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pop quizze guys - you take 3 weeks to know a couple - No means no. The dude has no excuse. No means no. Guys out there, if a woman tells you at any point, she is having a problem physically, mentally, emotionally or in any other shape or form, it does not matter how much you want the sex to happen, or how deep into the sex groove you may already be, stop. It is pretty telling, about the character of a man, when a woman tells a man, she is in some form of discomfort and he just pushes on. No means no and stop means stop. No means no it's not a fucking code word or a misinterpret-able safe word it means no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It means NO in more than one language!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Something to consider. Guys that begin a online conversation, or a booty call, or their profile, with something that ask a lady to prove they are actually down with having sex, or that a woman that is serious about having sex, right now, is more valid than a woman interested in maybe having sex, if everything is right, might actually be saying she is less valid if she won't have sex with him. He might be the kind of guy that ends up in the old ultra selfish, come on you know you want it control loop. Guys like that are worthless. There are quite a few guys both married and single on this site into the old slut shaming, she is asking for it, she is on a swingers site, she better deliver bull shit. Men never, ever, ever, ever expect your lady to settle. Monogamy is far better than that.

SWING CLUBS - - This seems like a pretty standard thing for a swingers site and would be a welcome addition, especially if there's a chance to rate and/or offer comments on clubs. This would probably also be a big help in getting more couples validated, if there's a common place to meet someone. Actually, anything in the "info" section would be nice. Administrators, any idea when some of the proposed additions will be made? :)

Does anybody really... - ANOTHER annoying poll. - ...fuck anymore? We've talked to quite a few people who have been in the lifestyle for some time now and have yet to hook up and fuck so we thought we'd ask the obvious question as to whether swingers actually still hook up and fuck each other. *Disclaimer: Though we've been in the lifestyle for a long time we've never been SUPER active and have actually gone months at a time and even, occasionally, a few YEARS without playing. In fact, right now it's been probably 2-3 years since we've actually fucked anyone else because life has a tendency to totally get in the way sometimes. 1) Yes, actually. We hook-up and fuck regularly. We're actually quite slutty and fuck other people every chance we get...and that's fairly often. 2) Nope. Swinger sex is just an urban legend...a myth. Nobody really fucks anyone else. Only in Penthouse Letters...or in bad pornos. 3) 2 or 3 YEARS?!!? What are you, monks?!!? 4) We've been wondering the same thing. We're sorta new and have yet to fuck anybody. 5) Swinging is dead. It's been replaced by CrossFit and video games. 6) We'll fuck you, Evil. We're totally into throwing someone a pity fuck. 7) We wouldn't fuck you guys with somebody ELSE'S genitals! 8) You should try the nude beach at the GSL. One billion brine flies can't be wrong. 9) Sex with others is SCARY. We're just here for the titillation factor. 10) You think YOU have trouble getting laid. Try being a single male. 11) Feel free to add your own poll answer. ps-We're NOT trying to get laid. We're just bored (and a little drunk) on a Sunday evening and there's nothing good on TV. [em]Emo_70[/em]

Alice in Naughtyland??? - Where's the party? - Oh and btw, HUGE swing party tonight at the Sheraton downtown. Word is there are BUSLOADS of swingers that are there (drive down 5th South if you don't believe me) and checked in already in anticipation for the big orgy later this evening. Be there or be square!

Swing Clubs - - We have never been to a swing club. We usually prefer more intimate settings, but I have wanted to see what it is like. Possibly easier than meeting couples online? What is everyones take on them, and what is the proper ettiquette regarding meeting and approaching people in the swingers clubs. Also which vegas/pheonix clubs are the best? Thanks guys!:p Mrs.T

