punchbowl. We don't share a personal interest in single men but we don't think all should be thrown off the bridge either, it's just simply not our thang. We can tell you we have met a few couples who would fit in punchbowl as well. Hope this information was of some value, it better be because I type with two fingers! LMAO Good Luck!

Member Since - How long have you been on? - Swingers since 2006 swingular since sept 2007....The Tarts:p

Guy and Gals - What do you think? - i like to get to know know people . so i always ask alot of questions about alot of stuff . and for the people that i would like to be playmates with . i like to watch them first do thier thing so i can see what all they are into and how they like it . everybody has a different style . and i love watching them and learning and also seeing if it turns me on . if it doesnt turn me on watching them then i wont play with them . and it gives u a chance to check them out . i know people laugh at me when i say this but i like to watch them play cause u can learn alot about them , as people aslo . some times u have never seen a person naked before . from our pics u can tell we both shave . i chatted with a couple for a while and then they wanted to meet us at the club so they sent some more pics to us . ... and i dont think the lady has ever shaved her private area . at all . i dont want to offend anyone by that comment . cause i dont care if u do or u dont as a person . but for my playmates . thats not something i want . and i think something like that they should be the ones to say something about it . but she didnt and i was honest with her . and told her that i would never want to play with her cause of that reason . but i would still love to be there friend if she wanted to . i guess she took what i said the wrong way . but that is totally different then us . and that matters to us . we shave all the time . so why would i want to play with someone that has never shaved . she had lots of black hair all in the front up and down and sideways . it look like bathing suit shorts . i think that she should have said something about that . to us . long before . idont like suprises . so i like to see people naked and watch them play first before i even think about really playing with them . i dont want to be caught in a room with someone and then change my mind for some reason and make them feel bad . cause something i might not like others would love . so i dont want to hurt anyones feelings . but something s bother me ...and iam not going to take one for the team or anything like that . so i think u should always be honest about yourself and what u need and want . and u should ask as many questions as u want or need to . one person said something like they talk to each other or watch the other couple to see what their mates want . thinking they are going to do everything the same . everybody is different . i love to be bitten but it is very hard to find someone to bit e me the way i like it . so if one person sees me getting bittten and then tries it i will tell him how i like it . and if that person can do it in a way that turns me on then ill ask for more . but if it isnt turning me on ill ask for them to do somethng else . when we get with out play mates it should be fun for all . and it s great to see when u really turn someone on .and everybody is getting into it really good . and we have been playing with a couple lately . where the lady makes us really weird faces . i have stop doing what i was doing to ask her if she was ok with what was going on . cause the looks are really weird . to my husband if that look was on my face it would mean get me the hell out of here . but she explain all is good and keep going . and i dont care how many times i have heard her saying iam ok .... the look always makes me aask . cause there might be one time that it isnt ok and i dont want to keep going . cause i always want to be invted back . i think it helps with stuff like this to get to know the people a bit before trying to play . i dont understand why swingers treat the life style sex different then dating . people are in a rush by what they see on the outside of the person before they know anything about them . and sometimes people have different ways that dont click with each other . and then they have regrets or hurt feelings or just a bad night with someone . i am sorry . i dont want to regret anything . and i try my damnest to find people that will make my night a blast and people that i can do that for them . i will always ask for what i need and how i need it . and ill always ask the other person what they are wanting and needing . but also go with the flow at the moment and kinda of use my own judgement on if i should ask for something s of just keep doing what iam doing .. its the quiet ones that worry me .... i have been told to shut up by others around . and i have also been told that i made and make the person feel special cause i let them know they can talk open with me and iam here to make them just as happy as they are trying to make me . have u ever tried to tell someone to stop doing something or change something and them not understand .one of my biggest problem is with the nipples . yes i like them to be bitten during sex when we are in the moment . but alot of guys bite them hard from the get go and then u can t start up the way u want . or when u are playing with someone and then they try for your ass without asking or u showing any signs that u want that . if i am light touching with a soft swap with someone i dont think they should go right for my ass .i tell people all the time get your finger out of my ass . maybe they were lost . maybe they were trying to move things along faster then what i wanted . hell i dont know what they were thinking but ill tell u this i put a stop to it from the get go . some took it in a bad way cause others have been in the room . and others have understood and made no big deal about it . but i think that is a thing that should be talked about first and not just thrown on someone like that in a group of people . but thats just me . and we all think and see things different .thats why people try to talk their way through things naughty dreams freaky kitty

