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Bubulaplease - Confidentiality - [quote=PROVOCATIVE]While we're talking confidentiality, I read an article about our future president's plan to increase domestic spying once again. He's also called for a boycott of Apple because they won't allow the government to have a backdoor into their phones. Texts to Android phones, however, are vulnerable, even when they originate from an iPhone. Phone data is also at risk. The article mentioned that apps like Signal and What's App are the only ones that are government hack-proof, but the person you are texting must have the same app. Another question I have to ask is: How safe is the Swingular phone app? I'm hesitant to use it on my phone after the inauguration. [/quote] The NSA probably already knows you're swingers. And if they don't, Google almost for SURE does! lol And as far as increased domestic surveillance after the inauguration, I think you only really need to worry if you're, like, a Muslim...or a minority...or a liberal...or a woman. [em]Emo_10[/em]

Singles who are married and cheating - - better get a cup of coffee cuz this is gonna be a long read: there are a few things you have to take into consideration when you decide to be in the swinging lifestyle. i think the biggest thing is finding out if your spouse is into it. most people, i think, go into a relationship knowing what their spouses boundries are. and then there are couples who evolve in their relationship and the more trust they have in their relationship, i would think it would be like a "coming out" of sorts. like..."hey, um...honey...the johnsons next door are having a party this weekend...and we were invited" "Really?" "Yeah, and i hear its one of THOSE kinda parties" "well, honey..we better wear our crotchless underwear" i dunno..something like that..like, at some point you decide that swinging is for you, right? or you go into a relationship knowing that swinging is an option. buuuuuuuuuuuutttttt... if you go into a relationship knowing that swinging is definetly not what your spouse is into or in the evolution of your relationship you decide swinging is right for you, and your spouse isnt into it, and under no circumstance is it ok....then, in my humble opinion, you arent in the lifestyle. now, if you come to some sort of open relationship agreement if your spouse isnt into it but agrees to let you get some strange, fine. if you take it upon yourself to sign up for a swinging website behind your spouses back, hook up with couples behind your spouses back, then YOU ARE CHEATING! if you are cheating, then you are just asking for trouble: 1. you are being dishonest 2. you are bringing your drama into someone elses life whether they know it or not. what happens if the wife finds out and shows up at your house party with a shotgun? 3. what happens if you get an s.t.d.? you bring that home with you to your spouse, and if you have them, your children. even if you use condoms you can still get s.t.d.'s, its happened. 4. when your spouse does find out, and they will...you are humiliating them in front of their friends, family, job...cuz somehow they all find out. that leads me to believe you have no regard for someone elses feelings so why would i want to swing with you? 5. you are giving other single people, male or female, a bad name and reputation. 6. you are giving swingers in general a bad name and reputation. jenn and i are honest with each other. we are not in a place where we are gonna swing separate, we communicate and talk things out so we have a full understand of where eachother is at, at any given moment. if jenn or i didnt want to swing anymore, or if we wanted a break from it, we talk about it. we arent perfect by any means, but we do our best to consider eachothers feelings in this lifestyle. we dont invite drama into our lives so i would have to say...no, we dont swing with someone who is cheating on their spouse. we would both suggest that if you feel the need to cheat that you should either talk it out with your spouse and seek external help or if you dont think that will help, you should consider ending the relationship. this is all just our opinion. we know its easier written or said than done. but if you arent happy with your spouse, why would you drag them down with this? communicate..compromise...talk it out..but dont be a cheater, cuz its not cool. brandon

DATE NIGHT AT THE DRIVE IN.... - does anyone ever still go to the drive in? - We went to a drive inn two weeks ago and it was fun, the only thing better would be a group of swingers there together, we could totally redefine the word carhop.

That Moment - - We have done that many times. We will sit at the Mall and watch people and ask each other are they swingers or not lol.

Single men, yes/no, why? - - As an admin, I don't normally post but this is a topic I can relate to. I kinda skimmed through this post and all the replies but here is my response to the original post: I, for one, am very turned on by the fact of my girl getting handled by another man more than from a women. I have thought about the reasons why and the only thing that I could truly tell myself was because it turns me on seeing it from an outside point of view. Also, I've never (as unbelievable as this sounds as an admin/owner of a swingers site) had a true MFF (for those of you who don't understand that... a threesome with two women) experience so that makes me lean more towards the idea of 'pleasuring my women' be it myself or multiple guys. Now, as I have read, a lot of couples have been successful or ok with finding other men without using a site like this. For me, that means usually friends or aquaintances. That's the hard part for me. My hold back with finding someone are making sure I trust them but also making sure I'm not too close too them. That's been the hard part of balancing things out. So, honestly, I would love (and jump at) the chance to experience this with my girl but what hold me back is finding the right guys to do it with. I'm sure the time will come.

Hottest Swingular Couple - - Nope. Not joining this popularity contest. Suffice it to say? I think there might be a few Hot or Not sites still around. Better yet, someone could start a Swingers Hot or Not site and make a Fin or two! (I think Like my Nude Pic is one) But to answer the question...I believe whomever you're drawn to in the moment. Whomever your focus is on, wherever your lips are locked and your sex is drilled? THAT'S the hottest swinger. -K_T

vanilla awareness - vanilla awareness - This topic is also ripe for the condom conversation. In my experience at least, the younger - swingers and non- swingers seem awfully naive about the potential for STD's and beg for bareback. The truth is, getting tested every six months is not a free pass to slut my way through the general population. Risk is inherent in this lifestyle. It's part of what keeps it exciting- but it's interesting how often I end up evolving into the half naked sex- Ed instructor for people who ought to know better.

Male anal stimulation - - And some wonder why the norms of the world call swingers perverts. There a lot of women that don

why are swingers so flaky? - - We have been in this lifestyle over 20 yrs and you will find out there is all types of people in this lifestyle including flakes. We have had our share of them. I think its just personalities of certain people that are wanting to take the plunge into the dark side but to afraid. Everyone is differant and you will find out the more you stay in this lifestyle the more you will find some very good people and some more flakes. Good Luck and enjoy.

Swing Fit Travels - Travel plans for those wanting to work out - OK, I'm sure I already know the interest level here based on prior posts I've made but what the hell. Is anyone interested in a Swing Fit Travel arrangements? This would be an exercise vacation for Swingers. The involvement level vary from those able to do cardio for 10 hours to those looking to learn and burn (learn to workout and burn calories.) One thing would be paramount: all attendees would be bonafide Swingers. No BS about that. Anyone up for that? I'm thinking of a resort takeover someplace in the US so it is near and easy to get to. Going to Mexico or the Caribbean would be nice but costly. We could even go to Vegas. If you are serious about your weight and knowledge, let me know. Mav

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