Hot wife play - all you new single men read this - Rather than just complaining we thought we offer a word about what many swinging couples might mean when they say yes to single men in their profile. This is mostly for all the new single guys, that really are single guys, that recently joined the site and the ones that have been here a while and still fail to prosper. "Hot Wife" is often used synonymous with the term Cuckold, but it is NOT how most swinger couples view “Hot Wife Play” so don't come off like the jerks in the porn you may be watching. Hot Wife Play for most of the swingers we know in Salt Lake is where the husband feels he has the hottest woman in the world, and wants to share her, and the wife enjoys all the erotic attention his devotion and fantasy creates for her. When in the mood, swinger couples are not looking for a sexual replacement for the husband, but rather a sex life enhancement adventure to share that includes a single man. The single man lucky enough to be a part of this sort of thing must be very respectful. The stuff of fantasy! Not all men measure up. Our wives don't want to be with physically or emotionally mediocre men. Husbands don't want to watch their wives with mediocre men. Cheaters, as in married men, playing without their wives should not prosper. Polite, respectful, attractive, intelligent and good humored single men can, and will do well in the swing community. We know some great guys. Maybe they should teach lessons. Single men need to take the emphasis off of "Hot Wife" as a singular fixation or lifestyle for couples that say “yes” to single men in their profile. Single men should consider it more of a fantasy and a pleasure for couples to make a reality, when that is what they desire, and they as single men can be part of that reality, if they are what the couple wants. Couples swing in other realms and often prefer couples hook ups most of the time. In other words, let's not consider it any more than what it is, a fantasy, and a possible reality that couples can use to hopefully enhance their relationship and single men can use to have sex with an incredibly passionate and orgasmic woman. Swinger couples, like us, sometimes wish to focus our attention on our hot wife's sexual fulfillment. She is so sexy that watching her in passion's full embrace, with another man can be extremely rewarding and erotic. As for me I watch until I can no longer wait to join in and ravish her. Sharing keeps a couple on their toes and their sex life exciting. Swinging couples usually try and stay sexy, attractive and interesting not just for any new lovers but for each other. The introduction of a sexy, new and different man in the equation is what ads all the spice in Hot Wife Play. Just because a guy is horny and he has a dick does not ad up to sexy or spice up the relationship. If a single guy wants to live the fantasy he needs to first become the fantasy. When a woman is just so sexually hot, that she is a gift to the world, and her passions and her orgasms cross over into the realm of the sacred, then encouraging the chosen, to join in such divine pussy worship is in reality a total fucking blast!! That is why we check yes to single men in our profiles and not because some guys have a dick and want to use it. Additional tips: Look good Smell good Have a sense of humor Be respectful Be patient Be honest Be healthy Be confident Be willing to host Good luck to all and have fun!

Fast lane travel in the digital age - Swinging - The internet was already up and running when we started swinging and AFF existed but as for local swingers parties and meet and greets they were still not something you could stumble across by surfing the internet. AFF had been up and running for a while we think and we and a few of our friends tried the short term look and see memberships which we dropped. We did not even dabble in AFF until after we had been to a few events and had swing sex. Swingular was actually around but not quite so popular. We remember going to a meet and greet at Club Vegas and having some friends there tell us about it. All the couples at the table were just hearing about the site and we ended up joining and yes membership has some real advantages. It did not take long before Swingular was commonly recognized and used here in Utah. We actually had a membership under a different handle a while back that we closed. We did not stop swinging altogether we just played less and only with established friends or if we met someone that was friends of a friend. We rejoined Swingular in 2011 and well here we are. Since rejoining we have met a few people we did not yet know prior to re-establishing our membership because of the site. I was about to say we have not hooked up much with this profile but in actuality we can think of 10 new people we have had some sexual naked fun with since we re-joined and only 2 of the aforementioned people we met without first having some profile interchange. Damn we are slutty, slutty little slutty, slut, slut, sluts. So forget everything I said the internet works and Swingular rocks! We have noticed a bit less civility and respect in the digital discussions these days but if the magic is still happening in behind closed doors then it is working. Reading forum content is a safe way to determine who to avoid anyway! Just be careful out there people!!

looking for couples who want to be dominated - Couples domination - [quote=LOVEWIVES10]I want to come over and use you both; you both will do EVERYTHING I say! I may spank you or both of you; I might take either or both of you in the ass; I may make one or both suck my dick and lick not only my balls but my ass; I will humiliate you both.[/quote]You may not use us LOVEWIVES10, You may not even stick it in. We will not lick your cock and balls, Nor lick your ass, from which sperm falls. You will not take just one or both, To you we give this solemn oath. You cannot spank, you silly elf, You only humiliate yourself! So if you like it in the ass, The swingers here, have too much class. Look farther East, for one to pork, Cuz isn't your mama from New York??? ~ROCK~

New Primary Picture Policies - Starting March 1st, 2009 - I wonder if our main pic would be considers an obvious sexual act. For the most part we have decent pics but I would like to point out that most people with dirty pics are real swingers but there seems to be a lot of new members with "decent" main photos that are frauds. we have just spent the last 3 days chatting and making plans with a perv that has pics of his kids. If any one would like to know who this new member is hit us up and we will forward this s*#! heads profile to u.