Those damn single men! - Where do they fit in this lifestyle? - AKLIM...In response to your question: WHat can a single bring to the table that a couple cannot? 1.) TOTAL attention...When you have a couple, he or she will always be aware of their spouse or spousal equivalent...Thus NOT giving 100% of their attention. 2.) NO ONE has to sit out...Earlier you stated that you would not want to watch someone do your wife, as it would bore you. Do you watch porn? Ahhhh...Live porn...What could be better? If someone in a couple takes a break to get a drink, have a smoke, go to the restroom...whatever they do on their break, they come back and watch 2 people with someone, don't you think they would be just as bored as you are? Don't you think you or your wife are worthy of more attention from a triad situation than a few minutes while someone takes a break? 3.) (Directed at Mr. AKLIM) Are you telling me if a single woman wrote you, you would not want to meet? Come on...EVERY man in America would like 2 women at the same time...it is the most common fantasy! 4.) What's wrong with Mr or Mrs. having a little fun on the side while someone IS out of town? NOTHING... Not to say you should adhere to our rules or anything...Just making a statement that answers your question... NOW...On to another thing...IN OUR EXPERIENCE ONLY!!!!!!!! Single males are indeed unreliable...so much so that on another site, we actually put on our profile the names of those who do not show or call to cancel a meeting! But then again...We have had more "meetings" with single males...BUT MANY couples do the same...We feel that there are FAR to many "fantasy swingers" in the lifestyle...In other words, those who THINK it would be cool, but when it came to "shit or get off the pot" they won't...thus they do not show...Another posibility is the old fashioned, "I can get my wife to go to this meeting, then I can convince her to swing!" action...NO single man will pull that one...And how many of us have NOT experienced that one? I am almost willing to bet that those who have the "The ladies talk on the phone" rule HAVE experienced it, and want to avoid it in the future...Now...I see a TON of people saying single men are "gropers" and hangers oners and other things...OUR experience is just the opposite...THE MARRIED men are doing that...SO many times we have seen single men yelled at for WALKING by a couple...NO, NOT talking, touching, rubbing, making tongue actions at the lady, no winking, NOTHING but walking by...YET, a man who has a lady by his side can come over and stick his hand in her skirt or down her blouse...and that is cool...Why? Because he is married or something? Makes no sense to us...ANYONE does something like that unapproved and they should be tossed, but because SO many people have HEARD of bad experiences with single men...NOT actually experienced them themselves, they assume it is the way it is. How many profiles have you seen where someone says we are newbies, then says NO SINGLE MEN like 15 times? Where did they get that? They have not met anyone, they have not been to a club, they are new...Probably from someone else's profile...THEN there are those who say< "Searching for: Single Men, Single Women, Couples" but later in the profile, the last sentence is "No single men" or something like that...You have MANY people in the forums saying they only play with couples, but their profile says differently...And then they want to come in her and bitch that a single man wrote them! WTF??? The single men are DOING what you say...and still get bitched at.... Let this post die....To the single men...Welcome to the whipping post...Enjoy...

Expect more news reports like this one. - - What bullshit. They didn't once mention the fact that most swingers also routinely abuse their pet stuffed ferrets and burp loudly in public restaurants. The part about all swing parties being giant free-for-all barebacking masses of wet hot sex was pretty spot on, however. I'm just glad they didn't mention the wearing of metallic neon thong Speedos and dozens of gold chains cause that would totally "out" most of us swinger guys. Interesting they didn't once mention bisexuality. Of course we all know talk show hosts and relationship "experts" are raging carpet lickers. Evil

Swinging and the Mormon Church - - We know and have known many active Mormon swingers over the years and I think they pretty much have a personal "don't ask don't tell" policy. And, of course, they lie...to their Bish or whoever when asked if they're chaste and stuff. I'm fairly certain most religions pretty much frown on wife swapping and most other forms of sexual relations with someone other than your God approved spouse. So I think the bottom line for most people who espouse a religion would be denial or simply willful disregard of THAT particular religious doctrine. However, as FORMER Mormons (well raised that way, anyway) we do know that there is sort of a loophole that many may not be aware of so you can basically fuck other peeps (and do other naughty shit...short of murder) and still go to heaven...eventually. Check out D&C 132:26. Now the way I interpret that "scripture" I'm pretty much covered (even though I'm an atheist) and will still get to go to heaven and stuff if on the VERY slim chance I'm wrong and it isn't all bullshit. ;-)

