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Utah - - We like the fact that as swingers in Utah we have this dirty little secret that we have and we can sneak around (not unlike a cheating spouse we imagine) behind our neighbors, family and the Church's back doing all sorts of evil deeds and loving every minute of it. We've met TONS of Mormon "refugees" like ourselves who are so happy and excited to finally have the yoke of the Church off our backs that we go quite wild and enjoy our debauchery all the more. Other areas we've lived and "swung" don't quite have the same naughty feel as though we're getting away with something quite forbidden. So yeah, a lot of living in Utah can be a compromise and some of it downright sucks but overall it's extremely fun being EXTREMELY bad here. ;-) The Evildoers

How can we get noticed??? - - [quote=achilles1957]SIMONEMARKS- Don't get me wrong about being nude at parties, we just don't drop our clothes at the door. It all depends on the style of party. I mean if I saw people just randomly walking around nude then yeah it would be a little weird. That's why we will go to the resorts and beaches for that.[/quote] Well our post on this thread was mostly humor. As you probably know. In defense of naked....We don't drop our clothes at the door. We neatly fold them and ask the host and hostess where we can store them. It's also a great way to get out of a multi level marketing solicitation. Seriously, we don't get naked, unless the get together, is at the point it seems to be desired and appropriate. Perhaps part of the reason hot tubs are so popular, with swingers, is that people can get naked, on the premise they are going to enjoy the tub, and they do, and the water still provides some cover. Naked is however still a big element in hot tub socializing. Otherwise why not wear suits? We met with a couple a few years back with a beautiful blonde wife, who had immigrated here from Germany and her sexy dark and handsome husband. About ten minutes into the conversation, she told us that she had decided, that she was attracted to both of us and that she was interested in going into the bedroom to be intimate, just to get that out of the way. No rush, no hurry, just so we would know. The two of us and her husband all offered up the same sentiments. Wow, the conversation immediately became really comfortable, and then easily gravitated into comfortably intimate and erotic realms. The sex that followed was wonderful. We had a couple meet us at their door once wearing nothing but bath robes. We have had swinger friends come by to visit us in a hotel suite and we were wearing nothing but the hotel's bathrobes when they arrived. In a bath robe you are not naked. They cover quite a bit of you, but the steps from clothed to naked are greatly reduced. In a bath robe people start to think about you naked. Obviously, naked is only appropriate when it is consensual. You don't invite someone for a job interview, to a hotel room, and meet them wearing a bathrobe. This is a swinger site, and sex and naked, may well be something on all of our minds. Most of the people who contact us, on this site, did so because they are interested in something sexual, and they are wondering if we might be a good fit. Good fit may have something to do with how our nakedness might affect them. We can all flirt and woo, in all sorts of way through digital media and in person, and it is all mostly fun. All of us perhaps understand our own vulnerabilities, and have our own doubts and fears. We dress ourselves up, to protect ourselves, all sorts of ways beyond clothing. In the end, don't we all want to make connections, and be desired, for who we really are? The naked us! Back to the point. Live out loud and be who you really are, and the right people will notice you with or without your clothing. So will the wrong people, but you can just block them!

Habits + Candi - Missed connection with couple at Habits months back - Checked out Habits on a whim and met Candi. I found out later it was a swingers place and this led me to check out swingular. If you remember a tall, young, dark hair, and handsome guy dancing with you on the dance floor hit me up. I would like to reconnect. You were wearing a short skirt and enjoyed flashing everyone.