Equal Treatmeat for all singles - singles - There are a lot of good points that have been made but the reality of it is this, whether you want to believe it or not. Swingers are in this lifestyle for the fun. The majority of swingers are couples and some would even argue that you have to be a couple to be considered a swinger but that's another topic. Swingers are here to connect with others whether for sex or friendship. If it is for sex, it is for the fun of sex to enjoy with other like minded people. Some choose to have this sex with other couples, some choose to have this sex with single males or single females. We all have the right to choose. If we choose not to have sex with single males, it doesn't mean we have some sort of trust or self-confidence issues, it just means it's not what we want to do. Same with couples or single females. Yes, single men are a dime a dozen and that is where the problem lies. There are thousands and thousands of single men who enter this lifestyle and most of them do it because of the sex. They have no understanding of or respect for the lifestyle and so their actions give the ones who do a bad name. So with that said, let's say the percentage of bad single men compared to non is 95%. Now, that doesn't mean there are some bad single women or bad couples. But let's put this into perspective. The number of single women in this lifestyle is a very, very small percentage. Yet, let's say the percent of bad single women compared to non is only 5%. And couples, well, they are already a couple with both a guy and a girl and they are already given a free pass into the lifestyle because, well, they are a couple so we'll leave them out of this equation. So now you have two different seals. The Real Seal and the VIP Seal. They both serve a similar purpose; to show that you have somehow proven that you are a real person or couple. The difference is that the VIP which stands for Validated In Person can only be given out by an admin or local host. And the person holding the VIP is the only person other than an admin or local host that can issue a REAL seal. Make sense? Now, as a single male in that 95%, what do you care most about? Probably getting laid and seeing as many pictures as you can. After trying unsuccessfully to get people to send you pictures or give you access to their private photo albums, you decide to create a fake profile as a single female or couple. What are your chances of creating that profile and getting someone to show you their private collection? Better, but not by much because a lot of couples will not show them to you unless you have a REAL or VIP seal. So it deters them from becoming picture collectors. But wait, if that single male was able to somehow get a VIP seal on his single male profile, he could now validate his own fake profile as REAL and raise his chances of seeing more private albums and faking his way on this site. Now you tell me who is more likely going to fake a profile. A couple? A single female? or a single male? I'll tell you who, it's not going to be a couple or a single female because that is what most people are looking for so why would they need to? It's a sad reality but it's reality. And that is why we have the seals in the first place, otherwise, why would we need them? Now for parties and such, the reason why single females are mostly allowed and single men are not is for similar reasons as mentioned earlier. You have more single guys interested in this lifestyle than single women and it's more likely you would have 100 single men at a party and only a handful of women. As a couple, especially a new couple, that's pretty intimidating and out of those 100 single men, if 95% of them had no respect for the lifestyle, what are the chances that something bad could happen? Even if it was only 20%, the chances of some single male ruining it for the rest is pretty high? Get my point? So that is why you rarely see parties that allow single men. And it really sucks for those singles who are gentlemen. Again, it's a sad reality but it's reality. For all you single men out there who are in this lifestyle for the right reasons, keep doing what you are doing and someone will notice you. There are plenty of people looking for single men but you have to make yourself stand out from the crowd. Be patient and don't try too hard and eventually it will come to you. I hope this sheds a little light on this subject. These percentages may not be exact but it's a close scenario. I've been in this lifestyle for a very long time and some of that was as a single male so I know both sides. It's not being discriminatory, it's what has to be done to protect the main people in this lifestyle and that's the couple. Unfortunately, because of that, the single male gets the short end of the stick. But it has to happen, otherwise you would scare off the majority of couples interested in this lifestyle and without them, you have no one to meet in the first place. You might as well just post an ad on a regular dating site if that was the case.

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