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Sturgis 2014 - The wife and I are wanting to know where the swingers play @ Sturgis - Been to Sturgis three times all three times stayed at the Chip. It was a blast non stop partying. Lots of sexy people and you make of it what you want out of it. The thing we like about the Chip is the concert line up. Big bands included with the cost of the camping for the week. A few restrictions but not many. Don't know if they have concerts at Glenco but we wouldn't mind checking it out some year. Wont make it this year it seems to run with the BBR in Idaho every year. Have fun and hope to ride with a few of you this summer. Dave and Jackie

WHere the fuck did manners go? - - My wife and I are on different ends of the pole with this one sometimes. She does not always respond when she is not interested. One reason for that is the fact that she gets bombarded on other sites with mail from single males, even though her profile clearly says she is looking for a bi female. Even when she says "no thanks" some people still persist. So I think, and this is just my opinion, that some people mistake the term "bi-female" for "easy POA". That makes a lot of people a little irritated after a time, and they simply don't bother responding. If I greet someone, it is normally not because I am trolling, it is normally because they have interests that I or my wife share in common with them. If I don't think someone is a good fit for us, I don't see any problem shooting the breeze a bit. It just never progesses to a conversation about sex. It seems that some people, I repeat, some people, have associated swinging with strictly sex, and it seems like people don't want to just meet people any more. I know a lot of us live very busy lives, and we get together with fellow swingers when we can to "let our hair down", but let us not lose sight of the fact that we all come together on forums like this to make friends and talk with people that understand what we do. As friends, it would be nice if we were politely sent away, but sometimes people just don't do that. They may feel bad about it, and just not say anything, or they may be fed up, and just not bother. We shouldn't take offense either way. Some people just don't feel like dancing. So, with that, if I email you, and you tell me to scram, my pride may sting for a bit, but I will move on, and you will not have to present a dissertation on why we are not appealing to you. You shouldn't HAVE to do that. :!

What do you like most about lifestyles? - - In theory, the lifestyle is perfect for us. We have never regretted starting this adventure and still believe that it is right for us. We have met some wonderful friends and have had many very erotic and fun experiences. Can you feel the "but" coming here. LOL. We are beginning to see the very things we came to the lifestyle to avoid popping up everywhere. Closed-mindness, judgment, and dishonesty are invading the ranks. It is our belief that the lifestyle is supposed to be about open-mindness, acceptance, freedom, and fun. Other words also come to mind like variety, new experiences, non-judgment, truth, love, and joy. BUT (there it is), not only are we judged by the "vanilla" world (and that is okay; we expected that), we are judged by our own. You are too fat, you are too old, you have tatoos, etc., etc. A couple actually told us that we were incompatible because I had tatoos. One on each arm- OMG! LOL. We realize that people have preferences, but come on, two tatoos? It is not like I am the illustrated man. My point is this: let's not judge each other when we don't even know each other, let's not create social classes within our lifestyle, and , for God's sake people. let's be honest with each other. If you are on a swingers site to get your rocks off by cyber-chatting, then disclose to others what you are doing and wanting. Don't tell people you are going to meet them when you have no intention of doing so. Don't act like you are a couple when you are a single male or a cheating husband. Most of us are doing this to meet good people and have good sex. Let us do that without having to wade through dishonesty and hypocrisy. Let's do what we came here for--HAVE FUN! We love the lifestyle and, for the most part, love the wonderful people we have met. Let's keep it going and not ruin it.