What is your main lifestyle insecurities? - - I have to agree with Pals4Fun, medical issues can be very frustrating for the person experiencing them. It is one of the main reasons we are lurkers on this site, but not active swingers. I applaud the efforts of anyone that has these kinds of issues and is still willing to put themselves out there to play, and I agree that nobody should look at these types of issues as meaning that the person is not wanting to be there. Now I know that it's a hit to some peoples ego when not every cock in the room stands at attention when they walk in, but unless the person actually tells you verbally, it doesn't mean your not sexy to them, I can be amazingly aroused and horny as hell, but my schlong can still be the floppiest shlort you've ever seen... And no amount of manipulation, medication, or mental masturbation helps the aforementioned situation. This is when my liberal application of my credit card to Amazon's Sexual Wellness Store saves me from humiliation, I grab a tool from my nightstand drawer and the Hitachi Magic Wand and tell the person about to receive that I'm really wanting to experience their full satisfaction first, and I go to town making sure they won't be able to walk or speak a coherent sentence for the next few hours......

Slow Dancing in SLC? - Any clubs for that? - [quote=EVILDOERS]Hmmmm complaining that Salt Lake (okay Sandy) is too far to drive. Yep, you're definitely a geezer. [em]Emo_67[/em] [/quote]LOL -- I think the point was that this Club 90 place MAY have music a bit toned down and MIGHT play a few slower song choices? So driving an hour and a half for something that might be available locally seems unnecessary? Given events, let me put it to you this way. This particular swinger enjoys her unicorns with their horns placed a tad further south as compared to male-dominated swingers such as yourself. So lets take that hour and a half and assign it an "Opportunity Cost" as if we're in a basic economics class. Instead of driving, that time could be spent on any of the following: At an establishment of fine dining enjoying a romantic dinner. In a Blues/jazz bar chatting up a few local men, eventually swaying together on a tiny dance floor. Back at home, sunggling naked, sandwiched between two handsome men while Fogerty, Adele, Chili Peppers, and other music too tame for the younger crowd plays in the background. Relaxing with a couple glasses of wine, and a pile of blankets before the fire. Having the fire within sated. Waking the next morning, with no hangover, and remembering. Perma-grin hits. Still plenty of time and energy to make church by 10, and hit the gym by noon. Ah, yes, if this is your definition of geezer, I embrace it. Whole-heartedly, repeatedly, and with great zeal. :)

Probably my last post - True colors are showing now - Well. I shouldn't. But we're all "getting it out of our systems" so I will. I had been having a great time in the chat room, until Wild decided to badger me and badger me and badger me about the fact that HE was REALLY single - not "married but playing with wife's permission" (as I truly am). He just kept poking at it and wouldn't let it go. How... ironic... that I am, indeed, what I said I was and the protester turns out to be not what he said he was. Hmmmm.... "Methinks he protested too much". I even mentioned his heavy-handed "monitoring" to the staff and they refused to do anything but take his side in every item. OK. So I stopped participating in the chat room - for months. Now. Big Breath. My "problem" is nothing compared to what has happened to others, so I suppose I should just count myself lucky. I *do* feel for you all, but I also will plead with you to consider that "swingers have some bad apples just like the general populace - but have mostly-good people - just like the general populace".

Thought on "E" - - We firmly believe that everyone should have the right to choose. People should be able to do whatever they want with their own lives. It's funny because people do look down on swinging or swingers yet we all meet here, exercising our right to choose our own lifestyle. Why should it be different with anything else ???? Swinging irresponsibly is very dangerous and can lead to stds that can ultimately end in death. Its quite possible that something may occur even if you thought you were playing it safe. Same with drugs ,they can be risky as well, and there isn't anyway to safeproof yourselves 100%. I think that everyone should just go on living their lives the way they see fit and not judge anyone else for the way they choose to live theirs. Mrs. Crunk

Swingle males. What's in it for you? - - Interesting. Thanks for the feedback. So are a lot of the chicks in the hookup scene cray cray? "Copping a pregnancy on the sly" is pretty low. Is it that common? Also, the "stranger danger and blind sexual incompatibility" seems like it would be more or less equally as prevalent in the lifestyle. Not to mention STD's stalkers and cheats. What makes you think swingers are inherently more trustworthy in any given situation?