Couples seeking Single Males - - 10 Quick Tips for Single Males... How to Greatly Improve Your Chances of Meeting with Couples & Ladies... So for you single guys out there, here are some tips that can greatly increase your chances of hooking up with couples and ladies out there in the swinging lifestyle. 10 quick tips: #1.) Always remember no means no. It doesn't mean that you insist on pushing on and trying more. We will elaborate more on this later; #2.) When contacting a couple or a single females to try to have some fun with them, never expect after an email that you will be meeting for drinks that night. There are a lot of couples and single females out there that would much rather chat and get to know you via yahoo messenger, etc.. before ever meeting. #3.) When you find someone on a Yahoo profile that looks interesting to you,... please make sure and read their profile. There are sometime that couples are just looking for a bi-female or couples. So, if the profile says No single males... don't even waste your time contacting them; #4.) Be respectful when contacting a lady or couple that interests you. Let them know some info about yourself (it is always a very good first impression to include a PHOTO or two (You don't have to show your face if you wish to be discreet, & PLEASE not just a crotch shot) your AGE, LOCATION (this is very important).. and better still, send a link to your Yahoo profile with your email. A vast majority of couples and ladies will not respond to those who have a BLANK YAHOO PROFILE WITH NO PHOTO. So if you do have just a blank profile, you are probably wasting your time.. Also include your interests... sexual and non-sexual.. Also, when describing what you like sexually... don't describe things in a distasteful way. Example: instead of saying. "I like my cock sucked"... or "I like to fuck ladies in the ass"... Tell them that you enjoy oral ....and performing anal on a lady; #5.) Within your reach--- When contacting a lady or couple, make sure that they are located fairly close to you... and if not.. it would be somewhere that YOU are going to be traveling to over the next couple of months; #6.) Never write a person when you will be going to their town the next day if you've never chatted with them before-- your chances are slim to none that you will be successful finding someone. Example: "Hey,.. I'll be in town tomorrow in room 315 at the Hilton.. would you like to come to my room for some fun?" That doesn't work in the swinging lifestyle if you've never been in contact with this woman or couple before; #7.) While chatting or emailing with a couple or female,.. never push the issue to meet. Pushy will never get you anywhere; #8.) Respect all issues with couples or single females.. If couples or females insist that you use a condom, don't push the issue not to. Talk about everything with the couples or single females before meeting. All the do's and don'ts ----- find out before meeting anybody.. it insures better success. Do not expect sex with anybody the first time you meet them!! Many couples and ladies insist on a SOCIAL MEETING FIRST - that's why it's best to meet with those who live closer to you.) When you do get around to having some fun together, why not bring a nice bottle of wine along - it's a nice thing to do, shows class and gives a great FIRST IMPRESSION! Also when you're first meeting, dress your best and show good personal hygiene; #9.) If you are playing as a single male--- Make sure you are single...and if not... that your wife does know about your participation in the swinging lifestyle... don't lie about it... be honest enough with the couple or lady and tell them you are married and wish to be discreet... some swingers like meeting with married men because they feel they will be more discreet than single men; and #10.) Just remember. Treat others with respect and always be honest and open-- when you do, you will gain friendship and trust. Trust is a must in the swinging lifestyle and people aren't just a fuck. There are many people in the swinging lifestyle that build life friendships. Most importantly, when you are going to meet, show up on time & those who are "no-shows" will be remembered w/in this community. Don't give excuses at the last minute why you can't meet on an agreed date/time and location. We're all nervous at some point. Nothing is worse than a series of email or phone tags!...people' s lives are busy enough without this happening... If you're going to talk the talk, then you gotta walk the walk! And always remember.. NO MEANS NO; We would like any feedback from all of you couples and singles out there on this and what you thought of it. And if you'd like to add anything to this ... please send an email to the group or us. For you single males out there...I know that some of you are seasoned swingers, but there are some guys out there that would like to know and understand the swinging lifestyle, that is why we shared this.

Recons 6th annual backyard bash! - - Just wanted to say a huge "thanks" to Recon for throwing another Phenomenal backyard party! Everything from The beds in the orchard, the tent, the lighting, the guests, the nudity, the food, the Taco Vendor from the corner of Sears on state...it was perfect! This was the best swingers party we have ever been to! We can't remember much after the second round of margarita's, but the hot, hot, hot people doing the "wiggle" on bed 3 in the orchard is etched in my mind ;) hahahaha! We were Happy to meet new couples, and it was good to see old friends, as well! Recon, we Love you two! Thanks for all your hard work for The 6th annual Summer Back Yard Bash! Xoxo Utsluts :)

Where have all the SWINGERS gone? - - We are young but we have been in the lifestyle about 5 years. What happend to the to the lifestyle of the 70's. Todays lifestyle is full of dull and boring people. No one partys anymore. So many people just want to meet and fuck. Where did all the cheaters come from, I mean what is a straight single male swinger. Let us know if you're out there. We need new faith.

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