Swinging and Children Don't Mix With Me, What about You? - Unforgettable experience - I have to say, having children and trying to meet with couples can be very hard on your lifestlye. Family always comes first in my book, but it doesn't seem like every parent thinks that, which is why I'm letting you know why they should start thinking about it. We thought that maybe if we could meet with a couple that also have a child or has children, that we could have a better, lasting relationship and have other things to enjoy with these couples, besides just swinging. Well, one couple didn't work out with us and I don't know how to go about letting them know they were wrong in what happened. I'm the only one that even seemed to get upset about the situation and I wanted to get others opionion to make sure I don't owe an opology to them. Here's what happened..... Me and my husband met with a couple at a swingers club, which was off-premise, and we talked some and explained we had children and that we wanted to meet with couples, but it was hard with younsters and it was also hard to find a reliable and trusting babysitter to be able to enjoy the night out. They the told us they had a child and that if we wanted to talk more and get to know each other better, that we could come to their home for a dinner, with our kids. Now...we explained up front that we don't play seperate and we definitely did not play if we had our children with us. They said that it wouldn't be a problem, no hank-panky with kids around, because they too had a small one. This sounded really great to us, because we thought we found a good couple to be friends with and have some extra benefits too, if we wanted. Well, things started out okay. We were greeted at the door by the family, and our kids was introduced to their child, and was showed some computer games and such to play. That gave us time to talk a little to the couple and was shown the outside of their home and such before dinner. After dinner is when everything went WRONG. First, I had to go to the bathroom. Well, while I was gone to the bathroom, the Mrs. decide to give my hubby a tour of the rest of the house, mainly the extra bedroom....and when I asked the hubby where my hubby was, he said.."Don't worry about them, they'll be okay for awhile"...well, that really ticked me off, especially knowing our children were now mixed up in this...and our oldest asking where his daddy went with that lady.....that was about the last straw for me....but I was in these peoples home, not mine, and I respect others homes, but in this situation, I was ready to leave, and without my other half....because he too knew our rules of playing. Well, when the Mrs. and mine came back up, my other half knew I was mad, but for some strange reason, he felt like he had to still play around with her, and in the same room all the children were in!!!! Not to mention, she couldn't keep her hands off him, which was not making my situation of trying to calm down any easier. When I finally got my hubby alone, I "very persistantly" told him me and the kids were leaving...NOW..and if he was smart he had better be out the front door before me or I would leave him there, and I truely meant it. I was so angry and hurt by all of the happenings around me, I thought that if this is what it's like to try and swing...FORGET IT...my nerves or marriage weren't going to stay together if this is what I had to look forward to everytime. My hubby didn't get out the door before me..he was too busy kissing the Mrs good-bye....and I mean french-kissing..... but, thank Goodness I got the kids out the door before me....and that didn't help out any on his part, believe me. We stopped swinging for many years after that because of trust with one another and with other couples saying one thing and then doing another. This particular couple apparently feels that nothing was wrong with what happened, and actually contacted us again after many, many, many years after this incident happened. I'm not one either to "shun" anyone, but this expereince really bothered me then, and still does, and after them contacting us again, through an e-mail, not by phone, it makes me wonder about my feelings on the matter. Am I wrong to feel this way, even after all these years? I do trust my husband NOW, after the bad expereinces, because there was one more after that, but it took alot of talking, yelling, and regaining a trust that is hard to achieve after something that drastic that involved your kids in the process. I e-mailed them back, but I know it was short and blunt, nothing mean, I don't do things like that, but what if they try again to contact us...what do I say? Any help/advice/opinions is appreciated. Hope no one ever has to expereince something like this...most marriages would never have lasted unless you really had a great understanding with your mate, and we put ours to the test and passed.......barely.

Swingers dying out? - Is the utah swinger community dying or becoming to needy? - Yep, swinging's as dead as a doornail. We're thinking of taking up pornographic cross- stitching to fill the void. [em]Emo_96[/em]

help deployed soldier with Valentine's Day gift for wife - Any other military couples know how to overcome this holiday? - Get her a membership to Gold's Gym. There are like a shitload of swingers there and she can have her way with a bunch of them in the steam room. Nothing says Happy valentine's Day like a steam room gangbang. Seriously though...are you deployed some place really different or cool? Is there maybe something unique from the local culture that you could send her? Just a thought.

Don't You Hate When..... - List the things that annoy you. - Besides me, list some of the things that really annoy you. Let me start this one by saying... I really think it's childish when someone writes you an email in private, saying all the things that they want to get off their guilty little chest and then they put a block on me, so that I cannot reply. What are these people like 12 years old? Apparently, following the "Why so much hate in the swingers world" thread, the racial comments that followed and my thoughts on the situation, another floridian couple (I won't mention names), thought I was directing my comments toward them. So, they decided to write me and tell me how wrong I was about them and that I must be hiding my picture because it may apply to me and all this nonsensical crap, only to block me from telling them, they had nothing to do with my remarks. I would just like to ask these idiots that, if what I said didn't apply to them, why did they get so defensive??? It appears as though the truth may have hurt these two tolerant and progressive people. Why write me, trying to justify to me how you're not racist and that black guys in the Florida area are arrogant and "put themselves up on a pedestal? Here is what they wrote me:


Originally wrote in thread: "perhaps TEQUILAROSE was confused by my statement, I stated that alot of people have fetish's but I do not know alot of white couples that are interested in black men..." Email One: "do not dare accuse me of racism, i have heard of your attacks in forums from other people on this site, it is extremely taboo to say you are not interested in black, and black men seem to love to place themselves on a pedestal, i live in tampa, i know ALOT of black people and honestly i have alot of exposure to them but i have no interest and i voiced what i have noticed in the swing world and i made it clear it was my opinion but do not attempt to play the racist card with me, keep in mind its not nearly as taboo to say your not interested in chinese, mexican, cuban, italian, however its not taboo for a black person to say he or she is not into interracial, its a double standard and its wrong." Email Two: "by the way, i do not see your husbands photo, it seems like racism is a sensitive subject for you, since you seem to wear it on your sleeve, is there a reason for the hostility thats closer to home?" WTF?
Just to kill any presumptuous suspicions that some of you may have, I will say that this couple is from the Riverview, FL area and not Palm Coast, FL area. This mean Kristylynn did not write this. That's the best way to put it without violating someone's privacy. So don't draw any conclusions. Anyway, I am interested in hearing some of the things that piss you guys off in the lifestyle. So write it down. All I ask is that you not mention any names, 'cept mine. I could give a fuck. I think they best way to understand people is to find out what makes them tick and what ticks them off. No pun intended. -D-

Now a single male looking for a rebound play - - Yeah, swinging can cause huge pressure on a marriage and totally screw it up. I'm sure that's why most swingers, myself included, would never recommend swinging as a way to "spice-up" a marriage that is having some difficulty. You definitely have to be on the same page as your partner in order to give swinging a go -- and then be pretty damn quick on your feet and adaptable as things get going -- perhaps in a direction that you didn't expect. I don't get though, why the OP is back here if he's not interested in swinging for the long term or looking for a woman who is interested in it? Seems this OP is more suited for a singles-type site. And Evil, yes I'd like to see your listing 'cause I'm guessing that at least one of the items involves a douche-canoe going over a large peefall before crashing into a turd log. Or other such silliness, much funnier than what I've just described! ;) Yes ... I know your personality here!

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Pregnancy - Wife thinks when she's pregnant girls won't find her sexy - [quote=STGEORGE][quote=CHEFFETTE][quote=STGEORGE]Not sure about the girls, but I have a total pregnancy fetish.... Invite me![/quote] Seriously, why do people do this? 'I am the opposite of what you're looking for but if there's a woman who wants sex I have to try and have sex with her.'[/quote] Seriously, why you wanna judge me... That would be like me saying "Serious, why would this woman be on a swingers website?" She don't like women, she wont play with couples, she isn't a unicorn, she doesn't want partnered fwbs. See how that works, when you judge others? "I'm seeking reliable, honest and frequent FWB situations (hence not looking outside a 30 mile radius of my ZIP) w/ single, intelligent men (if my Interests weren't clear I DON'T PLAY W/ COUPLES and am NOT a fabled Unicorn) where everyone involved can be themselves, like/tolerate corny jokes and unequivocally accept not being exclusive. Humorless need not apply. NO partnered sex partners, AT ALL. If us bumping into your SO together is likely to get you dumped, or if you share intimate residence or reproduction w/ a female, that's partnered as far as I care. I don't want to be caught up in other people's relationship issues; I have a broad definition of cheating b/c I have a deep love of honesty."[/quote] Judge away, I'm on a swingers website b/c there are far more men trying to get laid w/o the burden of a relationship than anyone anywhere could ever possibly want. I'm like a pilot fish and couples are the sharks; I've never pretended to be anything but, nor have I tried to get at someone who isn't interested in me. You, on the other hand, catch the merest suggestion of a shiny pussy and regardless of whether you're welcome or not you start begging for a crack at it. There are hundreds of men just like you, doing the same thing all day every day on Swingular. I'm one of many haters single men have on here b/c of the desperate actions of guys like you, who have 'no problems finding anyone', which perfectly explains your drooling after this pussy from another time zone. Some couples DO like MFM fun; but this one made clear they are looking for another FEMALE. Or did your brain shut off processing after it detected a female potentially interested in sex and go into mindless pursuit mode? (I love to read my own carefully edited profile anyway, so thanks for sharing it.)

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