Profiles, desires and diversity - Profiles, desires and diversity - this thought is a bit too removed from another post that was it's inspiration to be part of that post so I decided to start another. Positive personal declarations on our profiles in forums or anywhere about our relationships our physical bodies our hobbies, interest, our friends, etc., etc., are always reflections of inner self talk. Just because someone makes an affirmative statement does it mean that they are the bearer of absolute certainty at all time in all places and in all situations in regards to the person, place, activity, etc., etc., for which they are speaking? Certainly not, but that does not mean they are not still positive. Even though they have some doubts and fears they still may be extremely encouraged that the positive greatly out weights the negative. If you consider the ying yang nature of existence you cannot have faith without doubt or courage without fear. Personally I enjoy associations with people pursuing the positive. Why? I like to be happy. I will never be perfect and my life will always include a share of successes and failures in that not everything I hope to accomplish will go well. Never-the-less in spite of my inability to predict everything or control anything I am happy to be alive afloat in a sea of infinite possibilities. It has been said that life is a journey and not a destination. I am pretty positive about the journey. Negative statements or negative thoughts about others require some cynicism. Cynicism most certainly can be a personal defense system. Expressions of cynicism about those who mean to use us, con us, rule over us or repress us in some manner or unjustly exclude us are understandable and healthy. Expressions of cynicism especially when anger is included, without a good measure of open minded critical thinking and research are in my mind often quite counterproductive. Cynicism directed toward people in pursuit of wealth and greed or to find a scapegoat for our own mistakes is horribly dark. Racism perpetuated slavery for centuries and far too much violence and injustice in the modern world. Armies roll forth to this day in the name of ethnic cleansing. Armies cannot roll, legislation cannot be passed and supported in support of injustice and repression without the support of soldiers and voters. Our freedom to swing without fear of discrimination requires that non swingers not become to cynical about our life choice. Are we to often a house divided? As for life here at home and on the web, and on Swingular we can participate in 1000 cynical conversations, blogs, and forums, chats and so on and so forth and get 1000,000 affirmations reaffirming our cynicism and we can still be wrong. Wrong about a scientific theory just means you go back to the drawing board and keep searching and experimenting. Wrong about economic management means economic hardship and we can learn from experience. Wrong about people leading to attacks small or large, verbal or otherwise is part of the dark wind that takes our journey toward rough seas. Fear without reason represses everyone and everyone to some degree becomes a victim. Could not a single moment of introspection do more for us? If we look inside our own minds and honestly ask ourselves why we are cynics it might just take the dark wind out of our sails. A painful episode of introspection just might help us to see that the real monster in the closet is not the people we are condemning but in reality our own self doubt. What

Quit misrepresenting / What we are looking for - We are sick of sick twisted people. - Just when you think swingers are all like minded we find that there are all different reasons that they are in the lifestyle...some like to be friends first and build a trust and connection, but not too close of friends...others want to find a few couples that they can build a great friendship with and have close sexual relationship with...some just like the thrill of someone finding them attractive and give them a shot of self confidence along with the feeling that they still got it. We have met some that just want to have sex, with very little connection or thought of knowing the other couples. To some degree many if not all want a lot of one and a little of the others of all scenarios described above. Still others get wrapped up in a double life with lies and deceit that can be mutually destructive to those that cross their path....and of course we can go on and on. Our quest is simple...1) first and foremost do no harm. 2) be impeccable with your word not only to your spouse/significant other, but to those you meet. 3) Care about those that you choose to build relationships with...must have some kind of a connection. 4) Have their back and be their friend...good times or bad times. 5) For us personally separate rooms are ok, but at least for now...no separate dates. 6) Like and trust both of the spouses. 6) The other couple must love each other. We try not to worry about people that don't match up with what we want...wish them the best in their plight. This formula for us has allowed both of us to enjoy our time with others, without regret. What I find funny is a few of the couples that want something different than what we are interested in, getting down right upset, as if there is only one way to be in the lifestyle(sex and more sex and we want it right now)...guess that's what makes the world go round.

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