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Question - do you talk about other swingers? - We never use names just describe situations to illustrate what type of things we do. The only time I could imagine using names is if you went to house party and all concerned know you were all there. Then would use general terms of what mutual experiences we had at the party but no specifics we may have done with the people on a one on one basis. Discretion is paramount.
Swingers unnerve families at hotel - - Too bad for the parents. I have been to soccer tournaments with my daughters too. We kept them busy and then got them to bed at a decent hour. Most of the parents don\'t know what their daughters are doing most of the time. They are usually in the bar and letting the kids run wild.
The parents that did the complaining are the ones that can\'t control their kids. Good for them.
Hanging out this weekend - Habits tonight?? - [quote=DELICIOUSLYWET][quote=HERRIMANFUN]We enjoy it if there is a couple we are interested in they have sections that aren't so loud that you can talk. But yes it is loud. And we have run into lots of swingers there lots of times. But I hear that a lot I think most people don't talk to people or just walk up to a stranger(s) and say hi. But I the male half does a lot that's how you meet people and then once you chat a bit it comes out that they are swingers. Not a big fan of he meet and greets it's always the same people unfortunately. And that's great for some but we haven't really made a connection at any that we have been too, yet. [/quote]
We have been to the meet and greets too and we don't go very often and have not been to one in ages. Maybe twice a year we hit one but when we do go we pretty much introduce ourselves to everybody and if we missed someone we didn't mean to. You do have to be proactive to be successful in meeting people or at least reactive in a positive fashion when someone interesting approaches you. We have been to Habits and ended up leaving with someone, but we had already had a bit of friendly back and forth somehow with the people we left with or it was someone we met previously and had at least chatted a bit. We think we have only been there maybe five times altogether. Well, maybe Mr. Delicious will put on a collared shirt just in case we head that way but for now we are thinking maybe the Green Pig sounds fun. [/quote]
Well if you make it to Habits please come and say hello.
Disneyland swingers - - Anyone going to be there Oct 4th to the 7th email us.
Habits tonight?? - We would love to dance - How many of the people at habits on a given Saturday night are swingers? How do you know who to hit on? =)
Lusting After the EVER ELUSIVE Male-with-Hallpass - The Great Swingular Mystery - We both have hall passes that are discussed and approved on a case by case basis. Here is where we see the imbalance occurs. Men looking to swing are far more plentiful then women looking to swing and I dare say that is true within and without a marriage agreement. Yes there are some really liberated sexy and sexual women in the lifestyle but they are out numbered. Within the lifestyle, approaching someone about having sex is supposedly not considered inappropriate and getting a no answer is not supposed to be a problem. That not always being how approaches are received or a no answer is delivered is another subject. So the multitudes of men make approaches. If a woman within the lifestyle has a hall pass she is going to get approached. Well, frankly she is going to get approached if she does not. There are not enough women with hall passes or single women looking to swing to satiate the demand in the lifestyle market created by the multitudes of interested men. Some ladies are having a great time giving it a try. The law of supply and demand as applied to swinging.
Knowing and understanding this, frankly, the Mrs. sees no reason to go shopping for men to play with because she does not need to. Knowing this, frankly, I have never gone out shopping for s single female or a married woman within the lifestyle community with a hall pass. I see how many men my wife politely refuses. Shopping online I suppose I might have the same experience as the majority of men out there making request. Yes some of the men making online advances make a pretty bad first impression. If their foot in their digital mouth suggests an emergent flaw in the expression of their DNA or it is just bad learned behaviors and attitudes, well this is a fun based undertaking for us and not social work so jerks get a quick and lasting no. In fact most single men and men looking to play with Mrs. Delicious using a hall pass get a no. Many of which are most probably great guys. Sex is upfront and open in the lifestyle and so, men, ask to have sex and women usually do not have to ask for sex because they have several friend request and e-mails to consider every week if not everyday where sex is the requesters primary motivation. The male requesters list of expectations from her, are usually not as demanding as the list she has for him before there is a fuck agreement.
If a couple wants to see some balance in the number of sexual partners they each have as swingers then, perhaps, it may require that the female half be a bit reserved and accept only as many offers as her main squeeze can find. Same goes for the frequency of sexual encounters. We prefer hooking up with couples but we will on occasion entertain a single. Usually the MFM hookups are men we picked and not a guy contacting us. The guys that aggressively send a new friend request or let
swingers defined - - [quote=KIDSATPLAY]How would you define yourself? How would you defend yourself if a respected vanilla challenged your lifestyle? [/quote]
sex is sex and love is love... one has nothing to do with the other, but together they are amazing! the way I see it, he is mine and any girls who may come along are just fun sex toys for him.
Swingers - a couples only lifestyle? - Are singles considered to be swingers? - We don't care either way...but, Yolo cruises and Swingular, amongst others, have partnered together to sponsor a "Lifestyle" cruise for couples & single females only, thus excluding single men. Go figure. Oh, Hugh Hefner is still legally married! Go HEF! What about the term poly-amorous for singles? eh, who knows. Commence the a** ripping.
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - 1968 Camaro, a truck and a mini van :D
Friend collectors or swingers - - Our post was not intended to offend anyone . Just because we chose to operate our account/profile differently then others does not make anyone more right or wrong.
The purpose of our post was to try and develop some knowledge as to why some chose to operate differently. We understand that because our profile doesn’t show our faces, that means a friend request is necessary to determine attraction by exchanging pictures. We do this ourselves, all the time. But we also immediately delete accounts and typically inform those interested if we are not interested.
It sounds like we are complaining but in reality we really aren’t. We just wanted to establish conversation and understanding.
We have received a lot of friend request because of this post and we appreciate all of them but we are selective as well and we will not accept all of the request if we are not interested.
I hope we continue to discuss this issue as we look forward to hearing other thoughts, ideas and suggestions.
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