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She wants to watch - She wants to watch - Totally agree with playingwithfire. If that's your particular kink then change your profile to say you are ONLY looking for or will play with women. That way nobody can accuse you of being misleading or trying to con anybody. There are MORE than enough disingenuous people out there trying to pretend they are real swingers but really don't want another guy in the picture. Another thought is to try to find a girl on Craigslist. I think most couples on a swing site are primarily looking for other couples.

Polyamory - Any thoughts on an exclusive 3 or more partner relationship? - One thing to help is swinging is not poly and poly is not swinging. They are two distinct differences. Swinging is about the physical aspect - sex (and friendship of course), while poly is about love (poly - many, amory - love -- many love). Many people who live in a triad or a poly relationship started off as swingers, but due to the emotional conflict between many "typical" swingers, chose to go into a more poly lifestyle. Ok, here is a lot of information here: http://www.worldpolyamoryassociation.com/index.html Just a little of what I know on the subject. Is it possible, yes, but there has to be a clear understanding, a very strong love and a willingness from all involved to address any issue that arise. The same could be said for an open relationship; works for some, not for everyone.

Political Office - Can swingers run for political office - I think that it depends on how high up the food chain you would go. (the higher up, the more of a big deal they would make of it) The honest answer is that it WOULD come out for whatever business it is of others. The SAD part is that it's looked upon as if that person were lacking in his judgement. The irony of it all is, that to last in this lifestyle, honesty is the key component! Something that apparently many elected officials seem to be lacking! ;)

Poly ideas - Ethical non-monogamy...I like that label. - [quote=ERASEDPANTS]A few other "Poly Ideas" we have had...a beach resort for swingers called "Poly Shore". Jeans with special condom holders made exclusively for the lifestyle called "Poly Pockets". A full time art school for swingers run by "Leave it to Beaver's" Tony Dow,called "Poly Wally Doodle all the Day" . The high end grocery store/basketball arena for lifestylers called "Poly Pavilions". But it turns out it was just a slightly nicer "Poly Vons" grocery store/basketball arena. And lastly a white supremisist lifestyle dating site called "Poly want a Cracker".[/quote] So if you try poly and it doesn't work out, do you call it a Poly-Gone?

Where are all the private parties? - where are the private parties. - hi there. We have also been looking for a party. If you look up kentcheney on this site, he may have some suggestions. We are very new at going to parties and so we may try a few meet and greets this weekend... plus we want to find some couples to talk to, who may have been to hedo11. We are thinking of going there, or a place like that, next Spring or Summer and want to get ideas on where to go, how they are, etc.. We also may be going to habits tonight. Another couple emailed us and said some swingers go there, and the club is having it's one year anniversary. We have never been there, however, we also have free time right now and decided to get out... we may even try the party that kentcheney is having this weekend - if we get our nerves to drop down a notch.. hope this helps M & D

Discretion, the better part of valor - I love that saying - It's a tough one. Women will ALWAYS get more action here than men. Sex is theirs when it comes to power and control. The "you can only get as much as I can get" has never worked for us. But our situation is a little different in that I travel a ton for work so when I'm home I can't see spending what little time I have with someone else. And being on the road, I don't have time to get any action. So the equality in playing separate isn't there. As a result, Mrs. Sexperimentor doesn't play without me unless it's another woman. That's her choice and a bone thrown to equality, which I appreciate. As for the issue of not playing because you're afraid you'll run into a playmate in your vanilla life... To me that's horse pucky. The person you run into will be at just as much risk as you of being "outed". You'll have a lot more in common than a whole lot of other people you meet. And if you have a little discretion about who you play with, you'll have similar attitudes on how to conduct yourselves in a vanilla situation. Actually, I don't think we have EVER, in all the years we've been doing this, just run into anyone we've played with. There are people we've known to be swingers but haven't played with that we've run into, one lady I run into frequently, but life in the lifestyle has never even been discussed in vanilla settings. I hope this isn't your situation, but the last couple I knew that would play separately but not together, with a story told essentially the same way you told yours, didn't end well. She was more interested in having other romantic relationships than she was in maintaining her marriage. Frankly, while playing without my wife is fun, and we share the tales and details afterward, I'd really rather play as a couple. Our playing together has enhanced our relationship and that's what I'd encourage you to do. Mr. Sexperimentors

Quit misrepresenting / What we are looking for - We are sick of sick twisted people. - Just when you think swingers are all like minded we find that there are all different reasons that they are in the lifestyle...some like to be friends first and build a trust and connection, but not too close of friends...others want to find a few couples that they can build a great friendship with and have close sexual relationship with...some just like the thrill of someone finding them attractive and give them a shot of self confidence along with the feeling that they still got it. We have met some that just want to have sex, with very little connection or thought of knowing the other couples. To some degree many if not all want a lot of one and a little of the others of all scenarios described above. Still others get wrapped up in a double life with lies and deceit that can be mutually destructive to those that cross their path....and of course we can go on and on. Our quest is simple...1) first and foremost do no harm. 2) be impeccable with your word not only to your spouse/significant other, but to those you meet. 3) Care about those that you choose to build relationships with...must have some kind of a connection. 4) Have their back and be their friend...good times or bad times. 5) For us personally separate rooms are ok, but at least for now...no separate dates. 6) Like and trust both of the spouses. 6) The other couple must love each other. We try not to worry about people that don't match up with what we want...wish them the best in their plight. This formula for us has allowed both of us to enjoy our time with others, without regret. What I find funny is a few of the couples that want something different than what we are interested in, getting down right upset, as if there is only one way to be in the lifestyle(sex and more sex and we want it right now)...guess that's what makes the world go round.

weight approperate - - well I know this is going to start a shit storm. But we look at it like this 1..sexstarved husbands and he's running the show. 2..he wants some strange pussy,but god forbid she gets any. 3..then you have the real swingers that could careless either way. personally to us whats good for him is good for her. you know who you are, so don't kidd yourself. and as beening height and weight proportionate thats rare for most swingers. my hubby's a voyuer he rather watch then play, you can kinda say he likes sloppy seconds LOL kristylynn

Male bi - Why all the taboo about male bi - I find controversy within the swinging community almost silly. We are collectively engaged in an activity that most of our non-swinging peers would describe (at least in public) as way out there, far beyond the pale. However within our "open" community a few people tend to limit themselves and try to limit others by saying that I am right and thus everyone else is wrong. We can have open discussion on soft swing and full swap, same room and open. We have clubs and parties and swinging resorts to talk about. Everyone has their own opinion, and most are very open to the opinion of others. One area where the discussion does tend to polarize swingers is the subject of bisexual males. Doesn't this strike you as odd? Bisexual females are perhaps the single most powerful driving force within the swinging community. And bisexual males are the closest thing we have to a paria. Part of that is surely the fear of disease but not entirely. Fear of disease is a clear concern in all swinging and can be controlled. There are far fewer bisexual males in swinging than besexual females but we do not exclude straight females. Why the exclusion of bisexual males? Perhaps times are changing and bisexual males will become an accepted part of the swinging community. In the interim we intend to at least give them the benefit of the doubt.

Moving Sale in Syracuse, Ut - We are Moving to Hawaii and are taking nothing with. - We have so much fun at swingers yard sales. We will try and stop by.

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